The Ex-Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast

In this episode of "The Ex Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast," hosts Alex and Liza take a deep dive into written agreements in family law, including the often-discussed Pre-Nups and Binding Financial Agreements (BFAs). They explore how these agreements can help couples keep matters out of the courts and maintain control over their financial futures.
Join Alex and Liza as they discuss:

1. What Even Is a Pre-Nup?
   • An explanation of Pre-Nups and how they differ from Binding Financial Agreements in the context of Australian family law.
2. Legal Requirements and Disclosure:
   • Why is legal representation necessary for a Pre-Nup or BFA to be valid, and what is the importance of full financial disclosure to avoid agreements being set aside?
3. Costs and Process:
   • What to expect regarding costs and what’s involved in drafting a Binding Financial Agreement or Pre-Nup.
4. Is It Worth It?
   • The pros and cons of entering into these agreements and when they might be the right choice for you.
5. Stamp Duty and Financial Implications:
   • How stamp duty applies to BFAs and the financial considerations to consider when entering into these agreements.

This episode provides listeners with a clear and practical guide to Pre-Nups and BFAs, helping you understand their purpose, process, and potential benefits.

Tune in for expert insights from Alex and Liza, ensuring you’re informed and prepared when considering written agreements in family law.

Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media.

Alex Wynn - [email protected]
Liza Friedwald - [email protected]

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6155675999789

In this episode of "The Ex Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast," hosts Alex and Liza explore the complexities of parenting after separation. From determining living arrangements to understanding parental responsibilities, this episode covers key aspects of co-parenting and decision-making that arise when parents separate.
Join Alex and Liza as they discuss the below and much more:

1. Living Arrangements
2. Parental Responsibility and Decision-Making
3. The “Best Interests” Principle
4. Grandparents and Other Connected Persons

This episode offers a comprehensive look at parenting after separation, ensuring listeners understand their rights, responsibilities, and the options available to support their children’s welfare.

Please tune in for insightful guidance from Alex and Liza as they navigate the legal and emotional aspects of parenting post-separation in Australia.
Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media.

Alex Wynn - [email protected]
Liza Friedwald - [email protected]

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6155675999789

In this episode of "The Ex Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast," we turn the spotlight on Alex Wynn, the other half of the dynamic hosting duo. Through a one-on-one interview, listeners get an in-depth look at Alex’s background, his approach to family law, and the values that shape his work. 
This interview offers listeners a closer look at Alex’s journey, his approach to family law, and the passion he brings to his work every day.

Tune in for an engaging conversation that explores the life and practice of Alex Wynn, one of the voices behind "The Ex Files."
Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media.

Alex Wynn - [email protected]
Liza Friedwald - [email protected]

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6155675999789

In this special episode of "The Ex Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast," we’re looking at one of the show’s hosts, Liza Friedwald. Through a one-on-one interview, listeners can learn more about Liza’s background, her approach to family law, and the values that drive her work.
This in-depth interview offers listeners a rare opportunity to get to know Liza personally and professionally, making this episode a must-listen for anyone interested in the field of family law or simply curious about Liza’s journey.

Tune in for an insightful conversation that delves into the heart of family law and the person behind the role, with Liza Friedwald.
Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media.

Alex Wynn - [email protected]
Liza Friedwald - [email protected]

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6155675999789

In this episode of "The Ex Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast," hosts Alex and Liza take on two of the most common questions in separation and divorce: How long will it take, and how much will it cost? With timelines ranging from days to years and legal fees varying widely, this episode breaks down what to expect when separating in Australia.

Join Alex and Liza as they discuss:

1. How Long?
   • The separation timeline can vary greatly, depending on you, your ex, and the situation's complexity. From quick resolutions to long-drawn-out battles like the Strahan case, Alex and Liza explore the factors influencing the length of separation proceedings.
   • Topics include the "post-separation phoney war," grief cycles (DABDA), emotional attachments, and navigating the new status quo.
   • A look at the court process through the FCFCOA pathway and why the 12-month timeline is often more myth than reality.
2. How Much?
   • The cost of separation, with and without lawyers, is another major concern. Alex and Liza explore the pros and cons of going through the process solo (with the warning, "fool for a client") versus hiring legal representation.
   • They also discuss mediation, legal fees for solicitors and barristers, expert witnesses, court costs, and the potential to resolve matters before a final hearing.

This episode provides a clear and realistic overview of the time and financial commitment involved in a separation, helping listeners manage their expectations and prepare for the road ahead.

Tune in for expert insights from Alex and Liza on navigating the cost and time of separation in Australia’s family law system.

Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media.

Alex Wynn - [email protected]
Liza Friedwald - [email protected]

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6155675999789

In this episode of "The Ex Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast," hosts Alex and Liza delve into the sensitive topic of extramarital affairs and their impact on family law cases in Australia. While the emotional fallout of infidelity can be significant, Australian law takes a "no-fault" approach when it comes to divorce and property settlements.

Join Alex and Liza as they discuss:

1. No-Fault Divorce in Australia:
   • How divorce law in Australia no longer views marriage as a contract where the blame for infidelity results in legal consequences. Alex and Liza explain how the law has evolved and what it means for those navigating a separation after an affair.
2. Property Settlements – No Adjustment for Hurt Feelings:
   • A deep dive into the financial aspects of divorce, with a focus on how infidelity impacts (or doesn’t impact) property settlements. Using cases like Gans & Albert [2013], they illustrate how “wastage” of marital funds can be taken into account, even if the act of infidelity itself is not.
3. Notable Case – Jonah & White [2011]:
   • An exploration of this significant case where a mistress's claim for a property settlement was unsuccessful, highlighting how de facto relationships are defined under Australian law and what criteria must be met for property claims.
4. Parenting and the Best Interests of the Child:
   • How affairs can influence parenting decisions in court, especially when the behaviour is deemed not in the best interests of the child.
5. The Emotional Effect on Parties:
   • A discussion on the emotional toll of affairs and how it affects how parties approach their case during family law proceedings.

