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  • BW18 – The Third Degree of Humility – The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life with Kris McGregor – Discerning Hearts Podcasts

    The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life: Learning to Listen to God with a Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor
    Episode 18 – The Third Degree of Humility

    In this episode of The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life, Kris McGregor reflects on the third degree of humility in Chapter 7 of the Holy Rule. St. Benedict brings humility into concrete daily life by placing it within relationships and legitimate authority. Humility is revealed not only in interior intention but in how the heart responds when another’s direction stands between personal preference and faithful action.

    This obedience is offered for the love of God and lived within the order of community and vocation. When what is asked belongs to truth and charity, the heart receives it as part of God’s providence. Benedict points directly to Christ, who entrusted Himself to the Father in obedience even unto death. Through ordinary acts of faithful response, this degree of humility trains the heart in freedom, where trust begins to replace resistance and fidelity grows steadily.

    Citations

    Benedict of Nursia, The Rule of Saint Benedict, Chapter 7 § 34-35 (RB 1980)

    “The third degree of humility is that a person submit himself in obedience to a superior,

    for the love of God,
    imitating the Lord, of whom the Apostle says:
    ‘He became obedient unto death.’”

    “Tertius humilitatis gradus est, ut subditus oboedientiam pro Dei amore maiori praebeat, imitans Dominum, de quo Apostolus dicit: Factus oboediens usque ad mortem.”

    Philippians 2:8, RSV–CE

    “And being found in human form he humbled himself and became obedient unto death, even death on a cross.”

    Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions
    1. How do I respond internally when I receive direction that interrupts my preference?

    2. Do I view obedience within legitimate authority as a burden or as part of God’s providence?

    3. Where in my vocation or daily responsibilities am I invited to practice relational humility?

    4. How does Christ’s obedience to the Father illuminate this degree of humility?

    5. What might change if I carried out a directive today simply and faithfully, without modifying it?

      For other episodes in this series, visit
      The Rule Of St. Benedict For Daily Life: Learning To Listen To God With A Discerning Heart
      Pick up a copy of The Rule of St. Benedict here

      Copyright © 2026 Kris McGregor. All rights reserved. No portion of this content may be reproduced, distributed, published, or transmitted in any form, including audio, print or digital media, without prior written permission from Discerning Hearts®.

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    6. Day 18: “The Prodigal Father’s Love” – Discerning Hearts Podcast

      A Lenten Spiritual Journey with Discerning Hearts: From Ashes to Glory – Discerning Hearts Podcast
      Day 18: “The Prodigal Father’s Love”

      Scripture Reading (Jerusalem Bible):

      Luke 15:20-24

      “So he set off and went to his father. But while he was still far off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion; he ran and put his arms around him and kissed him. Then the son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you; I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ But the father said to his servants, ‘Quickly, bring out a robe—the best one—and put it on him; put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. And get the fatted calf and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate; for this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found!’ And they began to celebrate.”

      Reflection:

      L His love is extravagant, almost shocking. While the son is still far off, the father runs to meet him, filled with compassion. There is no hesitation, no rebuke—only mercy, welcome, and joy.

      This parable reveals the heart of God: a Father who is always watching, always waiting, and always ready to embrace us, no matter how far we’ve strayed. God’s love is not transactional; it does not depend on our worthiness. He celebrates not because we have “earned” forgiveness but because we have come home to Him.

      The Desert Fathers also emphasized the boundless mercy of God. Abba Pambo said:

      “If you have a heart, you can be saved.” (Apophthegmata Patrum, Alphabetical Collection, Pambo 1)

      This simple yet profound saying reminds us that salvation begins with an open heart—a willingness to turn back to God. Similarly, St. Therese of Lisieux, reflecting on God’s mercy, wrote:

      “Even if I had committed all possible crimes, I would still have the same trust. I would throw myself into the arms of my Savior, full of sorrow but filled with confidence.” (Story of a Soul)

      As we reflect today, let us ask: Do we truly trust in God’s mercy, or do we hold back, believing our sins are too great to forgive? How can we, like the Prodigal Son, rise and return to the Father, confident in His love?

