I used to have an ambivalent relationship with the word "wife."

Even though I had reached a point where it felt like SHE was calling me home, and I experienced such a deep dilation of my heart and womb whenever I felt into HER, there was another part of me that wanted to run far, far in the opposite direction.I wanted to be fully HIS, but I also wanted to be my "own woman."

I wanted to be cherished at that level, but I also wanted my freedom and independence.

I wanted to give myself to him completely, but I also wanted to make my love conditional and withhold my devotion.

I wanted to surrender to him with complete abandon, but I also wanted to remain in control.

It was an inner tug of war that lasted for longer than it needed to - and I believe it was because I had, what I would call the "wife wound."

I was carrying the belief that when I gave myself to my beloved completely...

That I would LOSE MYSELF TO HIM.

Check out my most recent podcast episode where I dive deep into what I mean by the "wife wound," and what lies on the other side of healing it.

If you're ready to heal your wife wound, and go on the journey of Holy WIFE-hood, then I would love for you to join us for my upcoming program, WIFE: An Initiation.

We begin March 4th.

Join us here. https://claudia-lucida.thrivecart.com/wife-an-initiation/

There are so many things that Jonathan and I did right in our relationship story, that allowed us to survive and thrive as a couple for over a decade.

And...there are countless things we did wrong - epic fails that we wish we could go back and redo!

For the first half of our relationship, bad modeling, childhood wounds, and poor mentorship cost of a ton of time and heartbreak - and ultimately forced us to find a different way that would allow our union to flourish.

This the first time we have ever shared our relationship story publicly.

#romance #marriage #relationships

In this episode, Jonathan and Claudia discuss the ways in which modern dating creates negative feedback loops in people’s love lives, and how those patterns develop unnecessary problems in finding your husband/king.

They then dive into the Four Ways to Create a Positive Feedback Loop in Your Courtship Journey, including: 

How to set the tone on the first date, utilizing the art of appreciation, ways to inspire masculine pursuing energy, and presenting him with opportunities to win.

If you are desiring to find your husband/king in the next 6 months to 1 year, we invite you to visit our website at www.ecstaticallyeverafter.com and book a complimentary love diagnostic call with our team.

In this episode, Claudia and Jonathan cover the Top 5 Reasons new age templating in relationships often leads to disaster, and what we can do about this.

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And if you are desiring to meet your king/husband in the next 3-9 months, then we invite you to a complimentary love diagnostic call.

Book at our website www.thedivineromance.com

In this episode, Claudia and Jonathan explore and mythbust the common belief that 'you will know your soulmate when you see them.'

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If you're ready to meet your man/husband in the next 6-9 months, we invite you to www(dot)ecstaticallyeverafter(dot)com to book a complimentary love connection call.

In this episode, functional medicine practitioner and CEO of Polarity Health, Asa Santiago, joins Claudia to discuss ways to optimize our hormones so we thrive in our most essential identities as men and women.

Asa fuses the fields of health and polarity and shares how metabolic modalities, including fasting, can restore our body to its natural design, and affect our masculine/feminine dynamics in dating.

You can learn more about Asa's work at polarizinghealth(dot)com.

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In this episode, Jonathan and Claudia dive into one of the biggest blocks that is keeping smart, successful women stuck, single, and alone for a lot longer than they need to be.

If you're a woman in your 20s, 30s, or 40s, who is being called to marriage, and you don't want to waste any more time messing around with the wrong men, then book a call with our team here to see if our 12-week program, The King's Road, is right for you.

All our love,

Jonathan and Claudia Phillips

In this podcast interview, marriage love coach Shiloh Minoh shares profound 'wife wisdom' with Claudia to help women create thriving lifelong unions with their spouse.

She offers tools to assist women 'silently suffering' in their marriages, who want to elevate the partnership to greater levels of love, chemistry, and romance. She discusses how to turn on your true feminine power, the unexpected dangers of criticizing your man, and the wife-skills to redefine and realign the power dynamics in your relationship.

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You can learn more about Shiloh's work at marriagewithpassion (dot) com.

And you can kickstart your Marriage Renaissance with Jonathan and Claudia by booking your 30-minute love connection call with us at Ecstatically Ever After (dot) com.

In this podcast, Claudia and Jonathan cover how casting a larger net will vastly improve your dating journey to being claimed, including:

1. How keeping a narrow net takes you out of your feminine essence and puts you into ‘hunting mode’

2. How you may be blocking yourself from the man that God wants to send you

3. And the cost of not getting any practice with real men so when your king comes around, you don’t know what to do and may lose him.

If you are a single lady serious about finding your king/husband in the next 6-9 months, then we invite you to book a complimentary 30-min love diagnostic call with us at ecstaticallyeverafter (dot) com

In this podcast, Jonathan and Claudia address a primary faulty premise that women bring into their dating lives that causes them to align with the worst in men instead of the best. We will go over 5 ways to reverse that pattern immediately, including:

* How to appreciate the men currently showing up in your life to magnetize more kings down the road.

* How to give men opportunities to win with you so that you inspire his innate nobility, chivalry and hero instinct.

* How to know what to look for in a truly marriage-minded man, so you can find the high-quality available suitors that may be outside your normal radar.

* Setting the bar appropriately so you are not 'settling' being claimed

* Respecting men by default for more allure, attraction, and romantic activation in your life.

If you're a lady desiring her king within the next 3-6 months, we invite you to book a complimentary Love Diagnostic Call via Ecstatically Ever After (dot) com.

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