Fear is a natural part of life, but how we face it can define our journey. In this episode of First Comes Love, we dive deep into the topic of fear—what it teaches us, how it shapes us, and how God uses it to prepare us for greater things. John shares one of the scariest moments of his Air Force career, reflecting on how it challenged him, stretched his faith, and ultimately strengthened his trust in God’s plan. We also discuss how stepping into the unknown requires preparation—because when God takes you to new heights, you need to be ready to rise to the occasion. Whether you’re facing personal fears, career challenges, or spiritual battles, this episode is a reminder that fear doesn’t have to paralyze you—it can position you for purpose.

In this eye-opening episode, Neisha gets real about her experience with a panic attack and how it’s reshaped her views on fear and faith. 

 John dives deep into the fascinating connection between the mind, spirit, and how God uniquely designed us to navigate life’s challenges.

Fear is a powerful emotion, but so is the grace and design of God that helps us overcome it. Join us as we unpack personal stories, spiritual truths, and the profound ways we can align with God’s plan for peace and purpose.

Don’t miss this heartfelt and insightful conversation!

In this deeply personal episode, Neisha opens up about her own shortcomings in our marriage and the lessons she’s learned from her missteps.

Together, we explore the power of forgiveness, the importance of reconciliation, and how accepting God’s grace has transformed our relationship. Marriage isn’t perfect, but it’s a journey of growth, healing, and love. Join us as we share real-life insights and encouragement for navigating the ups and downs of life and relationships.

In this raw and revealing episode of First Comes Love, Neisha and John dive deep into one of the toughest challenges they faced in their 17-year marriage: infidelity. They share their personal experience of betrayal, the pain it caused, and the hard truths they had to confront. But this isn’t just a story of heartbreak — it’s a testament to healing, grace, and redemption. Through the storm, they discovered that with God’s guidance, radical honesty, and a commitment to growth, it’s possible to not just survive infidelity, but to thrive beyond it.

Tune in for an episode that’s unfiltered, courageous, and full of hope, as Neisha and John unpack the power of forgiveness, overcoming human nature, and building a marriage that’s stronger than ever.

This one’s for anyone who’s questioned love, faced the pain of betrayal, or wondered if trust can ever be rebuilt.

 Press play.. it's time to get real.

After 17 years of love, growth, and navigating life together, we’re inviting you to join us on First Comes Love — a podcast where we share the laughter, the tears, and the profound insights that have shaped our marriage and our lives.We’re not here to pretend we have it all figured out, but through open, authentic conversations, we’ll explore our biggest life lessons, the challenges we’ve overcome, and the strongholds and limiting beliefs we’ve had to break. We believe that putting love first — in everything we do — has been our foundation for living a purposeful life.With Christian undertones and themes, we’ll dive into how our relationship with God has not only sustained our marriage but also strengthened us as individuals. Whether you’re single, married, or somewhere in between, we hope to inspire you to grow, to love deeply, and to walk your own journey with faith and purpose.Come laugh with us, cry with us, and grow with us. Let’s discover together how to make love the cornerstone of everything we do.Follow First Comes Love — because love isn’t just a destination, it’s the beginning of everything.