Let’s be real for a second.
When you first start learning English, you probably think native speakers talk like the recordings in your textbook:
“Hello, how are you today?”
“I am fine, thank you. And you?”
Then you meet a native speaker and they say:
“Hey, how’s it goin’?”
“Good, you?”
And your brain goes: Wait. What language was that?
Here’s the thing — most learners aren’t bad listeners.
They’re just listening for a version of English that doesn’t exist in real life.