      Reflection Questions:
      1. Are there areas of your life where you struggle to accept God’s forgiveness and love?
      2. How does the father’s response in the parable challenge or inspire you?
      3. In what ways can you reflect God’s mercy to others who may feel unworthy or distant?
      4. Closing Prayer:

        Lord, You are a loving Father who runs to meet us when we turn back to You. Teach us to trust in Your mercy and to let go of the fear that keeps us from Your embrace. Help us to reflect Your love to others, welcoming them with the same compassion and joy. May we always celebrate the gift of Your forgiveness, which makes us alive again in You.

        Amen.

        This reflection is written by Kris McGregor of Discerning Hearts®. The Scripture passage is taken from the Jerusalem Bible (1966 edition), used with permission. No unauthorized use or reproduction is permitted without prior written consent.

         

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      5. 2nd Saturday of Lent – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast
        2nd Saturday of Lent – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast

        As you begin, take a deep breath and exhale slowly.  For at least the next few moments, surrender all the cares and concerns of this day to the Lord.

        Say slowly from your heart “Jesus, I Trust In You…You Take Over”

        Become aware that He is with you, looking upon you with love, wanting to be heard deep within in your heart…

        From the Holy Gospel of St. Luke 15:1-3,11-32

        The tax collectors and the sinners were all seeking the company of Jesus to hear what he had to say, and the Pharisees and the scribes complained. ‘This man’ they said ‘welcomes sinners and eats with them.’ So he spoke this parable to them:

        ‘A man had two sons. The younger said to his father, “Father, let me have the share of the estate that would come to me.” So the father divided the property between them. A few days later, the younger son got together everything he had and left for a distant country where he squandered his money on a life of debauchery.

        ‘When he had spent it all, that country experienced a severe famine, and now he began to feel the pinch, so he hired himself out to one of the local inhabitants who put him on his farm to feed the pigs. And he would willingly have filled his belly with the husks the pigs were eating but no one offered him anything. Then he came to his senses and said, “How many of my father’s paid servants have more food than they want, and here am I dying of hunger! I will leave this place and go to my father and say: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you; I no longer deserve to be called your son; treat me as one of your paid servants.” So he left the place and went back to his father.

        ‘While he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was moved with pity. He ran to the boy, clasped him in his arms and kissed him tenderly. Then his son said, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I no longer deserve to be called your son.” But the father said to his servants, “Quick! Bring out the best robe and put it on him; put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Bring the calf we have been fattening, and kill it; we are going to have a feast, a celebration, because this son of mine was dead and has come back to life; he was lost and is found.” And they began to celebrate.

        ‘Now the elder son was out in the fields, and on his way back, as he drew near the house, he could hear music and dancing. Calling one of the servants he asked what it was all about. “Your brother has come” replied the servant “and your father has killed the calf we had fattened because he has got him back safe and sound.” He was angry then and refused to go in, and his father came out to plead with him; but he answered his father, “Look, all these years I have slaved for you and never once disobeyed your orders, yet you never offered me so much as a kid for me to celebrate with my friends. But, for this son of yours, when he comes back after swallowing up your property – he and his women – you kill the calf we had been fattening.”

        ‘The father said, “My son, you are with me always and all I have is yours. But it was only right we should celebrate and rejoice, because your brother here was dead and has come to life; he was lost and is found.”’

        What word made this passage come alive for you?

        What did you sense the Lord saying to you?

        Once more give the Lord an opportunity to speak to you:

        The tax collectors and the sinners were all seeking the company of Jesus to hear what he had to say, and the Pharisees and the scribes complained. ‘This man’ they said ‘welcomes sinners and eats with them.’ So he spoke this parable to them:

        ‘A man had two sons. The younger said to his father, “Father, let me have the share of the estate that would come to me.” So the father divided the property between them. A few days later, the younger son got together everything he had and left for a distant country where he squandered his money on a life of debauchery.

