Have you ever said, “I don’t even know what I want anymore?”

You're not alone. Life is full of decisions. Some feel urgent, others overwhelming, and often we’re caught between choosing what brings peace and what brings purpose. Let's talk personal development for introverts.

In this episode of The Driven Introvert Podcast, I’m walking through Chapter 8 of The Next Right Thing by Emily P. Freeman, and we’re digging into a question we all need to answer—What do you really want… and what do you want more?

I share a personal story from 2020, a quiet season where life slowed down and work was steady—but something was missing. I wasn’t juggling a big personal project or working toward a dream, and while that brought peace, it also stirred something else in me.

Purpose.

Desire.

Impact.

Sometimes the thing we want (like calm, simplicity, or comfort) isn’t the thing we want more (like meaning, movement, or mission). And often, those two don’t always go hand-in-hand. This is personal development for introverts.

We also explore:

• Why naming your desire out loud matters more than you think
• What we can learn from blind Bartimaeus and how Jesus responded to him
• The hidden cost of indecision—and why not deciding is still a decision
• How to move past fear of judgment and be honest about what you want
• Why a pro/con list might not be serving you—and what to do instead
  
  

Whether you’re deciding between two good options or navigating a situation with no clear answer, this episode is for you.

You’ll walk away with clarity on how to:

• Listen inward, not outward
• Pray from an honest place
• Discern what’s life-giving versus life-draining
• Trust that God is guiding even when things feel uncertain

Friend, if you’ve been stuck in indecision or afraid to name what’s really in your heart, this is your gentle nudge forward. There’s more ahead of you than there is behind you. And your next right thing starts with being honest about your desire. Looking for personal development for introverts? This is it!

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We discuss Leadership for Introverts, career development for introverts, introvert success, introvert success strategies, networking for the introvert, and other pertinent issues to help you as an introvert grow personally and professionally.

Does thinking about 2026 make you feel excited… or a little anxious? Then let's talk about Fear Setting.

If you’re walking into the new year with big dreams and big doubts, you’re in good company. In this episode, I share a powerful mental and emotional exercise called fear setting, popularized by author and entrepreneur Tim Ferriss, that has helped me face my fears with more clarity and confidence.

Unlike goal setting, fear setting asks you to define exactly what you’re afraid of, explore ways to reduce or prevent those fears, and consider how you’d recover if the worst did happen. It sounds intense, but it’s a surprisingly freeing process that can help you move forward instead of staying stuck.

I walk you through the three key parts of fear setting using a personal example — my journey to cotinue building Podground as we move into the new year. This simple exercise helped me name what I was afraid of (from rejection to the fear of success), and then take small, intentional steps forward with faith and focus.

Whether you’re considering a job change, a creative project, or just feel pulled toward something new — this episode will help you get clear on what’s stopping you, and why it doesn’t have to.

This episode is for you if:

• You want to do something big or new in 2026 but feel afraid
• You feel overwhelmed by your own expectations
• You’ve been stuck in overthinking and are ready for clarity
• You want a faith-based approach to bold, wise decision-making

 What You’ll Learn:

• What fear setting is, and how Tim Ferriss used it to make bold life decisions
• A 3-part fear setting framework: Define, Prevent, and Repair
• How to consider both the benefits of action and the cost of inaction
• A real-life example of how I used fear setting to step into growth
• A reminder that God can be trusted with your future and your fears
  
  

Scripture Mentioned:
 Proverbs 3:5-6
 "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."

📌 Resources Mentioned:

• The 4-Hour Work Week by Tim Ferriss
• Fear Setting Worksheet - here

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We discuss Leadership for Introverts, career development for introverts, introvert success, introvert success strategies, networking for the introvert, and other pertinent issues to help you as an introvert grow personally and professionally.

Happy New Year, friends! Time to Set Your New Year Intention!

2026 is here, and with it comes the opportunity to start fresh, walk in purpose, and move toward the life you actually want — not just the one that happens by default.

If 2025 left you feeling disappointed, discouraged, or stuck, this episode is for you. I’m sharing the honest pep talk I gave myself as the clock turned. It’s a reminder that you don’t have to figure everything out — but you do need to decide where you're going, and take daily steps to get there. Let's set your New Year intention here.

