Other spiritual disciplines include meditation, solitude, fasting, and observing the Lord’s Day. These spiritual disciplines are designed to strengthen and improve us for all the other disciplines involved in redeeming our time. Next in order are relational disciplines—those skills and practices that help us love our neighbors as ourselves. Today’s excerpt from The Disciplined Life is found on page 70:
“Just as there are disciplines designed to reshape and nurture our souls, so also there are disciplines which, as we master them, can direct our outward lives in ways consistent with the life of Jesus Christ. And, as the focus of spiritual disciplines is the soul, so the focus of relational disciplines is love.
“Love is the greatest of all Christian virtues, and that for two reasons. First, love consummates all the other virtues of the life of faith. When we love others, we are showing them patience, kindness, humility, deference, consideration, selflessness, generosity, purity, and truthfulness. We may show each of these individual virtues by themselves, of course, but only when these are motivated and activated by love do they come with the fullness and genuineness that truly communicate the character of Christ.
“Second, love is the greatest of Christian virtues because love most expresses the being of God, Who is love. When we love others, selflessly and disinterestedly, it is not actually we who love, but Christ, Who causes His Spirit to well up within us, engaging our transformed soul, and flowing out from us in words and deeds that imitate Jesus and embody the fact that He is alive from the dead.
“Maturing in love, growing in the love of Jesus Christ and showing love more consistently to others, is, as the writer of Hebrews observed, a matter of practice. That is, we need to discipline the words we speak and the works we do so that, when we’re with other people, those words and works will channel the love of Christ.”
For reflection or discussion
1. Why does it make sense to think that we can improve our relationship skills and practices?
2. Why is it important that we do so?
Jesus said that the world would know we are Christians by our love, beginning with love for our fellow believers but branching out in love to everyone God brings into our lives. And we can all improve in love by mastering a few basic relational disciplines. Share today’s podcast with some friends. Encourage your friends to join you by subscribing to the Read Moore podcast. Then get together to discuss how you can help one another grow in love. Download a free copy of The Disciplined Life by going to The Ailbe Bookstore. Get yours, then share it with all your friends.
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