The Extraordinary Marriage: Faith, Family, Fortified

In this episode, Connie tackles the complexities of blended families. Combining households, navigating different parenting styles, and fostering unity can be challenging. But with Godly advice and years of experience, we offer practical strategies to help you create a harmonious blended family.

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Why Listen to The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast? You Want A Happy Healthy Marriage!

Godly Guidance: We integrate faith-based principles to provide you with time-honored wisdom.

Expert Insights: Benefit from our years of experience and deep understanding of human needs and relationships.

Practical Tips: Learn actionable steps that you can implement immediately to improve your relationship.

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Join us on "The Extraordinary Marriage" as we explore how to overcome childhood trauma to build a positive and successful marriage. Together, we'll uncover the secrets to letting go of a troubled past and creating a future filled with love and harmony.

Featuring expert insights and personal stories, this podcast is your guide to recognizing past challenges for a more hopeful future. Perfect for couples and women committed to transforming their relationships and finding lasting happiness.

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Host Connie Durham & Jaci Finneman 

Hey, I'm Connie! After over four decades of matrimonial bliss and motherhood experience under my belt, let me tell you - people are a fascinating mix of quirks and characteristics.

Whether we like 'em or not is almost always determined by the way they make us feel about ourselves...and that goes double for marriage!

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That's why I've made it my mission to find those niggly marriage problems pricking your happiness bubble – so together we can get rid of them and forge ahead on a path towards an even better life than before. It makes me a kind of Marriage Guru…with all the exciting remedies yet waiting to be discovered!

Jaci Finneman, Founder of Hello World and No-Problem Parenting™ is passionate about helping parents become confident leaders for their kids, find happiness in their day-to-day routine and bring peace back into their homes. Jaci is a Parent Coach, Parenting Strategist and a Leader. Her 30 years experience includes roles as a special needs para-professional (5 years), an In-Home Mental Health Practitioner and Program Coordinator for a mental health counseling agency (20 years)where Jaci led a successful, value-driven team and launched multiple new children’s mental health programs during her ten year. In 2013 Jaci started Hello World LLC, a company dedicated to and focused on teaching parents how to be the confident leader their kids crave them be! In 2019 Jaci created The No-Problem Parenting online-on demand parenting course and in 2021 launched The No-Problem Parenting Podcast. Jaci’s down to earth, authentic and relatable personality adds light, hope and clarity for her clients. “My coaching is parent-focused. Parents are their own child’s expert. I am here to empower them, to help them help their child.” – Jaci Finneman

🗝️ Welcome to The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, where we empower married couples with the insights and tools needed to create a thriving, fulfilling relationship.

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Our podcast is dedicated to helping you identify and overcome marital challenges so that you can focus on the positive aspects of your relationship and live your best life together.

Key Topics We Cover: Childhood Impact: Explore how hurtful childhood experiences can affect children and shape their future relationships.

Parental Traits: Discover ten essential parental traits that help raise strong, confident, and forward-thinking kids.

Marital Challenges: Learn how to identify and address common marital issues effectively.

Positive Focus: Techniques and strategies to focus on the positive aspects of your marriage, promoting happiness and connection.

Why We're Different: Unlike other relationship podcasts, The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast goes beyond surface-level advice. We dig deep into the root causes of marital challenges, offering actionable insights and practical solutions tailored to your needs. Our unique approach helps you not only understand your relationship better but also equips you with the tools needed to nurture and grow it.

Join us each week as we bring you expert interviews, real-life stories, and actionable tips to help you build an extraordinary marriage.

Subscribe now and take the first step towards a stronger, more connected, and happier relationship.

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Host Connie Durham

This month we're talking about different... Parenting Styles Explore diverse parenting styles based on behavior & personality types.

Whether you're a calm mediator or a spirited decision-maker, we provide insights on how to harmonize your approach to parenting and grow together as a couple.

Love First Approach... Connie emphasizes the importance of loving first. Learn how to move past the irritations and focus on what truly works in your marriage.

Discover the strategies that Connie has successfully applied, not only in raising her own children but also with her grandchildren.

Gain Confidence... Every episode is designed to empower you with the confidence to master your unique skills.

From communication tips to conflict resolution, you'll gain practical advice to apply in your daily life. Why Listen?

What sets The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast apart is Connie's real-life experience and heartfelt advice. She shares time-tested methods and personal anecdotes that resonate with listeners, making complex issues relatable and manageable. Join Us... Tune in to transform your marriage into an extraordinary one. Gain the tools to not just survive but thrive in your relationship.

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Subscribe now and start your journey towards a more loving and harmonious marriage today. Listen on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon. www.theextraordinarymarriage.com

Talk to Connie and figure out where the disconnect is in your marriage.  Find the "FRESH INSIGHTS" Button on the top right corner of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast page.  www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcast 

Connie Durham

You always hear that introverts and extroverts are absolute opposites, but have you thought about how that effects your marriage?

Each wanting exactly what the other, doesn't want. Are you thinking about that?

Today we talk about living with your opposite and how to understand them better. Understanding will improve your relationship at least 50%.

Would you like to figure out your differences and turn them into more support, romance, and intimacy?  Take a look..

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 Today Pastor Brian joins me as we journey through his saying I do, figuring out how to be a better spouse and following Gods word. Pastor Brian lives in Fayetteville GA with his wife Codie and 5 children.

Hi I'm Connie Durham, the Host of this podcast and Brian is my pastor. May I say he's passionate, transparent, and also dedicated to his family and church. My mission is to cultivate connection & lasting love for an Extraordinary Marriage.