In this episode, I talk about:

• How to reframe the disappointments of last year
• Why belief in your own dream is non-negotiable
• What happens when we drift through life instead of deciding
• A practical daily habit that can help you shift your mindset and build momentum

Whether you're a shy introvert, a mom with very little time, or someone rebuilding after loss or transition — you’ll find encouragement and clarity here. Time to set your New Year Intention.

This year, I'm challenging you (and myself) to stop burying your head in the sand. Let’s stop second-guessing our callings because of fear, burnout, or comparison. If God gave you a picture of the life you want, it’s not foolish. It’s not too big. It’s possible. But only if you believe it is.

And when doubt creeps in? Because it will. I walk you through one powerful thing you can do each day: Speak what you want to see.

Declare it. Pray it. Write it. Say it out loud.
 God has given us words, faith, and wisdom. Use them.

This isn’t about hype or hustle — it’s about rooted action. About walking into the new year calm, clear, and confident in who God made you to be.

I want you to show up boldly, take the next right step, and build what matters — even if you’re not sure what the outcome will be. Even if you have to do it afraid.

This episode is your reminder:
 You're not stuck.
 You're not too late.
 You're not too much.
 And it's not a dead end unless you decide to stay there.

What are you believing for in 2026? I’d love to hear from you.
Email me at [email protected]. I read every message.
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We discuss Leadership for Introverts, career development for introverts, introvert success, introvert success strategies, networking for the introvert, and other pertinent issues to help you as an introvert grow personally and professionally.

It’s officially the end of 2025, and whether this year felt like a marathon or a blur — it’s almost over. And like it or not, we have to move on. Let's do An End of Year Reflection on the podcast.

In this final episode of the year, I want to hold space for reflection — not in an overwhelming, “go journal for three hours” kind of way — but a quiet, honest pause to ask:

 What did this year teach me, and how am I moving forward?

This episode is for the introspective soul. The one who wants to end well, not just sprint into a new year without intention. Whether 2025 was filled with incredible wins or unexpected losses it matters how you close it.

I’ll walk you through three simple but powerful reflection questions:

• What was the biggest lesson you learned this year?
• How will you apply it in 2026?
• What are you truly grateful for — and who do you need to thank

This is your An End of Year Reflection.

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We discuss Leadership for Introverts, career development for introverts, introvert success, introvert success strategies, networking for the introvert, and other pertinent issues to help you as an introvert grow personally and professionally.

Let’s talk about Purpose-Driven Entrepreneurship. We know purpose is crucial, but what role does clarity play in determining this purpose? Sometimes we ask for clarity and expect it to show up instantly. But God often gives us light one step at a time. This is leadership for Introverts.

In this episode, I reflect on Chapter 7 of The Next Right Thing by Emily P. Freeman and the one question that helps me move forward in faith, especially when the path is foggy.

I also share how I wrestled with launching PodGround, a platform for podcasters, and what I learned about fear, courage, and purpose-driven entrepreneurship.

If you’re making a big decision right now, or wondering if fear is calling the shots in your life, this conversation is for you. Tune in if you're interested in how to develop Leadership for Introverts

This is Purpose-Driven Entrepreneurship. Are You Being Led by Fear or Courage? If you're an introspective introvert, an introvert leader, or someone wondering how to get unstuck and move forward with building dreams and ideas, this is for you.

Loved this episode? Share it with a friend who’s facing a big decision.

And if it helped you, leave a quick review—I’d love to know your takeaway.

Got a question or reflection? Email me at [email protected]  

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Let's talk about Starting Over.

Making decisions is hard enough. But what happens when you're making decisions in a season where you feel completely unqualified? When you're a beginner literally feel like you're starting over again. 

In this episode of The Driven Introvert Podcast, we continue reading through The Next Right Thing by Emily P. Freeman, and today we’re sitting with a simple but powerful truth: It’s okay to be a beginner.

I share what it looked like for me when I was starting over — from moving to a new country and stumbling through cultural differences, to building a product in an industry where I have zero experience. These stories might feel familiar if you’ve ever:

• Avoided asking for help because you didn’t want to seem clueless
• Faked confidence in a new job, project, or role
• Held back from trying something because you didn’t feel “ready”
• Been surprised at how hard it was to step into something you actually prayed for

Emily reminds us that all beginnings come with both joy and grief. To be starting over and beginning something new often means leaving something behind. Whether your current season is one you chose or one you didn’t ask for, you can still move forward — and you don’t have to pretend to know everything.

