Welcome back to The Uncensored Self Podcast.

In this episode, we’re talking about what it really means to be addicted to overwhelm – addicted to stress, chaos, and drama – and why so many high-achieving women think it’s just “part of the deal.” You’ll see how this isn’t just a bad habit or personality quirk. It’s an identity and a frequency you’ve been matching without even realizing it.

In this episode, we cover:

• Why stress and overwhelm feel “normal” and even required for success

• How universal law and energetic matching keep you stuck in chaos

• The difference between what’s normal and what’s actually natural for you

• How your identity, stories, and emotional patterns are creating your experience

• The physical cost of chronic stress on your body, health, and relationships

• Why getting into different rooms and different conversations changes everything

• How to raise your frequency so you’re no longer a match for chaos

This episode isn’t just about managing stress better. It’s about no longer being the woman who tolerates a life built on stress, scarcity, and survival – and stepping into the identity of the creator of your reality.

Watch now and learn how to:

• Spot where you’ve normalized stress and started calling it “who you are”

• Shift from “my life/job is stressful” to “I’m no longer available for this frequency”

• Use identity, environment, and energetic standards to create a calmer, more powerful life

  
  

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Welcome back to The Uncensored Self Podcast.

Today I’m sharing some real, end-of-year reflections: on time, on failure, on bankruptcy and divorce, on building an entirely new brand in 12 months, and on why none of it is a tragedy. This episode is a reclamation of my story and an invitation for you to rewrite yours, too. We look at how every challenge becomes a tool, how manifestation is really about identity (not effort), and how healing my relationship with feminine and masculine energy changed everything in my life and business.

In this episode, we cover:

• How I used to measure every year by one metric: did I hit the goal or not

• The origin story behind The Uncensored Self and what has been created in just 12 months

• Reframing bankruptcy, business divorce, and divorce from shame and failure into tools and preparation

• Why the story you tell about your past dictates the life you live now

• The shift from “How do I get what I don’t have” to “Who is the woman who already has it”

• A real client example of becoming the woman whose life reflects the energy she chose, not what she chased

• Healing deep, unhelpful beliefs about men and masculine energy and how a healthy partnership can act like a cheat code

• What’s next for Business Therapy and how it bridges logic and energy, strategy and soul

  
  

This episode isn’t just about reflecting on 2025, it’s about reclaiming your story, seeing every challenge as a tool, and choosing to become the woman you’re proud of, regardless of what did or didn’t go “to plan.”

Watch now and learn how to:

• Rewrite the story of your past so it equips you instead of disqualifies you

• Stop manifesting from lack and start creating from identity and fullness

• Prepave your energy before sales calls, content, and conversations so you lead instead of react

• See your relationships, money, business, and “failures” through a lens that actually supports where you’re going

• Decide what the end of this year means for you, instead of letting metrics alone define it

  
  

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Welcome back to The Uncensored Self Podcast.

Today we’re unpacking Power Leaks—the subtle, “totally normal” places you hand your energy, attention, and emotion to things that don’t serve you. If energy is your creative force, every leak dilutes your ability to become an energetic match for what you want. We define power, locate the most common leaks, and show you how to reclaim your focus so you can create from alignment.

In this episode, we cover:

• The core truth that you don’t have it yet because you’re not an energetic match for it

• What “power” really is: your energy, focus, attention, and emotions, and why what you focus on expands

• Three major Power Leaks with real examples: judgment, mental gymnastics, and reacting to circumstances

• How mixed energy creates mixed results and how to restore coherence

  
  

This episode isn’t just about Power Leaks—it’s about becoming the woman who holds her energy and creates results from identity and alignment, not effort and anxiety.

Watch now and learn how to:

• Catch a leak in the moment, label it, and redirect your attention back to creation

• Clean up judgment and comparison so you can be in resonance with what you desire

• End the mental gymnastics that burn bandwidth and keep you in distraction

• Stop reacting to “what is” and lead your state regardless of current circumstances

  
  

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Welcome back to The Uncensored Self Podcast.

Today we’re talking about energetic standards—what you’re available for in business and life. This episode came through right after my Kansas City workshop, Stop Running Your Business Like a Man, and a powerful conversation inside a membership I’m part of. I’m sharing how I’m setting my own standards in real time and how that’s changing my clients, my sales process, my money, and my voice.