Often our past experiences color our future and we loose our way, in finding love that last. Our personalities conflict, hurt and crush the ones we love and we don't know how to change that.

Follow Brian's words and put God in the center of your marriage. Then go to my web page and get my Marriage Starter Kit Free. Take notes and list the first 3 things to work on.

If you keep doing the things you're doing... you'll keep getting the same thing you're getting. Ready for change? 

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Key Takeaways:

Brian also opens up about the challenges he faced growing up in a divorced family and how it shaped his approach to fatherhood and marriage. This episode is packed with wisdom, real-life stories, and actionable advice to help you build a stronger, more loving relationship.

(00:00) Discover real life stories and a path to overcome the pitfalls every marriage encounters

(01:09) Connie Durham welcomes Brian Parrish to the extraordinary marriage

(02:14) Brian and Cody got married in 2010; it's been 13 years now

(03:27) Brian says the biggest need in a healthy marriage is communication

(04:30) Jeff and I had unrealistic expectations when we got married about communication

(06:21) Brian and Cody both come from divorced families. So how does that feel as a kid

(12:01) Brian and his wife were married nine days when their first child was born

(15:43) Tennessee Knox says marriage is an attack on selfishness

(21:06) That selfishness is so hard to fight. It's steady, it's constant

(21:21) Brian: Whenever we blow up, our partner has three choices

(22:58) I think how selfish we are when we first get married starts with selfishness

(30:20) In marriage, sometimes you get tired, and it's about what you do

(36:36) Brian: Where does respect come from? Value. I mean, you respect something based on its value

(39:45) Jeff: There are roles to marriage, and there are responsibilities

(46:34) By knowing your partner's love language, you can serve them

(49:01) Connie Durham: Brian, thank you so much for sharing today

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It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!

EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564 

FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you

EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139 

Moms have a hard job. Focusing on the right things will bring you energy to navigate your very busy days.

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In today's episode, Navigating Love's Frustration, Jeff & Connie explore the emotional dynamics that either strengthen love or create division in marriage. Discover how predictable out of control emotions influence your relationship and learn practical strategies to overcome these challenges.

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The Relationship Transformer, Connie Durham

In this episode, Connie Durham dives into "Three Mistakes Couples Make That Push Their Spouse Away." With over 40 years of marriage experience, Connie shares heartfelt stories, practical advice, and actionable steps to help you reconnect with your spouse and navigate through common marital conflicts.

Connie emphasizes the importance of understanding your spouse's personality, effective communication, and prioritizing each other. She also shares a personal story about a challenging day at one of her rental properties, illustrating how miscommunication and assumptions can lead to frustration and conflict.

Stay tuned until the end of the episode to download a free workbook on resolving conflict in your marriage. This episode is packed with insights and strategies to help you build a stronger, more loving relationship.

(00:00) Three mistakes couples make that push their spouse away in Connie Durham's marriage advice

(00:55) Resolve conflict in your marriage with this workbook

(01:43) Three mistakes that couples make that push their spouse away

(03:50) My husband and I have six rental properties

(09:18) Three mistakes couples make that push their spouse away in marriage

(12:12) Pay attention to your tone of voice and how you speak to your spouse

(17:57) Third mistake is not putting your spouse first. This is one that a lot of us make

(21:59) Understanding your spouse and understand your differences can help resolve conflict

(27:14) It's called communication secrets for an extraordinary marriage

(34:01) Communication secrets for marriage determine what you each want

(37:34) You get an introductory video and then you get a personal behavior assessment

(44:09) Communication secrets for an extraordinary marriage is free with a growth 40 coupon

(48:43) After 40 years of marriage, Connie Durham can help you improve your marriage

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Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.

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It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!

EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564 

FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you

EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139  

 In this episode, Connie Durham dives deep into the root causes of conflict in marriage and how our predictable personalities play a role in recurring issues. Using relatable anecdotes and practical advice, Connie explores the importance of understanding different perspectives, levels of patience, and upbringing influences.

Discover how focusing on the good and beautiful aspects of your relationship can transform your marriage. Connie also introduces the concept of the compound effect, where small, consistent choices over time lead to significant benefits. Learn about the four predictable personality styles and how recognizing these traits in yourself and your spouse can help you navigate conflicts more effectively.

Don't miss out on the upcoming masterclass, "Three Mistakes That Push Your Spouse Away," and find out how to avoid these common pitfalls. Connie shares her wisdom from over 45 years of marriage and offers a free Fresh Insights session to help you move past misunderstandings and build a stronger connection with your spouse.

(00:00) One year, I was making their birthday cake and I needed an extra big one

(01:46) The extraordinary marriage podcast explores the causes and solutions to conflict in marriage

(05:56) Your past and your personalities determine how you see the world

(06:51) When we focus on what is good and beautiful, relationships go a lot better

(10:35) Communication money is one of the top two divorce accelerators

(12:11) There are four predictable personality styles and each one has its strengths and drawbacks

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🎁Here's my FREE page with multiple ways to enrich your Marriage

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Don't forget to subscribe to The Extraordinary Marriage podcast on Apple, Spotify, and Amazon for more insights and practical tips on building a happy, healthy, and extraordinary marriage.

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It's a Journey... not a destination. I am moving toward the Goal!

EPS 18 - The Crazy Cycle https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148450564

FREE 5 Day Challenge... Get your Husband to Listen to you

EPS 39 - Day 1 of Honey Listen Up https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148696139