This episode provides valuable insights into the intersection of infidelity, family law, and property settlements, offering clarity for those dealing with the fallout of an affair.

Tune in for expert guidance from Alex and Liza, ensuring you feel more informed about how Australian family law handles the complexities of affairs.

Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media.

Alex Wynn - [email protected]
Liza Friedwald - [email protected]

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6155675999789

In this episode of "The Ex Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast," hosts Alex and Liza dive into the crucial role of being a witness in a family law court case. From high-profile celebrity cases to the inner workings of the courtroom, this episode covers everything you need to know about giving testimony and observing witness statements in family law matters.

Join Alex and Liza as they discuss:

1. Who’s in the Courtroom:
   • Get familiar with the key players in the courtroom, from judges and lawyers to witnesses and members of the public. Understanding the roles is important whether you're part of the case or just observing.
2. Tips for Witnesses:
   • A guide to being a credible and reliable witness in court. From telling the truth to avoiding exaggerated statements, Alex and Liza offer practical advice on conducting yourself on the stand.
   • Key tips include refreshing your memory, speaking in your own words, maintaining a respectful appearance, listening carefully, and correcting mistakes when necessary.
3. If You’re Listening to a Witness:
   • Top tips for parties involved in the case listening to witness testimony. Learn how to stay composed, take notes, and react appropriately while someone is giving evidence.

This episode provides valuable insights into the role of witnesses in family law cases and practical advice on how to handle yourself in court, whether you're giving or observing testimony.

Please tune in for the latest discussion from Alex and Liza as they demystify the courtroom experience and help you feel more prepared for your day in court.

Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media.

Alex Wynn - [email protected]
Liza Friedwald - [email protected]

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6155675999789

In Part 2 of - "Let's Get Outta Here", hosts Alex and Liza continue the conversation on navigating the end of a relationship. This time, they dive deeper into critical questions that arise during the separation process, offering practical advice and insights for those going through this challenging time.

Join Alex and Liza as they cover:

1. Should You Leave the Family Home?
   • Exploring the pros and cons of staying or leaving the family home, and whether coexisting in the same space is a viable option. They also provide tips on how to manage living together if separation under the same roof is necessary.
2. Communicating the Breakdown to Children:
   • How to approach the difficult conversation of telling your children about the relationship breakdown in a way that is honest, sensitive, and supportive of their emotional needs.
3. Listener Question – Can You Hide Your Assets from Your Partner?
   • Alex and Liza tackle this important legal question, explaining the consequences of attempting to hide assets during a separation and how transparency is crucial in the process of property division.

And much more, including additional tips on safeguarding your legal rights and emotional well-being during the separation process.

Tune in to Alex and Liza, who will ensure you feel prepared and informed as you navigate your separation within the framework of Australian family law.

Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media.

Alex Wynn - [email protected]
Liza Friedwald - [email protected]

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6155675999789

In this episode of "The Ex Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast," hosts Alex and Liza guide listeners through the difficult decision of leaving a relationship. Whether you're contemplating an exit or already in the process, understanding the safest and most effective ways to leave is critical.

Join Alex and Liza as they discuss:

1. Safe Ways to Leave a Relationship:
   • Practical advice on planning your departure, including personal safety, legal considerations, and accessing support services.
2. Risky Ways to Leave and What to Avoid:
   • The potential dangers and consequences of impulsive decisions and why careful planning is key to protecting yourself and your interests.
3. Legal and Financial Considerations:
   • What to think about when leaving in terms of finances, property, and legal obligations under Australian family law.
4. Emotional and Psychological Factors:
   • The emotional challenges of leaving and how to manage your mental health and well-being during this time.

This episode provides a roadmap for safely and thoughtfully exiting a relationship, ensuring you’re well-prepared and informed about the steps ahead.

Tune in for expert discussion from Alex and Liza on how to leave a relationship with confidence and caution, focusing on your safety and legal rights in Australia.

Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media.

Alex Wynn - [email protected]
Liza Friedwald - [email protected]

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=6155675999789

In this episode of "The Ex Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast," hosts Alex and Liza explore the important role of Family Reports in Australian family law. Family Reports are often a key element in disputes involving children, and understanding their purpose and impact can help parents navigate the legal process with greater confidence.

Join Alex and Liza as they cover:

1. What Are Family Reports?
   • A detailed explanation of what Family Reports are, who prepares them, and their role in family law cases involving children.
2. The Process of Preparing a Family Report:
   • How Family Reports are compiled, including interviews with parents, children, and other relevant parties by a qualified family consultant.
3. How Family Reports Are Used in Court:
   • The influence these reports have on the court’s decision-making process, particularly in matters of custody, visitation, and the best interests of the child.
4. Challenges and Considerations:
   • Common issues that arise with Family Reports, such as perceived bias, inaccuracies, or changes in family dynamics, and how they can be addressed in court.
5. The Importance of Family Reports in Dispute Resolution:
   • How can these reports provide the court with crucial insights into family relationships and assist in crafting fair and balanced outcomes for all parties involved?

This episode offers a comprehensive guide to Family Reports, ensuring that parents and guardians feel more informed and prepared for their role in the legal process.

Tune in to gain a clear understanding of Family Reports and their significance in Australian family law with the expert guidance of Alex and Liza.

Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media.

Alex Wynn - [email protected]
Liza Friedwald - [email protected]