Finally! I had this UNSCRIPTED CONVERSATION about #rape and self-control for men with @__odilii, a fellow podcaster and good friend and I must add a principled and reasonable Man. This is what I realised talking with him at length.
The aim of this pod or audio message is to Enlighten our #youths and #men to refrain from illicit acts of rape through negative manipulation or deception. It's easy to throw stones without first checking ourselves. Whether it's through violence or NOT, there are various methods of rape and we should learn and #changeourperspective. The fact that you are dating her or married to her shouldn't give any man a negative sense of entitlement to her body.