Being told to "just be yourself" sounds supportive… until you're sitting in a live coaching session wondering what to say next and whether you're even helping the person in front of you.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I break down why "just be yourself" is actually some of the most misleading advice new coaches receive—and how it can quietly create more anxiety, overthinking, and imposter syndrome than confidence.

If you've been winging your sessions, second-guessing yourself afterward, or wondering if you're cut out for coaching at all, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026
• Listen to Episode 446. "Am I Even Helping My Clients?" Here's How to Tell: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/446-am-i-even-helping-my-clients-heres-how-to-tell/id1577282350?i=1000744263901
• Listen to Episode 447. What Coaching Sessions Actually Look Like (It's Simpler Than You Think): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/447-what-coaching-sessions-actually-look-like-its-simpler/id1577282350?i=1000744782104

What I Discuss:

• 02:47 Why "just be yourself" sounds supportive but often creates more confusion
• 04:23 How lack of structure leads to overthinking and post-session spirals
• 11:06 What actually builds confidence inside a coaching session
• 13:47 How competence (not vibes) is what calms your nervous system as a coach

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Coaching can feel intimidating—not because it's complicated, but because no one really explains what actually happens in a session.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm pulling back the curtain on what coaching sessions really look like and why they're far less intimidating than most new coaches imagine. We talk about the fear that comes up when you can't hide behind a screen, why that fear doesn't mean you're unqualified, and how having a simple, repeatable flow can completely change how confident you feel in the room. I also walk you through the three core phases of a coaching session, what your role actually is (and isn't), and how to stay in integrity without overstepping into therapy or advice-giving.

If you've been curious about coaching but feel stuck because you don't know what to say, how to lead, or how not to freeze in the moment, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026
• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification
• Listen to Episode 446. "Am I Even Helping My Clients?" Here's How to Tell: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/446-am-i-even-helping-my-clients-heres-how-to-tell/id1577282350?i=1000744263901
• Listen to Episode 439. How to Ask Powerful Coaching Questions That Lead to Real Client Transformations (Even If You Feel Inexperienced): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/439-how-to-ask-powerful-coaching-questions-that-lead/id1577282350?i=1000741330260
• Listen to Episode 435. How to Handle Breakdowns in a Coaching Session (And Turn Them Into Breakthroughs): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/435-how-to-handle-breakdowns-in-a-coaching-session/id1577282350?i=1000739098630

What I Discuss:

• 02:31 Why fear around live coaching sessions is so common and why it actually means you care
• 04:51 Normalizing the fear of "being on the hook" in real sessions
• 07:04 The simple flow most confident coaching sessions follow
• 09:15 The three main phases of a coaching session (without scripts or pressure)
• 13:00 How to stay in integrity and avoid overstepping your role

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever walked away from a coaching session wondering if you actually helped…or if you just had a "nice conversation"?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down one of the most common fears I hear from new (and even experienced) coaches: How do I know if my coaching is actually working? We're moving out of fear and into evidence, and I'm sharing practical, real-life ways to recognize client progress without overcomplicating it or turning coaching into a data-tracking nightmare.

Resources Mentioned:

• Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026

What I Discuss:

• 02:57 Why so many coaches secretly fear they're not actually helping their clients
• 03:51 How to tell if your coaching is working (without overthinking it or needing a spreadsheet)
• 05:43 The three subtle but powerful shifts that signal real client transformation
• 09:19 Simple ways to track progress that don't turn coaching into therapy or data collection
• 11:39 Why awareness alone can be a massive win for your clients

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever felt called to coach but noticed a quiet fear creeping in the moment you imagine actually doing it? Not just fear of being seen—but fear of messing it up, getting it wrong, or being exposed?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm unpacking what's really underneath that fear so many new coaches feel. We talk about why confidence issues usually aren't about confidence at all, how coaching isn't about fixing people but guiding them, and why caring deeply can actually make the fear feel louder—not smaller. I also share how learning real coaching skills and structure changes everything, and why you don't have to eliminate fear before you start—you just need to understand it.

If you've been wanting to coach but keep hesitating because you're scared you'll do it wrong or won't be good enough, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026
• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification

What I Discuss:

• 03:21 The deeper fears that show up as "confidence problems"
• 05:58 Why coaching isn't about fixing—but guiding
• 09:19 The fear of being exposed and what's really driving it
• 12:55 A free coaching bootcamp to help you build real skills
• 14:17 Final encouragement if fear has been holding you back

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Today, I'm having a very real, very honest conversation with you about what it actually takes to build a coaching business that works—without sugarcoating it, especially if you want to start coaching this 2026. This is the kind of tough-love talk I wish someone had given me earlier, and I'm sharing it now because 2026 deserves a different version of you.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification

What I Discuss:

• 00:37 A tough-love truth about why you didn't hit your goals
• 01:49 Why winging it keeps your coaching business stuck
• 04:26 How fear and imposter syndrome actually show up (and slow you down)
• 07:00 Why confidence comes from structure and reps—not hype
• 13:11 Final motivation as you look ahead to 2026

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever looked at how much work you're doing in your coaching business and thought, "Why am I so busy but still not getting clients?" If so, this episode is going to hit home.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down something I see all the time with new (and even not-so-new) coaches: staying busy with tasks that feel productive, but don't actually move the needle. We talk about why talking to real humans can feel way more intimidating than creating content or Canva graphics, what I call "safe productivity," and why confidence as a coach doesn't come from posting more.