        ‘When he had spent it all, that country experienced a severe famine, and now he began to feel the pinch, so he hired himself out to one of the local inhabitants who put him on his farm to feed the pigs. And he would willingly have filled his belly with the husks the pigs were eating but no one offered him anything. Then he came to his senses and said, “How many of my father’s paid servants have more food than they want, and here am I dying of hunger! I will leave this place and go to my father and say: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you; I no longer deserve to be called your son; treat me as one of your paid servants.” So he left the place and went back to his father.

        ‘While he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was moved with pity. He ran to the boy, clasped him in his arms and kissed him tenderly. Then his son said, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I no longer deserve to be called your son.” But the father said to his servants, “Quick! Bring out the best robe and put it on him; put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Bring the calf we have been fattening, and kill it; we are going to have a feast, a celebration, because this son of mine was dead and has come back to life; he was lost and is found.” And they began to celebrate.

        ‘Now the elder son was out in the fields, and on his way back, as he drew near the house, he could hear music and dancing. Calling one of the servants he asked what it was all about. “Your brother has come” replied the servant “and your father has killed the calf we had fattened because he has got him back safe and sound.” He was angry then and refused to go in, and his father came out to plead with him; but he answered his father, “Look, all these years I have slaved for you and never once disobeyed your orders, yet you never offered me so much as a kid for me to celebrate with my friends. But, for this son of yours, when he comes back after swallowing up your property – he and his women – you kill the calf we had been fattening.”

        ‘The father said, “My son, you are with me always and all I have is yours. But it was only right we should celebrate and rejoice, because your brother here was dead and has come to life; he was lost and is found.”’

        What did your heart feel as you listened?

        What did you sense the Lord saying to you?

        Once more, through Him, with Him and in Him listen to the Word:

        The tax collectors and the sinners were all seeking the company of Jesus to hear what he had to say, and the Pharisees and the scribes complained. ‘This man’ they said ‘welcomes sinners and eats with them.’ So he spoke this parable to them:

        ‘A man had two sons. The younger said to his father, “Father, let me have the share of the estate that would come to me.” So the father divided the property between them. A few days later, the younger son got together everything he had and left for a distant country where he squandered his money on a life of debauchery.

        ‘When he had spent it all, that country experienced a severe famine, and now he began to feel the pinch, so he hired himself out to one of the local inhabitants who put him on his farm to feed the pigs. And he would willingly have filled his belly with the husks the pigs were eating but no one offered him anything. Then he came to his senses and said, “How many of my father’s paid servants have more food than they want, and here am I dying of hunger! I will leave this place and go to my father and say: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you; I no longer deserve to be called your son; treat me as one of your paid servants.” So he left the place and went back to his father.

        ‘While he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was moved with pity. He ran to the boy, clasped him in his arms and kissed him tenderly. Then his son said, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I no longer deserve to be called your son.” But the father said to his servants, “Quick! Bring out the best robe and put it on him; put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Bring the calf we have been fattening, and kill it; we are going to have a feast, a celebration, because this son of mine was dead and has come back to life; he was lost and is found.” And they began to celebrate.

        ‘Now the elder son was out in the fields, and on his way back, as he drew near the house, he could hear music and dancing. Calling one of the servants he asked what it was all about. “Your brother has come” replied the servant “and your father has killed the calf we had fattened because he has got him back safe and sound.” He was angry then and refused to go in, and his father came out to plead with him; but he answered his father, “Look, all these years I have slaved for you and never once disobeyed your orders, yet you never offered me so much as a kid for me to celebrate with my friends. But, for this son of yours, when he comes back after swallowing up your property – he and his women – you kill the calf we had been fattening.”

        ‘The father said, “My son, you are with me always and all I have is yours. But it was only right we should celebrate and rejoice, because your brother here was dead and has come to life; he was lost and is found.”’

        What touched your heart in this time of prayer?

        What did your heart feel as you prayed?

        What do you hope to carry with you from this time with the Lord?

        Our Father, who art in heaven,

          hallowed be thy name.

        Thy kingdom come.

         Thy will be done on earth, as it is in heaven.

