In this episode Sir Inq questions the smart ladies on why they accept so much bs when they absolutely know better! Y'all read all the blogs, listen to podcast after podcast, engage in the groups on Facebook and more yet some of y'all go for the bs and lie to yourselves openly and quietly which is dangerous in todays dating market!

Sir Inq discusses that thin line between wanting a partner for love an companionship and needing a a partner for survival and future stability and growth that one has not successfully created for themselves due to self inflicted negligence and not taking their future serious enough in their 20's,30's and wake up in their 40tys only to realize their in a shrunken dating market and feel the pressure to stop playing around and settle in.

In this talk Inq discusses if a Dom can be only a mentor to a sub without a loving relationship or claiming said submissive. Also discusses the importance of having a Dominant in your life as a mentor regardless of any other aspects of the lifestyle.

In this podcast Inq discusses laziness in relationships and the problems it leads to, and what you can do as a Dom to get out of that rut!

In this podcast Inq responds to a followers question of “is there love in BDSM?” and of course his answer is “yes” but hear why.

In this podcast Inq discusses the difference between bdsm and kink and what are some of the ways you can tell the difference between the two and how one has less than the other.

In this podcast Inq discusses if a regular man can become a Dominant man within the lifestyle.

In this podcast Inq discusses how many Dominant men do not represent the lifestyle openly and many may not participate in many aspects of kink, role play etc but at the core dominants and go about their lives without wanting attention or recognition. #domination #submission #sirinq

In this podcast Inq discusses how our own selfish wants and dream of love and relationships not only blinds us to certain realities but also binds us to disfunction and bad outcomes. #domination #submission

In this podcast Inq discusses why before the new year he takes inventory of his friends, relationships, business affairs etc and how he weeds the one out that no longer serve his overall purpose and goals, and how it’s not easy and not all endings are bad and actually allow room for growth. #domination #submission