Uncensored Self with Ryann Gillen

The Feminine Energy Advantage


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Welcome back to The Uncensored Self Podcast. Today we’re digging into the exact place most high-achieving women feel the squeeze: selling and marketing their work. I share how 15 years in traditional, masculine sales and marketing created results but also burnout—and how balancing Doer energy (structure, logic, action) with Dreamer energy (intuition, creativity, experience) unlocks true alchemy in your pipeline, launches, and daily outreach.


In this episode, we cover:

  • A five-minute refresher on the Law of Gender and the Feminine Energy Archetypes: Doer, Dreamer, and Alchemist

  • Why classic sales advice feels so hard for many women: pressure, push, proving, and “go make something happen” tactics that clash with your natural energy

  • The two common traps: over-relying on doing until you burn out vs. avoiding sales because it feels misaligned

  • Masculine “result math” versus feminine “experience design”—and why people buy with emotion and justify with logic

  • Real client examples: replacing dreaded cold calls with connection-based strategies that refilled a pipeline by $15–$20M, and an intuitive, simple launch plan that sold out

  • The belief shift about people: stop seeing audiences as dollar signs and start seeing humans you love to serve—magnetism follows

  • The Alchemist’s sweet spot: building a strategy you actually enjoy, so effort is amplified by energy rather than replaced by force


This episode isn’t just about sales tactics—it’s about becoming the woman whose presence, conviction, and alignment make selling feel easy, fun, and wildly effective.


Watch now and learn how to:

  • Map your current sales approach to Doer vs. Dreamer and find the gap that’s creating resistance

  • Keep the result while changing the experience so your strategy fits your gifts and life

  • Shift the story you tell about your buyers so you attract aligned conversations and opportunities

  • Build an intuitive marketing plan you’re excited to execute—and stick with—because it feels like you


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P.S. I’m hosting a live, three-to-four-part masterclass on The Feminine Energy Advantage in Sales and Marketing. It’s $297 and we’ll build your intuitive plan together. If you want deeper support, the six-month Uncensored Self Experience blends mastermind, coaching, and full access to my programs—with monthly 1:1s and ongoing mentorship. DM me on social for more details.

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Uncensored Self with Ryann GillenBy Ryann Gillen