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Have you ever wondered if people love you for who you are… or for what you do for them?
Sometimes we become so used to being the helper, the fixer, the dependable one, that our value starts to feel tied to how much we give. We begin to mistake being needed for being loved, and without realizing it, we build relationships around responsibility instead of genuine connection.
In this episode of Healing After Hours, we're having an honest conversation about the difference between being loved and being needed, why the two can feel so similar, and how confusing them can leave you emotionally exhausted.
If you've ever felt guilty for saying no, afraid that people would leave if you stopped doing so much, or wondered whether people truly know you beyond what you provide, this conversation is for you.
Maybe real love isn't found in how much you carry for everyone else.
Maybe it's found in finally believing you're worthy of being loved, even when you're not carrying anyone at all.
⚠️ PODCAST DISCLAIMER
This podcast is shared for emotional encouragement, reflection, and faith-centered conversation. It is not a substitute for professional mental health care, therapy, medical advice, or licensed counseling.
If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or need professional support, please seek help from a qualified professional.
🔗 CONNECT & CONTINUE
If this conversation resonated with you, follow Healing After Hours so you always have a place to return to for honest conversations about healing, relationships, emotional well-being, and personal growth.
This podcast is for anyone learning to heal, set healthier boundaries, and discover their worth beyond what they do for other people.
Support the show
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Healing After Hours Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@HealingAfterHours
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Blog- https://substack.com/@healingafterhours
Healing After Hours Podcast - https://healingafterhourswithshaniqua.buzzsprout.com
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By Shaniqua SmithSend me a message if you have any questions or comments!
Have you ever wondered if people love you for who you are… or for what you do for them?
Sometimes we become so used to being the helper, the fixer, the dependable one, that our value starts to feel tied to how much we give. We begin to mistake being needed for being loved, and without realizing it, we build relationships around responsibility instead of genuine connection.
In this episode of Healing After Hours, we're having an honest conversation about the difference between being loved and being needed, why the two can feel so similar, and how confusing them can leave you emotionally exhausted.
If you've ever felt guilty for saying no, afraid that people would leave if you stopped doing so much, or wondered whether people truly know you beyond what you provide, this conversation is for you.
Maybe real love isn't found in how much you carry for everyone else.
Maybe it's found in finally believing you're worthy of being loved, even when you're not carrying anyone at all.
⚠️ PODCAST DISCLAIMER
This podcast is shared for emotional encouragement, reflection, and faith-centered conversation. It is not a substitute for professional mental health care, therapy, medical advice, or licensed counseling.
If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or need professional support, please seek help from a qualified professional.
🔗 CONNECT & CONTINUE
If this conversation resonated with you, follow Healing After Hours so you always have a place to return to for honest conversations about healing, relationships, emotional well-being, and personal growth.
This podcast is for anyone learning to heal, set healthier boundaries, and discover their worth beyond what they do for other people.
Support the show
Pure & Lovely Prints Etsy- https://pureandlovelyprints.etsy.com
Healing After Hours Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@HealingAfterHours
Onemomentinhispresence Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@Onemoment_inhispresence
Blog- https://substack.com/@healingafterhours
Healing After Hours Podcast - https://healingafterhourswithshaniqua.buzzsprout.com