In this episode, we cover:

• How to define your energetic standards and why your results mirror them

• Four standards I’m anchoring right now

  1. My clients are all in

  2. If I’m forcing it, it’s not for me

  3. I don’t dim my light

  4. Money responds to me

• Forcing vs stretching to grow and how your body tells the truth

• Nervous system regulation so you can hear intuition and move from alignment

• Cleaning up money noise and choosing a new money identity

  
  

This episode isn’t just about rules for your business—it’s about becoming the woman who creates her reality on purpose and refuses to negotiate her standards.

Watch now and learn how to:

• Decide what you’re available for and stick to it

• Shift your sales process when you believe your clients are all in

• Tell the difference between forcing and stretching so you stop leaking energy

• Stop dimming your light and speak your truth without making others wrong

• Replace money noise with a clear standard: money responds to me

  
  

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• Start seeing people differently so you attract aligned clients

  
  

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Welcome back to The Uncensored Self Podcast.

I had zero plans to record this episode today… but when God says “talk about money,” you hit record. So here we are — completely unfiltered, mid-breakthrough, talking about money, identity, overflow, and what actually happens when your results outgrow your capacity to hold them.

In this episode, I share how I went from a $1.2M year to rebuilding from scratch — and why it had nothing to do with strategy and everything to do with identity, energy, and God. This one’s raw, real, and honestly might trigger a few money stories (the ones keeping you broke and busy).

In this episode, we cover:

• What happens when your identity can’t hold your next level

• How “clingy girlfriend” energy shows up in your relationship with money

• Why chasing clients and cash never works (and what actually does)

• The moment I realized I’d been manifesting without God

• The real reason your business plateaus no matter how hard you work

  
  

This episode isn’t about getting more money — it’s about becoming the woman who can hold it.

Watch now and learn how to:

• Stop performing for money and start co-creating with God

• Shift out of survival energy and into true overflow

• Rebuild your relationship with money so it actually loves you back

  
  

If this one hits — share it. Because every woman you know has a money story that needs rewriting.

P.S. The conversation continues inside Sales and Marketing Alchemy, my 4-hour live workshop on November 12 from 10-2 CT. We’re throwing out the rules, rewriting your energetic marketing plan, and dissolving the money pressure that kills your magnetism. Your $297 ticket includes an Energy Shift Day and my Feminine Energy Archetypes series. Bring a friend — when she joins, you get a credit for future programs.

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Welcome back to The Uncensored Self Podcast.

Today’s message is simple and a little spicy: stop manifesting clients and money… and start manifesting joy, presence, and creation. I share how this download came through on a walk (and yes, why I used to turn even the back of a motorcycle into a productivity exercise), and we unpack the trap high-achieving women fall into when we rebrand our masculine drive as “manifestation.” This is about shifting from chasing results to actually enjoying the life and business you’ve already created—so more can meet you there.

• Why most manifestation advice is built for the “average” and backfires for high performers

• The real difference between creating (masculine doing) and creation (feminine becoming)

• How we accidentally turn spiritual work, joy, and even rest into performance and proof

• The “vacuum with the cord unplugged” problem: chasing external proof vs cultivating internal alignment

• A grounded example of aligned marketing (this podcast) and why it works

• Why the work is cyclical: softening, surrender, and trusting again at each new level

  
  

This episode isn’t just about clients and money—it’s about reclaiming the experience. When you choose the feeling first (freedom, ease, joy), your frequency shifts… and the results follow.

• Spot where you’re still performing instead of experiencing (even in your “spiritual” routines)

• Shift from results-obsession to presence and pleasure without dropping ambition

• Audit your sales and marketing for alignment so they start working as acts of service, not strain

  
  

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Welcome back to The Uncensored Self Podcast.

This week we’re getting honest about what it takes to find your voice after years of performing, people-pleasing, and proving. This episode was born on the back of a motorcycle—hours of presence, quiet, and clarity—where the real download came through: you can’t access the feminine energy advantage until you’re willing to be vulnerable and tell yourself the truth.

In this episode, we cover:

• Why presence (not future-tripping) is the doorway to clarity and creation

• The stages of awakening: “I don’t like it here” → fix me → mindset → universal law → identity

• How performance silences your truth and keeps you chasing approval and belonging

• Reclaiming feminine energy through vulnerability, self-relationship, and honest communication

This episode isn’t just about “using your voice”—it’s about remembering who’s speaking. When you stop performing and start expressing, your feminine energy becomes magnetic.