This is personal growth for introverts. Let's talk about making big decisions a faith driven entrepreneur.   

I hope this episode encourages you to be gently honest with yourself, to ask for the wisdom you need, and to remember that admitting “I don’t know yet” is a decision rooted in courage, not weakness.

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When we're navigating uncertainties in life, why do we expect ourselves to always know what to do?

In this episode, I’m sharing honest reflections on how to make decisions, especially when the stakes feel high and clarity feels far away. 

If you’re navigating uncertainties in life and are afraid of making the wrong move, if you’re overthinking every step, or if you’ve ever wondered whether you’ll miss what God is trying to say… this one’s for you.

We’ll talk about:

• Why practice matters when making decisions
• What to do when God gives you just enough light for the next step
• How to look for arrows, not just answers

When you're navigating uncertainties in life, whether you're finding your calling, trying to get unstuck, or just making big decisions, you don’t need to know everything to move forward. Just the next right thing.

I’d love to hear from you. If you're new here, this is personal growth for introverts and anyone who needs to move from dreamer to doer.

Email me at [email protected].

Let’s grow together.

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Let's talk about how to trust God with hard decisions. 

How do you make decisions when you’re scared of getting it wrong?

In this episode, we’re digging deep into the quiet truths we believe about God  and how those beliefs shape every decision we make. You’ll hear a personal story about fear, faith, and missed opportunities, and why it's not just about what you believe, but how you live it out. This is about how to trust God with difficult decisions. 

Plus, we’ll explore one simple yet powerful practice from The Next Right Thing by Emily P. Freeman that will help you reimagine your view of God and give you the confidence to take your next step and learn how to trust God everyday.

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We discuss Leadership for Introverts, career development for introverts, introvert success, introvert success strategies, networking for the introvert, and other pertinent issues to help you as an introvert grow personally and professionally.

Are you making decisions too quickly or not at all because fear is secretly in the driver’s seat?

Let's talk about how to make decisions with grace.

In this episode, I share a personal story about building my business and how a conversation with my husband helped me realize I was moving fast… out of fear. I talk about how to make decisions and what it means to pause, listen, and name the feelings we often bury.

Inspired by Chapter 3 of The Next Right Thing by Emily Freeman, this is an honest reflection on how naming your real motivations can bring clarity, peace, and purpose to your next step. This is a book about how to make decisions with grace and a whole lot of peace.

This is personal growth for introverts who want to get unstuck, navigate uncertainties in life with peace, and get great at making big decisions.

I’d love to hear from you. What unnamed feeling are you working through right now?

Send me a message and let me know.

Email me at [email protected].

Let’s grow together.

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We discuss Leadership for Introverts, career development for introverts, introvert success, introvert success strategies, networking for the introvert, and other pertinent issues to help you as an introvert grow personally and professionally.

Let's talk about how to make decisions. Unmade decisions create a heavy kind of chaos, especially as an introvert. We carry them everywhere, into our work, our families, even our prayers. In this episode, I reflect on Emily P. Freeman’s book The Next Right Thing (on How to Make Decisions) and what it means to become a “soul minimalist.”

Instead of calling a committee every time we’re at a crossroads, what if we cleared the clutter, leaned into silence, and made space to hear God?

I share:

• The kinds of big decisions that often leave us stuck
• Why asking for more input can sometimes make things worse
• How I made one of the biggest decisions of my life by staying quiet first
• Practical ways to fast from noise and distractions so you can hear what matters most

If you’re considering how to make decisions and you're carrying a decision that feels too heavy, this one’s for you.

Whether you're navigating uncertainty in life or trying to get unstuck, listen in.

For introverts, introvert leaders, and anyone interested in personal growth for introverts.

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For the driven introvert, the introvert leader, the lonely introvert, introvert entrepreneurs, the confident Introvert, dreamers, faith driven entrepreneur, passionate leaders and anyone who wants to close the gap between where they are and where they need to be.
We discuss Leadership for Introverts, career development for introverts, introvert success, introvert success strategies, networking for the introvert, and other pertinent issues to help you as an introvert grow personally and professionally.