The Feedback Code Podcast

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  • 24: The Five Uncomfortable Truths to Wisdom

    Sometimes we can throw wise thinking out there but we're not sure what the initial starting point was or why we needed the wisdom. Did we do the work to focus on the need and the why for the wisdom? We can say morning routines make you great, they look great on IG, but we don't always reveal behind the curtain of the challenges leading up to it.

    So let's dive into what I've taken away as critical points for The Five Uncomfortable Truths to Wisdom:

    1. Overcome self-doubt to rebuild your self-confidence.

    2. Selfish time management is healthy.

    3. Responsibility means knowing when to accept help.

    4. Giving your time is rewarding.

    5. Self-discipline will help your mind get unstuck.


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    24 min
  • 23: A Topic We Don’t Want to Talk About

    This week, we're diving into a powerful episode on forgiveness. The power of this episode is solely within your desire to think about what this conversation means in your life and your ability to ask yourself where you're harboring unforgiveness. We're also not limiting this discussion to outbound forgiveness; rather, it's the time to consider where you need to let go and forgive yourself.  This might be the best 8-minute reboot your mind will have all week!  



    9 min
  • 22: How to Cultivate Resilience and Grit

    Resilience is the capacity to recover quickly from difficulties. It's essentially your mental toughness. Grit, on the other hand, is a unique blend of passion and persistence. This week we're diving into resilience and grit. We'll be talking about how it plays out in your work teams, family and friendships.  5 Ways to Develop Grit and Resilience Be intentional in connecting with others who thrive in resilience. They will help you when you welcome them into your thought patterns. Reroute your negative thought patterns. Take the negativity captive when it approaches your mindset. Of course, easier said than done. Allowing a friend to transparently hear what you tell yourself is a great way to begin to identify healthy and unhealthy patterns. Change is constant. Allow yourself to embrace it. Catch your negative self-talk. It won't help you persevere if your negativity is your greatest enemy. Be compassionate to yourself. Grit and resilience are about growth. It's not overnight; rather, it's a lifelong journey. Allow others on the journey to help you develop Grit and Resilience. 


    Take the assessment with this GRIT scale.  

    Angela Duckworth's GRIT's TED Talk 

    Buy the Book: GRIT by Angela Duckworth 

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    19 min
  • 21: Why Great Leaders Really Do Ask Great Questions

    There's no such thing as a stupid question, but there is an art to strategic, smart questions that drive connection, accelerate connectivity and advance your empathy across relationships. You might feel blessed in your current position with excellent leadership that ignites inspiration, activates connection, and reminds you to bring your best self to the table. For others, you may be experiencing anything but that kind of leadership. So rather than waiting for a great leader to show up to demonstrate to you what it looks like, I want to dive into this episode with you and get you narrowing down on what great questions really look like in your life. 


    Resources:  Good Leaders Ask Great Questions by John Maxwell  

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    23 min
  • 20: Why You Need to "Do the Work"

    This week we talk about the unseen stories of 2020. We're diving in to touch on the homework that needs to be done in order to heal from whatever you had to "sit with" in 2020. This message encourages you to face "all the feels" and come out on the other end stronger. If you have something you need to cut out of your life from 2020 - let it go. If you need to equip yourself with the recommendations you received in 2020 - dive into them. Let this message speak truth and honesty to you, regardless of where you're at this season.   


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    16 min
  • 19: Life is Distracting. Stay Committed to the Moment
    Perspective is about seeing life from a particular viewpoint. When you're driving on the highway, more often than not, you'll see spots with binoculars or blue signs that say Viewpoint. There's a sign to indicate, pull off to the side so you can pause and enjoy the moment. We pull over, get out of the car, and say WOW - what a view. You might even say, let's take a moment to check out this viewpoint. You rush back in the car and keep going.
     
    At one point, before our lives were meticulously curated, we followed along in social for all of life's moments. We were trained to follow along to see what our friends were doing at that exact moment. Regardless, you've learned that life is about moments. We have all learned this. We've come together, to share content about telling us to purge social, to heal with our trauma, to let it go, to rest, to practice self-care and to actually live our lives. However, you experience this - it's about distractions stealing what you're committed to in the moment.
     
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    15 min
  • 18: When Fear Steals Your Potential
    This week, we're talking about how fear steals potential in life. Whether you've felt confident in the season of chaos or you've felt loneliness in the midst of vulnerability - there's an ongoing sense of fear. It's up to us to press past what it will try to steal from us. Fear will come for your relationships, your mindset, your friendships and your growth. Listen in, see what you can relate to this week, and make the choice to stop allowing fear to take over life's most precious moments. You were meant to experience more in life, not remain fearful.
    34 min
  • 17: The Power of Interruption and How It Will Change Your Life
    This week, we're talking about the power of interruption. This episode is going to encourage you to interrupt someone for good in the midst of this Global Pandemic. This is the episode that's going to remind you about the person that keeps popping into your mind. Text the person that’s on your heart and let them know you’re thinking of them. Call them. Leave a silly voicemail. Message them a video of your dog on Instagram. Ask them how they’re doing. I know we’re exhausted with this question because we assume the answer is the same, but some days are better than others. Someone just might need your voice, laugh, or energy today. 
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    20 min
  • 16: Multi-passionate and More with Nikki Gray of Endless Florals
    Are you a multi-passionate person? This episode is for you! We're talking with Nikki Gray of Endless Florals, a flower preservation company in Sacramento, California. Not only are we talking about starting a business at the beginning of a pandemic, but we reflect on what keeps Nikki driven to continue to pursue her path on this new journey of flower preservation.
    35 min
  • 15: The Social Dilemma Meets The Feedback Code Movement
    Have you ever wondered what "The Feedback Code" really means? This week we're talking about what it looks like when "The Social Dilemma" meets "The Feedback Code" and what you can do about it. Find out ways to take action when you're getting feedback from your friends on social and how to navigate it.
    37 min

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