Watch now and learn how to:

• Practice presence so ideas come from soul, not the thinking mind

• Spot where you’re performing instead of expressing—and what to do next

• Take simple, brave steps to use your real voice in life, business, and relationships

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Welcome back to The Uncensored Self Podcast. Today we’re digging into the exact place most high-achieving women feel the squeeze: selling and marketing their work. I share how 15 years in traditional, masculine sales and marketing created results but also burnout—and how balancing Doer energy (structure, logic, action) with Dreamer energy (intuition, creativity, experience) unlocks true alchemy in your pipeline, launches, and daily outreach.

In this episode, we cover:

• A five-minute refresher on the Law of Gender and the Feminine Energy Archetypes: Doer, Dreamer, and Alchemist

• Why classic sales advice feels so hard for many women: pressure, push, proving, and “go make something happen” tactics that clash with your natural energy

• The two common traps: over-relying on doing until you burn out vs. avoiding sales because it feels misaligned

• Masculine “result math” versus feminine “experience design”—and why people buy with emotion and justify with logic

• Real client examples: replacing dreaded cold calls with connection-based strategies that refilled a pipeline by $15–$20M, and an intuitive, simple launch plan that sold out

• The belief shift about people: stop seeing audiences as dollar signs and start seeing humans you love to serve—magnetism follows

• The Alchemist’s sweet spot: building a strategy you actually enjoy, so effort is amplified by energy rather than replaced by force

  
  

This episode isn’t just about sales tactics—it’s about becoming the woman whose presence, conviction, and alignment make selling feel easy, fun, and wildly effective.

Watch now and learn how to:

• Map your current sales approach to Doer vs. Dreamer and find the gap that’s creating resistance

• Keep the result while changing the experience so your strategy fits your gifts and life

• Shift the story you tell about your buyers so you attract aligned conversations and opportunities

• Build an intuitive marketing plan you’re excited to execute—and stick with—because it feels like you

  
  

If this episode resonates with you, hit the like button, subscribe to the channel, and share it with a friend who needs it.

P.S. I’m hosting a live, three-to-four-part masterclass on The Feminine Energy Advantage in Sales and Marketing. It’s $297 and we’ll build your intuitive plan together. If you want deeper support, the six-month Uncensored Self Experience blends mastermind, coaching, and full access to my programs—with monthly 1:1s and ongoing mentorship. DM me on social for more details.

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Welcome back to The Uncensored Self Podcast.

This episode answers the quiet question under so many conversations: How did I get here? If you’re talented, driven, and externally successful yet still feel off course, this is the deeper truth behind that feeling and the path out.

In this episode, we cover:

• The real question beneath “How did I get here?” and why potential feels unmet

• Conditioning and programming from family, culture, and industry that shape your default identity

• How chasing, proving, and output culture keep you stuck in lack

• The pivot from victim consciousness to creator consciousness using universal law

This episode isn’t just about frustration with where you are — it’s about reclaiming who you are and creating from identity, not effort.

Watch now and learn how to:

• Spot the patterns and stories that quietly built your current reality

• Shift from reacting to intentionally responding through thoughts, feelings, and actions

• Own radical personal responsibility and step into your creator identity today

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Welcome back to The Uncensored Self Podcast.

For years I built my business in straight-up masculine energy—always doing, always producing, always pushing. It worked on paper, but it left me disconnected, numb, and constantly questioning why it didn’t feel good.

In this episode, I share the story behind my upcoming live workshop, Stop Running Your Business Like a Man, and how learning the truth about masculine and feminine energetics completely shifted the way I work, lead, and create.

In this episode, we cover:

• The difference between gender roles and true feminine energy

• Why so many ambitious women feel burned out and unfulfilled

• How the Law of Gender explains the balance you’ve been missing

• What it looks like to create a business that’s a masterpiece, not a machine

This episode isn’t just about an event—it’s about reclaiming how you work so your career actually supports your life, your creativity, and your power.

Watch now and learn how to:

• Recognize where you’re over-relying on masculine energy

• Invite your feminine energy into planning, decision-making, and client experience

• Build a business that feels aligned, creative, and alive instead of sterile and exhausting

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