        Give us this day our daily bread,

         and forgive us our trespasses,

         as we forgive those who trespass against us,

        and lead us not into temptation,

         but deliver us from evil.

        Amen

        Excerpt from THE JERUSALEM BIBLE, copyright (c) 1966 by Darton, Longman & Todd, Ltd. and Doubleday, a division of Penguin Random House, Inc. Reprinted by Permission.

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      6. BW17 – The Second Degree of Humility – The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life with Kris McGregor – Discerning Hearts Podcasts

        The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life: Learning to Listen to God with a Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor
        Episode 17 – The Second Degree of Humility

        In this episode of The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life, Kris McGregor reflects on the second degree of humility in Chapter 7 of the Holy Rule. St. Benedict moves from awareness of God’s presence to the ordering of the human will. Humility becomes concrete when personal preference is placed within obedience to God.

        Self-will often appears reasonable and justified, yet it can quietly shape life around personal control and insistence. Benedictine formation gently loosens that grip. Looking to Christ, who came not to do His own will but the will of the Father, the heart learns to surrender preference and rest in trust. Over time, this practice forms a deeper freedom as the will becomes aligned with God rather than governed by personal inclination.

        Citations

        Benedict of Nursia, The Rule of Saint Benedict, Chapter 7 § 31 (RB 1980)

        “The second degree of humility is that a person loves not his own will

        nor takes pleasure in satisfying his desires,
        but imitates the Lord, of whom the Scripture says:
        ‘I came not to do my own will, but the will of him who sent me.’”

        “Secundus humilitatis gradus est, si propriam non amans voluntatem, nec delectetur implere desideria sua, sed imitatur Dominum, dicentem: Non veni facere voluntatem meam, sed eius qui me misit.”

        John 6:38  RSV–CE

        “For I have come down from heaven, not to do my own will, but the will of him who sent me.”

        Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions
        1. Where do I most strongly experience the pull of personal preference?
        2. How do I react when my plans or desires are interrupted?
        3. In what ways does Christ’s obedience to the Father challenge my understanding of freedom?
        4. Can I recognize the difference between a healthy desire and self-will that insists on control?
        5. What small opportunity today might allow me to yield my preference peacefully?
        6. For other episodes in this series, visit
          The Rule Of St. Benedict For Daily Life: Learning To Listen To God With A Discerning Heart
          Pick up a copy of The Rule of St. Benedict here

          Copyright © 2026 Kris McGregor. All rights reserved. No portion of this content may be reproduced, distributed, published, or transmitted in any form, including audio, print or digital media, without prior written permission from Discerning Hearts®.

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        7. GWWL3 – Oscar Wilde & The Picture of Dorian Gray – Great Works in Western Literature with Joseph Pearce – Discerning Hearts Podcasts

          Oscar Wilde & The Picture of Dorian Gray – Great Works in Western Literature with Joseph Pearce

          In this episode of The Great Works in Western Literature, Kris McGregor and Joseph Pearce explore the life, struggles, and literary genius of Oscar Wilde through his novel The Picture of Dorian Gray. Pearce presents Wilde as a man defined by paradox. Brilliant, witty, and celebrated in Victorian society, Wilde was also deeply conflicted, drawn both to worldly pleasure and to the truth he encountered in Christianity. This inner struggle forms the heart of The Picture of Dorian Gray, a novel that tells the story of a young man who trades his soul for eternal youth, only to discover that a life devoted to vanity and pleasure ultimately destroys both himself and those around him.

          The discussion reveals how Wilde’s novel is far more than a gothic story about youth and beauty. It is a moral and spiritual meditation on conscience, temptation, and conversion. The portrait that ages while Dorian remains outwardly beautiful becomes a powerful symbol of the human soul, revealing the consequences of sin hidden beneath appearances. Pearce also reflects on how the novel speaks to modern culture, where celebrity, pleasure, and the pursuit of youth often replace deeper truths about virtue, sacrifice, and lasting joy. Wilde’s life itself mirrors this tension, ending with his reception into the Catholic Church, a final act that fulfilled a lifelong spiritual longing.

