How to choose a primary care doctor, from a doctor who has spent years inside the system.
Most people pick a primary care physician off an insurance list. Network, location, star rating. None of that measures the thing that matters.
I'm a doctor. That's exactly why I have rules about who treats my family.
Here are the 6 rules I check every single time:
✓ They ask questions and actually listen
✓ Their own health matches what they preach
✓ They see one body, one system, not separate parts
✓ They don't rush. You are not a number on a schedule
✓ Every option, every tradeoff. On your team, not above you
✓ They read the studies themselves. Not drug rep handouts. Not Wikipedia
I also break down what real informed consent is supposed to sound like in the room, why "in network" is the weakest filter you can use, and the one question that tells you in ten seconds whether your doctor reads primary research.
Most patients are never told they're allowed to have standards. You are. And you're allowed to walk.