If you've been doing all the things but still feel stuck, avoiding real conversations, or wondering why your effort isn't translating into clients, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification

What I Discuss:

• 01:39 Why talking to real humans can feel scarier than posting content
• 04:38 The difference between safe productivity and real coaching work
• 08:11 How confidence is built through reps, structure, and practice
• 12:43 Final encouragement if you've been hiding behind busy work

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

In this episode, I talk about a question I hear all the time from women who want to coach but feel stuck: Do I need to be fully healed before I'm allowed to help someone else? Especially around the holidays—when emotions, reflection, grief, and hope can all collide—this doubt gets even louder.

If you've been feeling pulled to coach but keep stopping yourself because you're still healing, growing, or rebuilding, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification
• Listen to The Confident Coach Secret Podcast Series: https://products.ambershaw.com/confident-coach

What I Discuss:

• 00:54 Why the holidays can bring up doubt, reflection, and big questions about what's next
• 02:15 Feeling the desire to coach while still navigating your own growth
• 04:12 The self-doubt that stops so many women from getting started
• 09:03 Why structure, practice, and boundaries matter more than being "fully healed"
• 15:42 A free gift to help you take the next step without waiting for perfection

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever been asked what you do as a coach… and suddenly found yourself fumbling, overexplaining, or defaulting to vague phrases that don't actually land? Or maybe you know what you do in your head, but saying it out loud feels clunky or overly formal.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm talking about why "coach speak" actually gets in the way of connection—and how learning to explain what you do in simple, real-life language can completely change how potential clients respond to you.

If you've been struggling to clearly explain what you do, worried about sounding salesy, or hiding behind vague language because you don't feel confident yet, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification

What I Discuss:

• 01:36 Why clear communication matters more than sounding "professional"
• 03:06 Why coaching jargon muddies your message instead of helping it
• 08:37 The Fourth Grader Test—and why it's such a powerful filter
• 10:58 How to simplify what you say without dumbing it down
• 13:46 The real fears that keep coaches vague (and how to move past them)
• 16:12 How clarity builds trust faster than anything else

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Are you walking into the new year feeling excited… but also a little scattered about what you're actually focusing on in your business?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm walking you through how I plan Q1 as a coach—and how you can do the same in a way that feels intentional, realistic, and sustainable (especially as a divorced mom).

If you've been feeling reactive in your business, overwhelmed by what to focus on next, or unsure how to turn your goals into a real plan you can follow, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Listen to Episode 439. How to Ask Powerful Coaching Questions That Lead to Real Client Transformations: https://ambershaw.com/podcasts/439-how-to-ask-powerful-coaching-questions/
• Listen to Episode 399. How to Sell in the DMs Without Feeling Salesy or Awkward: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/399-how-to-sell-in-the-dms-without-feeling-salesy-or-awkward/id1577282350?i=1000719468337
• Listen to Episode 407. Why Your Posts Aren't Turning Into Clients (And What to Do Instead): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/407-why-your-posts-arent-turning-into-clients-and/id1577282350?i=1000723411614
• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification
• Check out ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/renewu

What I Discuss:

• 00:51 Why planning is essential if you don't want to run your business in survival mode
• 03:55 How to set realistic revenue goals based on where you actually are
• 06:16 Reverse-engineering your goals so you know exactly what needs to happen
• 11:53 Why consistency—not hustle—is what really moves the needle
• 14:46 Your Q1 homework

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever worried that you'll freeze in a coaching session because you don't know what to ask next? Or felt like you're not "experienced enough" to lead someone through a real breakthrough? This fear comes up all the time—especially for new coaches—and it's exactly why I wanted to record this episode.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down how to ask powerful coaching questions even when you don't feel ready, confident, or qualified yet. I talk openly about imposter syndrome, why coaching isn't about having perfect wording or giving advice, and how a few simple, intentional questions can create massive clarity and action for your clients. I also walk you through the three core types of coaching questions I use in my own sessions—and share several go-to questions you can literally steal and use right away.

If you've been feeling stuck in imposter syndrome, second-guessing yourself in sessions, or worried you don't know enough to be a "real" coach yet, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification
• Check out ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/renewu

What I Discuss:

• 03:34 Why I'm shifting the podcast to focus more on solo episodes and real coaching skills
• 06:00 The imposter syndrome almost every new coach struggles with
• 07:46 What actually makes a coaching question "powerful"
• 11:04 The three types of questions every coach should be using
• 14:32 My favorite go-to questions when you don't know what to ask next

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com