          You can purchase a copy of the book here.
          Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions
          1. In The Picture of Dorian Gray, the portrait reveals the corruption hidden within the soul. What does this image teach us about the difference between outward appearance and the true condition of the heart?

          2. Dorian Gray pursues pleasure, youth, and admiration at any cost. What dangers arise when a person seeks happiness only through pleasure or reputation rather than through virtue?

          3. The story shows how small compromises gradually lead Dorian further away from goodness. In your own life, how can seemingly small choices shape the direction of the heart over time?

          4. Joseph Pearce notes that literature allows us to learn from the lives of others. How can reading stories like The Picture of Dorian Gray help us recognize temptation and choose a better path?

          5. Wilde’s own life was marked by both weakness and a longing for truth that eventually led him to the Catholic Church. What does this remind us about God’s mercy and the possibility of conversion even after great failure?

          6. Modern culture often glorifies youth, celebrity, and self-indulgence. How does the warning found in The Picture of Dorian Gray challenge us to pursue a deeper and more lasting joy rooted in truth and virtue?

            You can learn more about Joseph’s books, teaching, and writing visit his website Joseph Pearce: Celebrating the True, the Good and the Beautiful  at jpearce.co

            A native of England, Joseph Pearce is the internationally acclaimed author of many books, which include bestsellers such as The Quest for Shakespeare, Tolkien: Man and Myth, The Unmasking of Oscar Wilde, C. S. Lewis and The Catholic Church, Literary Converts, Wisdom and Innocence: A Life of G.K. Chesterton, Solzhenitsyn: A Soul in Exile and Old Thunder: A Life of Hilaire Belloc. His books have been published and translated into Spanish, Portuguese, French, Dutch, Italian, Korean, Mandarin, Croatian and Polish.

            He has hosted two 13-part television series about Shakespeare on EWTN, and has also written and presented documentaries on EWTN on the Catholicism of The Lord of the Rings and The Hobbit. His verse drama, Death Comes for the War Poets, was performed off-Broadway to critical acclaim. He has participated and lectured at a wide variety of international and literary events at major colleges and universities in the U.S., Canada, Britain, Europe, Africa and South America.

            He is Visiting Professor of Literature at Ave Maria University and Visiting Chair of Catholic Studies at Thomas More College of Liberal Arts (Merrimack, New Hampshire). He is editor of the St. Austin Review, series editor of the Ignatius Critical Editions, senior instructor with Homeschool Connections, and senior contributor at the Imaginative Conservative and Crisis Magazine. His personal website is www.jpearce.co.

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          7. SC-3 – The 6th, 7th, and 8th Stations – Stations of the Cross with Deacon James Keating

            Episode 3 -Stations of the Cross: Reflections with Deacon James Keating

            The Stations of the Cross – one of the most powerful devotionals alive in the heart of the Church. Reflecting and deeply meditating on the Passion of the Christ, Deacon Keating guides us through the 6th station (Veronica wipes the face of Jesus), the 7th station (Jesus falls a 2nd time), and the 8th station (Jesus encounters the women of Jerusalem) along the Way of the Cross.

            Deacon James Keating, Ph.D., is a professor of Spiritual Theology and serves as a spiritual director at Kenrick Glennon Seminary in St. Louis, MO.

            Check out Deacon Keating’s “Discerning Heart” page

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          8. Day 17: “God’s Steadfast Love and Forgiveness” – Discerning Hearts Podcast

            A Lenten Spiritual Journey with Discerning Hearts: From Ashes to Glory – Discerning Hearts Podcast
            Day 17: “God’s Steadfast Love and Forgiveness”

            Scripture Reading (Jerusalem Bible):

            Micah 7:18-19

            “Who is a God like you, pardoning iniquity and passing over the transgression of the remnant of your possession? He does not retain his anger forever because he delights in showing steadfast love. He will again have compassion upon us; he will tread our iniquities underfoot. You will cast all our sins into the depths of the sea.”

