you can't give up because the space has already been claimed. show up sister there is room. do the things you never dreamed possible. and be willing to start at zero. you don't just not play the game because you start at zero points.

how often are we just trying to fit. i spent too many years of my life hiding who i truly am to fit a mold not made for me. today we are talking through identities made for you and others not.

my daughter asked why there has never been a girl president. i was speechless which is rare. it got me thinking about the death of our dreams and are there more dreams projected on us as women than there are men. are we recovering from the death of dreams we never had, therefore, placing us in spaces of impossibility?

speaking of dreams. i do not want you to dream and not do. today we are talking about setting yourself up to take steps. those steps come from backing in to your dreams. break it down...all the way down.

sure accountability is a piece of you finding the right fit but don't lose track of holding the other side accountable as well. 

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sure accountability is a piece of you finding the right fit but don't lose track of holding the other side accountable as well.

hey there just living proof that not all journeys come without failure. i am telling you as i ate the nutella on white bread i remembered how i had just done so great and now i suck?....really. that is just it. you will not get it right 100% of the time it is about outlasting the wrong and doing the best you can given your current situation and build up. build up on a foundation of health.

sometimes it will take a grind. like a HARD one. your hustability (not a word) will carry your past anything but you have to be willing to show up as a sacrifice. a sacrifice of self. be willing to look silly. to get it wrong. to fail. and get back up.

the entire world prior to leaving school had wins built in every four to six months. you were celebrated you had a line in the sand and a level up opportunity. then you leave that and....nothing. no wonder we all wander feeling lost and disengaged and looking to belong and for purpose. we were built in a world that doesn't align with actual operation.

we put a lot of pressure on our 18-year-old selves to get it right for our life. choose right then and there and any deviation from that vision at that moment is perceived as a failure. i know my life as i saw it was going to be a golden ticket based on my athletic ability and i audaciously dreamed that path would unlock all the doors. when that didn't i shrunk in all forms. i didn't have a strong pivot from the death of my dream.