The Feminine Perspective

Emily and Verity are back with a RANT about the state of dating in today’s world! From nonchalant men and mixed signals to the bare minimum being mistaken for effort, the girls discuss why dating feels harder than ever and why it seems so difficult to find someone who actually cares.

They dive into the lack of communication, the never-ending situationships, emotionally unavailable men and the obsession with acting like you don’t care. Why has showing genuine interest become so embarrassing? Are we asking for too much, or have the standards really fallen that low?

Expect unfiltered opinions, relatable dating frustrations and plenty of laughs as Emily and Verity say what so many women are thinking. If you’ve ever been left wondering whether a man actually likes you or is just keeping you around for convenience, this one is for you! 💋

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Emily and Verity are back with MORE dilemmas! 💭 This time, they’re tackling some big relationship, life and career questions — and giving their honest opinions along the way.They discuss whether you should stay in a relationship when your partner is ready to settle down and have children, but you’re not sure you want the same things. They also talk about the importance of taking your time when dating and not rushing into serious commitments before you’ve truly got to know someone — especially when it comes to making the huge decision to have children together.They then tackle a dilemma from someone who is feeling anxious about starting their own business. Emily shares her own experience of building her business, including the steps she took to get started, the doubts she had along the way and why sometimes you just have to take that first step.And, as always, Emily and Verity somehow end up going completely off topic… 🤣 They finish the episode with a few unexpected tangents, random conversations and plenty of their usual chaos.Another episode of dilemmas, honest advice and absolutely no shortage of opinions! ✨✨ Follow us and listen to new episodes fortnightly on Sundays! ✨

ANOTHER CATCH UP! 💋🍸

Emily and Verity are back with another catch-up, and there’s A LOT to update you on! From Emily’s recent holiday to Portugal and the unexpected shock of spotting someone she knew at a boat party, to Verity’s daughter making the huge move to Italy, they’re bringing you up to speed on everything that’s been happening in their lives.

They also get into their current dating lives and discuss the age-old question: could you date someone you weren’t attracted to if they had a LOT of money? 💰

Emily has some strong opinions… but she also has a story to back them up. She opens up about the time she actually dated a millionaire and reveals exactly what happened — and why money definitely isn’t everything when it comes to attraction and relationships.

Expect dating stories, holiday gossip, life updates, and as always, plenty of laughs.💕

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In this episode, Emily and Verity sit down to read out some of the creepiest ghost stories sent in by you! 👻From paranormal encounters and mysterious figures to experiences that still can’t be explained, these stories will have you questioning whether there really is something beyond what we can see…Some are terrifying, some are completely bizarre, and a few genuinely left Emily and Verity with goosebumps! 😳Have you ever experienced something paranormal? Let us know your ghost stories — you might even hear yours in a future episode!

This week, Emily and Verity are back with Part 2 of their catch-up, and there's plenty to unpack! Emily gives an update on the two dates she's recently been on, sharing exactly how they went, the green flags (and red flags), and whether either of them has any potential. She also spills all about her trip to Portsmouth to visit a friend and everything that happened while she was there.

The conversation also turns into a debate as they ask the age-old question: Can men and women really just be friends? Emily and Verity share their own opinions and experiences.

They also dive into the World Cup, discussing the final result and their feelings about it and the controversy surrounding Argentina's style of play. Did they cross the line or were they simply doing whatever it took to win?

Verity opens up about one of the biggest frustrations in her past relationship—having an ex who was more interested in looking like a gentleman for everyone else's approval than actually being one behind closed doors.

It's another honest, funny, and unfiltered catch-up packed with dating updates, relationship debates, football opinions, and plenty of laughs.

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In this episode, Emily and Verity finally sit down for a much-needed catch-up after some time apart. Verity shares the story of her newest family member—a mischievous little kitten—as well as everything else she's been up to lately, including unexpectedly reconnecting with an old family friend and reflecting on how life has changed.