            Reflection:

            Today’s scripture draws us into the heart of God’s steadfast love and mercy. “He does not retain His anger forever because He delights in showing steadfast love.” These words from the prophet Micah remind us of the boundless mercy of God, who longs not to condemn but to forgive, to heal, and to restore.

            God’s forgiveness is not something we earn; it is a gift freely given. Yet, this gift calls for a response from us—a willingness to turn back to Him with contrite hearts. Lent is a time to embrace this call to repentance and to trust in God’s promise to “cast all our sins into the depths of the sea.” No matter how far we may feel from Him, His mercy is always greater.

            The Desert Fathers knew that the path to forgiveness often began with humility and the courage to face one’s own weaknesses. Abba Moses the Black said:

            “The one who knows his sins is greater than the one who raises the dead.” (Apophthegmata Patrum, Alphabetical Collection, Moses 11)

            Similarly, St. Faustina Kowalska, the Apostle of Divine Mercy, reminds us:

            “The greater the sinner, the greater the right they have to My mercy.” (Diary of St. Faustina, 723)

            God’s mercy is not limited by our failures. It is infinite, waiting to embrace us when we turn to Him in trust. As we reflect today, let us ask: How can we open our hearts more fully to God’s forgiveness? And how can we extend that same mercy to others, reflecting the love we ourselves have received?

            Reflection Questions:
            1. How does God’s steadfast love and forgiveness inspire us to return to Him with trust?
            2. What areas of our lives are in need of healing and repentance?
            3. How can we reflect God’s mercy in our relationships with others, especially those who have hurt us?
            4. Closing Prayer:

              Lord, You are rich in mercy and delight in showing steadfast love. Teach us to trust in Your forgiveness and to turn back to You with humble hearts. Cast away our sins and fill us with Your healing grace. May Your mercy transform our lives so that we may reflect Your love and compassion to the world. Amen.

               

              This reflection is written by Kris McGregor of Discerning Hearts®. The Scripture passage is taken from the Jerusalem Bible (1966 edition), used with permission. No unauthorized use or reproduction is permitted without prior written consent.

               

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            5. 2nd Friday of Lent – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast
              2nd Friday of Lent – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast

              As you begin, take a deep breath and exhale slowly.  For at least the next few moments, surrender all the cares and concerns of this day to the Lord.

              Say slowly from your heart “Jesus, I Trust In You…You Take Over”

              Become aware that He is with you, looking upon you with love, wanting to be heard deep within in your heart…

              From the Holy Gospel of St. Matthew 21:33-43,45-46

              Jesus said to the chief priests and the elders of the people, ‘Listen to another parable. There was a man, a landowner, who planted a vineyard; he fenced it round, dug a winepress in it and built a tower; then he leased it to tenants and went abroad. When vintage time drew near he sent his servants to the tenants to collect his produce. But the tenants seized his servants, thrashed one, killed another and stoned a third. Next he sent some more servants, this time a larger number, and they dealt with them in the same way. Finally he sent his son to them. “They will respect my son” he said. But when the tenants saw the son, they said to each other, “This is the heir. Come on, let us kill him and take over his inheritance.” So they seized him and threw him out of the vineyard and killed him. Now when the owner of the vineyard comes, what will he do to those tenants?’ They answered, ‘He will bring those wretches to a wretched end and lease the vineyard to other tenants who will deliver the produce to him when the season arrives.’ Jesus said to them, ‘Have you never read in the scriptures:

              It was the stone rejected by the builders

              that became the keystone.
              This was the Lord’s doing
              and it is wonderful to see?

              ‘I tell you, then, that the kingdom of God will be taken from you and given to a people who will produce its fruit.’

              When they heard his parables, the chief priests and the scribes realised he was speaking about them, but though they would have liked to arrest him they were afraid of the crowds, who looked on him as a prophet.

              What word made this passage come alive for you?

              What did you sense the Lord saying to you?

