Tradition tells us that we have to have life figured out at some point in our late twenties. We should be set or know what our career will be and move to build on top of it. The Elephant Room finds it awkward for most who are trying to find their way. Some are still feeling out and getting to know themselves and it only makes sense they're getting to know what they want to do for a living. Listen to the episode and find out if free game is something you're missing, interested in, or need more understanding. Stop by Philxpry.com and let us know your thoughts. If this episode has brought any value to your life and you feel it could help someone else, share it. Subscribe/download/Rate/Review the podcast as well. 

here are moments in our lives when we realize we have to change, let go, and NOT GIVE A F#@% One problem that follows that thought, there might be more than one thing to change, cut off, and let go. Phillip Conley Jr has suggestions in this episode on how to do just that. It’s easier said than done, but we can work hard to make it as easy as possible. You matter. It seems if we put ourselves for for a second, we could probably see some situations, people, and circumstances better. Listen/download/subscribe to the podcast if this has brought any value to your life journey. And if you’re feeling extra spunky, rate/review/share the podcast on your social media platforms. 

We're in the second week of 2019 and it's going beautifully! Well.... maybe for some, for others you might think 2019 is already a waste. HURRY AND LISTEN TO The Elephant Room! Phillip Conley Jr. has some suggestions on how to get started, figure out, and complete your goals for this year. It's nothing wrong with not knowing, it's something wrong with staying that way. We're sure 2018 put us all in a pretty good fight, but we made it through, now it's time to level up and take action. Stop by the Philanthropy website (Philxpry.com) Let us know what you want to talk about next. Please download/Subscribe/Rate/Review!

It's the new year! We may want to leave some things, people, situations, and habits back in 11:59PM. Phillip Conley Jr. jumps straight into the awkward moments of ultimately saying goodbye and letting go. We've come up with suggestions one could use to accomplish the goal of breaking free of any situation in the new year. Listen in and continue the conversation on Thursday when The Elephant Room goes live on Facebook at 7PM. Share the podcast/episode to those close to you if it's provided any value. Subscribe/Rate/Review

MERRY CHRISTMAS! Or happy break (whatever you prefer) This episode you'll find a wide range of awkward moments surrounding Christmas. Giving gifts, receiving gifts, figuring out what your partner wants to do, and gifts cards are just a few awkward moments we come across in this episode. Phillip Conley Jr gives suggestions following the former to help those that are too confident. Tune in and let's figure out how to navigate through a wonderful awkward time such as Christmas. 
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Over time we accumulate things that we deem precious and valuable at some point, and as time continues those things that were deemed valuable could be pushed aside. Not because they failed in any capacity, but because of the wealth of options we have at our disposal. We can lose friendships, clothes, jewelry, and much more if we don't take Inventory. Phillip Conley Jr. walks through examples of such things in this week's episode. Tune in and see if you've dealt with any of the awkward moments stated. And if you haven't ran into any awkward moments that's being talked about, you might know someone who has. If this episode/podcast has offered any value, help, and or lesson, don't forget to subscribe/share/rate/review. 


Show Notes: 

• You matter 
• Partnerships matter 
• spouses/marriages matter 

• Have you taken inventory? 
• (Metaphor for life)

• Where's your energy spent?
• Kids
• Wife 
• Husband 
• Yourself 

• Effects from not taking inventory 
• Not knowing what you have/whats available 

• Are you paying attention 

• Inventory helps you pay attention

• The fact you don't have something will make you want it more. 
• Makes us want things we don't necessarily need 
• People may be doing everything they can for us, but it's up to us to appreciate it.
• Take a break 
• Look at the subject from a different perspective 
• Let's continue to be a student of life/people 

• We may have quantity but not quality
• Its true frustration when you realize you have options but none of them suit your needs
• You may not have something/someone that can fulfill my needs, ultimately its on me. 
• The person may be in your life, but we may not have realized who they are 

• Some treat people like clothes 
• We haven't full committed ourselves to the relationships in our life
• Inventory, helps you know who you are and see who someone is 
• Human interaction is messy 

Not talking to the people that know there isn't going to be a future
Life can hurt while you're adjusting your reference levels 
Communicate what you need so interpretation isn't needed 

Buyers remorse is a thing, even in human interaction
There are some people that have fullfiled their purpose in your life 
Inventory helps you realize what's old, stuff that needs tossing, and where there's space to grow.
The fact that you have something else in the back of your mind, may make you second guess what you have 

Being spread too thin can make you overlook the value in your life 
It's a fact that there's no such thing as multitasking 
Having your attention in multiple places will hinder you from spending the necessary time with each subject
Make things happen don't let things happen to you. 

No one is concrete in your life except you. 

We're here to tell you that you're enough
You have the tools 
You have the gifts 
You're genius 

No bad days!! 
Learning days!
Things didn't go my way, what am I going to do to adjust?
We don't take L's we take Lessons!!!

Take inventory 

Have you done inventory?
What areas do you need to do inventory?
How are you going to move forward?

 

Most of us are familiar on how wild things can get around the holiday season. For most, this time of the year is unforgettable, warm houses, hot chocolate, family, and friends. Something like that can make you forget its cold outside. For some, that’s all this time of the year brings, bitter nights, horrific memories, and resentment. Phillip Conley Jr. Navigates through both sides and has a couple suggestions on loved ones, burnt bridges, and appreciating the ppl around you. Tune in and don’t forget to subscribe/rate/review. 

We can mistake entertainment for reality. It's a possibility if we hear a story that sounds believable we'll take it and run with it, without fact checking the content. Phillip Conley Jr has to simply set the record straight. The appreciation for those that understand or take time to understand will never go unnoticed. But there is a time to address those that have a lot to say about things they haven't experienced themselves. We're sure that the awkward moments Phillip Conley Jr talks about in this episode hasn't only affected him. maybe you're familiar with some too. Feedback is welcomed and also don't forget to subscribe/rate/review 

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We seem to live our lives in snapshots. When we look back on what we've done, we're only granted a glimpse of what's taken place. All though there are times when we find ourselves never forgetting a particular experience/time/person/place and that's what we seem to strive to create frequently. Listen to Phillip Conley Jr talk about 'Da Light' and what you might have in common with it. And of course we couldn't talk about 'Da Light' without talking about 'shadows' and talent. All of what was named have awkward moments attached to them, some you may have experienced and would like to give feedback. Let us know what you think after the episode @ [email protected]. Don't forget to subscribe!

Food, games, smiles, singing, eating, and a lot more comes with Thanksgiving. On the other end of the festivities lies some pretty awkward moments. If we look a little deeper, we'll see and understand that these awkward moments have been around for quite some time. Thanksgiving- the name itself carries a sense of awkwardness. Listen to The Elephant Room's host: Phillip Conley Jr suggest, list, and ask about awkward moments/solutions when it comes to Thanksgiving. You're more than welcome to send feedback/comments/Thoughts to [email protected].