As the conversation unfolds, it takes a more serious turn. What begins as a discussion about everyday interactions leads into a wider conversation about the uncomfortable and often unsettling encounters many women experience from a young age. Emily opens up about her own experiences, walking through a timeline from the ages of 15 to 19 and sharing the moments where adult men crossed personal or professional boundaries.

Among those experiences is the moment her college tutor admitted he had developed a crush on her—a confession that prompted questions about power dynamics, professionalism, and the lasting impact these situations can have.

This episode explores the contrast between light-hearted life updates and honest conversations about growing up as a young woman, highlighting how experiences that can seem isolated often form part of a much bigger pattern.

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Emily opens up about her recent breakup, sharing what happened, what ultimately led to the relationship ending, and the red flags she noticed along the way that gradually piled up until she knew it was time to walk away. Nothing happened overnight—it was a series of moments, patterns, and realisations that helped her recognise the relationship wasn't right for her.

We decided to share this episode because we know so many people have been in similar situations. Our hope is that by talking openly about these experiences, we can help you recognise unhealthy patterns sooner, trust your instincts, and make more confident, informed decisions when it comes to dating and relationships.

Whether you're navigating a new relationship, questioning your current one, or healing from a breakup yourself, we hope this conversation reminds you that you deserve honesty, respect, consistency, and a relationship that brings you peace—not constant uncertainty.

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This week, Emily and Verity are back to answer more of your relationship dilemmas. Whether you're questioning where things are going, struggling with communication, dealing with jealousy, or deciding whether to stay or walk away, they're sharing their thoughts on the challenges you've sent in. Expect honest conversations, practical advice, and plenty of discussion as they help listeners navigate the ups and downs of love and relationships. If you've ever needed a second opinion on a romantic dilemma, this episode is for you.

It’s time for Part 2 of Emily and Verity’s catch-up, and this one takes some unexpected turns.

Emily finally spills all the details from her recent holiday—and what was supposed to be a relaxing getaway quickly turned into an absolute nightmare. From one disaster to the next, she takes Verity through everything that happened and why it became a trip she won’t be forgetting anytime soon.

The conversation then takes a more mysterious turn when Emily shares a vivid dream she had about an ex. Was it simply her subconscious at work, or could it have been something more? Together, Emily and Verity explore the idea of dreams as messages, discuss whether dreams can be premonitions, and dive into the ways we might be connected to our spirit and intuition.

The pair also chat about recurring dreams, why certain themes seem to follow us throughout our lives, and the possible meanings hidden beneath them.

Plus, Emily shares a bizarre and unsettling memory from her childhood when, despite being fully awake and conscious, she suddenly forgot who her mum was. It’s a story that has stayed with her ever since and raises fascinating questions about memory, consciousness, and the mysteries of the mind.

Expect honest conversation, strange stories, spiritual musings, and plenty of laughs along the way.

After a five-week break, Emily and Verity are finally back behind the mic for a long overdue catch-up — and they’re bringing you along for every unfiltered, chaotic and surprisingly emotional moment. From life updates to late-night revelations, this episode feels like sitting in on a conversation between best friends who have a lot to unpack.

Verity opens up about being newly single and how it’s pushed her into a new chapter of self-reflection, freedom and reinvention. She shares the “40 by 40” bucket list she’s created ahead of her milestone birthday — including the experiences she wants to have, the risks she wants to take, and the cosmetic surgeries she’s planning before turning 40.

The conversation takes a hilarious turn as Verity recounts recent nights out with her friends and her daughter, including the surreal experience of ending up in university clubs and seeing nightlife through a completely different lens. Emily and Verity compare stories about partying, ageing, confidence, and the strange overlap between motherhood and modern social lives.

But the episode also moves into more serious territory when they begin discussing how often they were catcalled as schoolgirls compared to now as adult women. That conversation sparks Emily to share a deeply personal story about a close friend who, at a very young age, became involved with a much older man — and the lasting impact it had on her life and relationships.

Honest, funny, uncomfortable and heartfelt in equal measure, this episode is a reminder of why these two conversations feel like catching up with your own friends.