              Once more give the Lord an opportunity to speak to you:

              Jesus said to the chief priests and the elders of the people, ‘Listen to another parable. There was a man, a landowner, who planted a vineyard; he fenced it round, dug a winepress in it and built a tower; then he leased it to tenants and went abroad. When vintage time drew near he sent his servants to the tenants to collect his produce. But the tenants seized his servants, thrashed one, killed another and stoned a third. Next he sent some more servants, this time a larger number, and they dealt with them in the same way. Finally he sent his son to them. “They will respect my son” he said. But when the tenants saw the son, they said to each other, “This is the heir. Come on, let us kill him and take over his inheritance.” So they seized him and threw him out of the vineyard and killed him. Now when the owner of the vineyard comes, what will he do to those tenants?’ They answered, ‘He will bring those wretches to a wretched end and lease the vineyard to other tenants who will deliver the produce to him when the season arrives.’ Jesus said to them, ‘Have you never read in the scriptures:

              It was the stone rejected by the builders

              that became the keystone.
              This was the Lord’s doing
              and it is wonderful to see?

              ‘I tell you, then, that the kingdom of God will be taken from you and given to a people who will produce its fruit.’

              When they heard his parables, the chief priests and the scribes realised he was speaking about them, but though they would have liked to arrest him they were afraid of the crowds, who looked on him as a prophet.

              What did your heart feel as you listened?

              What did you sense the Lord saying to you?

              Once more, through Him, with Him and in Him listen to the Word:

              Jesus said to the chief priests and the elders of the people, ‘Listen to another parable. There was a man, a landowner, who planted a vineyard; he fenced it round, dug a winepress in it and built a tower; then he leased it to tenants and went abroad. When vintage time drew near he sent his servants to the tenants to collect his produce. But the tenants seized his servants, thrashed one, killed another and stoned a third. Next he sent some more servants, this time a larger number, and they dealt with them in the same way. Finally he sent his son to them. “They will respect my son” he said. But when the tenants saw the son, they said to each other, “This is the heir. Come on, let us kill him and take over his inheritance.” So they seized him and threw him out of the vineyard and killed him. Now when the owner of the vineyard comes, what will he do to those tenants?’ They answered, ‘He will bring those wretches to a wretched end and lease the vineyard to other tenants who will deliver the produce to him when the season arrives.’ Jesus said to them, ‘Have you never read in the scriptures:

              It was the stone rejected by the builders

              that became the keystone.
              This was the Lord’s doing
              and it is wonderful to see?

              ‘I tell you, then, that the kingdom of God will be taken from you and given to a people who will produce its fruit.’

              When they heard his parables, the chief priests and the scribes realised he was speaking about them, but though they would have liked to arrest him they were afraid of the crowds, who looked on him as a prophet.

              What touched your heart in this time of prayer?

              What did your heart feel as you prayed?

              What do you hope to carry with you from this time with the Lord?

              Our Father, who art in heaven,

                hallowed be thy name.

              Thy kingdom come.

               Thy will be done on earth, as it is in heaven.

              Give us this day our daily bread,

               and forgive us our trespasses,

               as we forgive those who trespass against us,

              and lead us not into temptation,

               but deliver us from evil.

              Amen

              Excerpt from THE JERUSALEM BIBLE, copyright (c) 1966 by Darton, Longman & Todd, Ltd. and Doubleday, a division of Penguin Random House, Inc. Reprinted by Permission.

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            6. HR 2 – In Place of Many Vain Words, Silence – The Holy Rule of St. Benedict with Fr. Mauritius Wilde O.S.B – Discerning Hearts Podcast

              In Place of Materialism, Gratitude – The Holy Rule of St. Benedict with Fr. Mauritius Wilde O.S.B

              In this episode of The Holy Rule of St. Benedict: A Spiritual Path for Today’s World, Kris McGregor and Fr. Mauritius Wilde, OSB reflect on Chapter 6 of the Rule of St. Benedict, which addresses restraint of speech and the spiritual importance of silence. In a culture overflowing with words, St. Benedict proposes something countercultural: silence as the pathway to deeper listening. Drawing on Scripture and the wisdom of the monastic tradition, the Rule reminds us that “in a flood of words, you will not avoid sin.” Silence is not a rejection of speech, but a discipline that allows words to regain their meaning and weight.

