-How can we disagree, enjoy it, and stay friends? What has led Western society to become so divided? Has society always been this broken? What has led to such abuse, neglect, disharmony? What is the source of our polarised, fragmented communities? -Free speech is supressed -Feelings of offence can have you arrested -Racial abuse -disharmony -division between countries. What is the word that describes the Middle Ages? JOY! Why? They are captivated with the Kingdom of Heaven, The Lord Jesus, the scriptures. Then able to have 'disputations' -students had to upheld a defend an untenable position (11th-12th century) -this is true university -Universities founded in the middle-ages today hold on to some form of 'disputation'. -Students had to defend 'there is no god' absurdity in the Middle Ages. How were they able to disagree yet love each other? -When identity is secure by the Lord Jesus and His Kingdom -when the future is known -When they knew they were citizens of heaven -truth, security, value, joy was a fact, The King has truth beauty and goodness in His hands Sanctuary and safe spaces Asking simple questions about life and choices. Can have views 'this is how I see things' can deeply offend some people? -This could not have happened before due to ideological differences Existentialism - all you know is yourself, 'I think therefore I am' (Decarte) - you just know yourself. If all you know is yourself, your own experience, to then question it, hits at the deepest levels. If everything you believe is your own experience, there is nothing else to give life, to make you laugh at an offence, to look up and see your value is in place, regardless of someones idea about you. "Mummy doesn't like that" A mum tells off her child - 'mummy doesn't like that' - well, does that really matter? What does the Child need to know? That there is something more important than personal opinion -if you steal, or hurt someone, that is wrong. Your opinion is not the measuring bar for your child's behaviour. "Your truth" How can you have 'your truth'? -This goes against what the word means "Your truth" does not help anyone live life in joy, in freedom. "Your truth" will hurt you if anyone dares say they disagree with it. How can it be a building block for society? What kind of world have we built with personal 'truths'. Division in society is uncivilised - the roots are post-enlightenment, whose value is self, and not eternal value given by simply who are and ultimately can belong to. When universities were run by Christians -they were places of freedom and dialogue and exploration. What if the scientific data that supports creation allowed to be published? -does this get shut down too? All our lives we hear things which offend, but thank people for making us think. We need to think and rethink. We have to hear ideas we disagree with. To live under regimes we may disagree with. Join groups, communities, debates, you don't agree with, so you can understand people, love them, know how they think. Learn to freely disagree and deeply love the one disagreeing. Like Jesus. You can do this if Jesus is your anchor. Their choice, lifestyle, opinions don't affect you, because you are valuable together, both made the image of God. Value, united, whole, together, healed. When Jesus is our anchor and uniter.