What happens when you're so used to figuring everything out yourself that you forget how to let people help you?

In this episode, I talk about what happened after putting Episode 1 out into the world, the unexpected lessons I took from it, and the realization that sometimes hitting a wall is exactly what you need to see things differently.Maybe this is what a second chance looks like.

Two years ago, I walked away from this microphone because I stopped believing that my voice mattered.

I convinced myself that I wasn't good enough, and the shame that followed kept me silent for far longer than I would like to admit.

But somewhere along the way, the people who love me reminded me of something I had forgotten: sometimes we don't need a new dream; we simply need the courage to return to the one we left behind.

So, after much encouragement from friends and family, I am taking this second chance and finding my way back.

This episode is more than an introduction. It is a promise to myself that I will no longer allow fear, self-doubt, or perfectionism to keep me from speaking.

Welcome to The Drinks and Banter Podcast. I'm so glad you're here.

In this episode I talk about realizing that life is full of pain and suffering. I just need to pick and choose the one's I'm comfortable dealing with.

My first boyfriend broke up with me with a song, and I've had trouble listening to love songs since then. In this episode I talk about finally getting over it and thoughts of doing music in the future.

Below is the list of my current favorite songs

1) Somebody - Elmiene

2) Very Few Friends - Saint Levant

3) Unrequited - Solomon

4) Lost - Otis Kane

5) Lost Without U - Robin Thicke

6) Stay - Gen Neo

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In this episode I talk about my experience with boarding school, how it messed me up and most Kenyans as a whole.

After doing research on the negative effects of dating apps, I realized that social media apps in general can be more harmful than good if not used well. In this episode I talk about lonliness and the steps we can take to attract the kind of friendships/ relationships we desire.

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We all have things that keep us up at night. On this episode I talk about mine and how I have decided to handle them moving forwward.

In this episode I talk about how scary my recent sleep paralysis event was and how I tackled it. I also talk about my experience with online dating as an introvert and the fact that it makes my life easier as an indoors person.

In this episode I talk about the positive changes I've experienced from growing closer to my parents and healing through surrounding myself with people who love and care about me just the way I am.

I finally moved out this month to my own apartment but I did so without a plan. I am enjoying my new found peace but there are some challenges too. On this episode I talk about them and the solutions that have worked for me so far.