The Father And Son Podcast

Valentine's Day was a week ago from the date of publishing this episode. How is your relationship? Nonexistent? Stale? Struggling? Falling from the high of that day?

What we talk about in this episode is all about love and Valentine's Day, we disagree on its importance and what has become of it in relationships. 

We discuss the Love Languages (as introduced by Gary Chapman) and speak on how to effectively communicate with your partner in their love language and why it is important to do so. 

We then speak on the 7 principle pillars of love and how they important it is that they exist, albeit in varying degrees to each other. 

My Father then concludes the episode by leaving a bit of advice to young couples.

In today's episode of the FATHER and SON podcast, we address a few things, including the entitlement mentality that comes when a parent expects to be taken care of by their Children at the cost of said children. 

We then go ahead and deal with a few questions and requests sent in by our listeners and friends, on the topic of a few things that we wish our parents knew and then offer solutions on what they could do better and how they could be better parents to us.

Please do share the episode as it really helps our podcasts and thank you for listening to the end.

Happy New Year to our listeners, we hope you have big plans for this year and we hope you are able to achieve them this year. 

In this episode we discuss on the phrase "New Year, New Me" and whether it is anticipatory or a legitimate enough reason as to why one would not in that moment. Is it legitimate enough to wait until the new year, month, week, day and maybe even hour, to begin what you ought to do now. 

We discuss on New year resolutions and how to really make them stick effectively, we discuss on what to do when we are faced with difficulties and are discouraged by challenges. 

In this episode we discussed the recently paused #ENDSARS protests and movement and how successful it was until it was violently retaliated upon by the Nigerian Government. We discussed Black Tuesday 20-10-20 and we also discussed what is the way forward with the movement. We briefly touched on senatorial salaries, bonuses and allowances, which is a precursor to next weeks episode. which discusses their exorbitant salaries an what is to be done about it.

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Hello Everyone, on today's episode of the Father and Son Podcast, we have our first guest on the podcast, the founder and CEO of Chloes Cupcake Heaven. She is a strong successful businesswoman who has built something of value and reputation in this Nigeria, although she's just in two states her brand is known worldwide. She's the go to for all things confectionary and baking and we believe she has the relevant expertise to speak on this topic and on this podcast.

On today's Podcast we talk about a few things that seem to interest us this week. 

We update the public on the easing of of the lockdown measures and how they affect places of worship and why my dad has not taken up the opportunity to open his church.

We then speak about the concert that happened a few weeks ago and how terrible of an idea it was and how terrible of an execution it was. We then speak on how everyone has returned to normal and seemingly have a blatant disregard for the virus. 

We then speak briefly on policing in both America and Nigeria, and how the police are use for different things, to enforce racism in America and an intimidation tool used in Nigeria and how it was used to intimidate a lady who called out her abuser (Dbanj) on social media and also used by the Nigerian Senator Elisha Abbo to attempt to silence the lady he had assaulted in her store.

In this Episode of the podcast we take a look at oppression and the oppression happening in the world right now. We talk about how those who are in a position of power oppress others. We speak on the George Floyd case and how that those who are silent, or on the fence about these things are inadvertently siding with the oppressor.

We speak about the principle of generalisation and we talk about how white people who aren't racists, men who aren't trash and politicians who aren't corrupt are part of the exception and do not fall within the general rule.

We speak on the oppression happening in this country from the macro level, the politicians oppressing their citizens to the micro level, citizens oppressing their staff or other people who are in a less privileged position than they are. What's your take? Let us know!

In this episode, we define what relationships are, the hierarchy of relationships and the which relationships are more important than the last. 

We then discuss the reasons why secretes are necessary to the relationship, and when it is important NOT to share and when to share the secrets in a relationship.

Going forward we discuss the problems that come with having a relationship with someone who is a chatterbox or an oversharerer of private information. How to live with it and how not to keep secrets from them if they are really important to you

On this episode of the podcast we talk about what regret is, and how burdensome it can be to carry the regret of actions already taken. 

We talk about the ways in which we both deal with the regret of our actions from our own perspectives and also talk about how we advise our listeners to deal with their own regrets. We encourage that you should be able to forgive yourself in order to move on and away from the regrets. 

Finally there is a word of encouragement for those who were petrified about the whole pandemic, circa the easing of the lockdowns around the world.

In today's episode we speak on the differences between the upbringing of the boy child as opposed to the upbringing of the girl child. We speak on gender functionality and the necessity of possessing basic life skills regardless of gender and the need to input basic life skills and attributes regardless of the gender by their parents.

We conclude that due to our generational differences we cannot agree on these things