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Hi, I’m Pascale Gibon and welcome to episode 154 of The Everyday Life Balance Show.
Last week I introduced you to the first activator to initiate to create healthy life changes in your life. As a quick summary, the primary activator is Desire. To make healthy changes in your career, health, finances, relationships or lifestyle, for example, you have to really want it because you will be going through a transition phase.
I introduced you also to the Dream it, Create it, Live it concept which ascertains that to achieve any goal you must keep this concept in mind and go through all three stages.
In today’s episode, I would like to introduce you to life change activator number 2 Decision.
One of my mentors, Bob Proctor, says:
“I once heard it said that the world forgives you if you make mistakes, but that life will not forgive you if you fail to make decisions.”
You desire to make healthy changes in your life; however, you have not made a definite decision to go through the transition or pursue the path of transformation. Instead, you hesitate due perhaps to a lack of self-confidence, courage or the fear of uncertainty.
I believe that the decision-making process is essential when you want to change some aspects of your life.
The critical point here is that you need a commitment strategy.
Change can be terrifying, can’t it? Nevertheless, it is crucial to make a definite decision so that you go straightly for what you want.
This commitment strategy has been life-transforming for me, and it can transform your life too. There were times when I was wondering why things were not changing. Everything shifted when I learnt and understood that to move into action, we must not hesitate but instead make a definite decision.
The main point to remember is that you are just only one decision away from creating the life you desire.
Let’s do this together. You can initiate Life Change Activator #2 by making the decision NOW to commit to doing whatever is necessary to create the life you desire.
To activate healthy life changes, I recommend that you strengthen the habit of making definite decisions.
And you can strengthen the habit of making definite decisions by answering the following two empowering questions: that’s all you need to make a definite decision.
Question #1: Do you have a clear vision of what you desire to create in your life?
Question #2: Are you able and willing to take risks to create it, live it and do whatever it takes?
Other people fail to make a definite decision to make healthy changes in their life for the following two reasons:
The first reason: they purely focus on what is not working and blame their circumstances and conditions. And
The second reason: they forget to design what they actually want.
You can take some time now to do the following exercise If you want better results:
- First, choose one area of your life, which frustrates you the most and think about what you would like to create, experience and enjoy instead.
- Secondly, What area of your life do you choose to improve?
- And thirdly, make a positive affirmation regarding the vision for your life you desire to move towards: “I am so happy and grateful now that…
For example:
“I am so happy and grateful now that I generate have completed my first non-fiction book.”
or
“I am so happy and grateful now that I live in the house of my dreams.”
Another example could be;
“I am so happy and grateful now that my partner and I have the most beautiful and loving relationship.”
The area of your life you choose to improve is now your point of focus.
Indeed, decision comes from the Latin word ‘decidere’ which means to ‘cut from.’ Therefore, when you make a definite decision, you know what to ‘cut from’ and what to remain focused on. As a consequence, your new point of focus is your unique vision for your life.
When you decide to make healthy changes in your life, two things run in your favour: HOPE and TRUST.
To strengthen your ability to make definite decisions to improve your experience, you must cultivate both HOPE and TRUST for they will carry you through.
The first thing that runs in your favour is HOPE: it is like saying YES! to life, committing to it and committing to yourself. Hope brings with it empowering energy and driving force.
Hope that you can do this. Next Monday, I will introduce you to the third life change activator. When you use all three activators to make healthy changes in your life, you strengthen your personal power.
The second thing that runs in your favour is TRUST: there is no trust when you have lost hope. Trust carries with it the belief that you are on course and on purpose. Desiring change and making the decision to commit to change is a natural process of growth.
There is a saying that the comfort zone is well comfortable; however, it does not allow you to grow.
You must trust that you desire for healthy changes in your life is an ultimate aspiration.
I hope that you enjoyed today’s episode where I shared with you life change activator #2: Decision.
I look forward to connecting with you next Monday when you will discover life change activator #3: Action.
Have a fantastic week, take care, stay healthy and lots of love.
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