              Fr. Mauritius explains that silence creates the space necessary to listen to God with the “ear of the heart,” the very first instruction of the Rule. Through intentional moments of quiet, prayer becomes more attentive, speech becomes more thoughtful, and the soul becomes receptive to God’s presence. Rather than an empty absence of sound, true silence is full, alive, and rooted in communion with God. In this way, the Benedictine tradition invites Christians to rediscover silence as a path to deeper prayer, humility, and spiritual freedom.

              From the Holy Rule of St. Benedict Chapter 6:
              CHAPTER VI
              Of Silence

              Let us do what the Prophet saith: “I said, I will take heed of my ways, that I sin not with my tongue: I have set a guard to my mouth, I was dumb, and was humbled, and kept silence even from good things” (Ps 38[39]:2-3).  Here the prophet showeth that, if at times we ought to refrain from useful speech for the sake of silence, how much more ought we to abstain from evil words on account of the punishment due to sin.

              Therefore, because of the importance of silence, let permission to speak be seldom given to perfect disciples even for good and holy and edifying discourse, for it is written: “In much talk thou shalt not escape sin” (Prov 10:19). And elsewhere: “Death and life are in the power of the tongue” (Prov 18:21). For it belongeth to the master to speak and to teach; it becometh the disciple to be silent and to listen. If, therefore, anything must be asked of the Superior, let it be asked with all humility and respectful submission. But coarse jests, and idle words or speech provoking laughter, we condemn everywhere to eternal exclusion; and for such speech we do not permit the disciple to open his lips.

              Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions
              1. St. Benedict teaches restraint of speech so that we may listen more deeply. How often do I allow true silence to enter my daily life?

              2. When I speak, do my words arise from reflection and prayer, or do they often flow without thought?

              3. What role does silence play in my personal prayer? Do I allow space to listen after speaking to God?

              4. How might practicing moments of intentional quiet help me become more attentive to God’s presence?

              5. Have I experienced the difference between an empty silence and a silence filled with peace and communion?

              6. In what ways might God be inviting me to listen more deeply with the “ear of the heart”?

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                Father Mauritius Wilde, OSB, Ph.D., did his philosophical, theological, and doctoral studies in Europe. He is the author of several books and directs retreats regularly. He serves as Prior at Sant’Anselmo in Rome.

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              7. BW16 – The First Degree of Humility – The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life with Kris McGregor – Discerning Hearts Podcasts

                The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life: Learning to Listen to God with a Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor
                Episode 16 – The First Degree of Humility

                In this episode of The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life, Kris McGregor reflects on the first degree of humility in Chapter 7 of the Holy Rule. St. Benedict begins with a simple but decisive foundation: keeping the fear of God always before our eyes. Humility begins when the heart lives with a steady awareness of God’s presence. This remembrance restores proper order to daily life and guards the heart from drifting into self-rule.

                The fear of God in the Benedictine tradition is reverence, an awareness of who God is and who we are before Him. When that awareness remains active, speech, choices and responses begin to fall into place. This episode explores how humility grows through ordinary remembrance, through small moments of attentiveness that keep the heart turned toward God throughout the day.

                Citations

                Benedict of Nursia, The Rule of Saint Benedict, Chapter 7 § 10 (RB 1980)

                “The first degree of humility, then, is that a person keep the fear of God always before his eyes

                and never forget it.”

                “Primus humilitatis gradus est, si timorem Dei ante oculos semper habens, oblivionem omnino fugiat.”

                Proverbs 7:1  RSV–CE

                “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction.”

                Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions
                1. Do I live my daily life with a conscious awareness of God’s presence?

                2. What happens in my heart when I forget God during ordinary moments?

                3. How does reverence for God influence the way I speak, decide and respond?

                4. Where in my day could I pause briefly and remember that my actions are lived before God?

                5. How does Christ’s constant relationship with the Father illuminate the first degree of humility?

                   

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