At just 17 years old, Susan Snow's world changed in a single moment. Her father, an LAPD detective, was murdered in a targeted shooting. What followed was grief, chaos, and silence. 

In this powerful conversation, Susan sits down with host Bob Martin to share the story she never asked to live but chose to rise from.

Together, they talk through the raw moments: hearing the news, feeling invisible, trying to navigate trauma at a time when PTSD wasn’t even part of the public conversation. This is more than a story of loss. It’s about survival, the power of memory, and how finding your voice can become the first step toward healing.

"In that moment, my world cracked." - Susan Snow

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What does church look like when you strip away the pressure, politics, production, and lead with grace? 

In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, host Bob Martin and Pastor Allen Cudahy explore the rebirth of faith through simplicity, community, and compassion.

Now living in Costa Rica, Pastor Allen shares how he started Garden of Grace, a faith gathering rooted in presence and healing. They dive into what it means to be a “pastor for the nones,” why spirituality is rising even as church attendance declines, and how a lifetime of ministry is now centered around porch conversations, not pulpits.

Tune in to hear how Pastor Allen is reshaping faith and fellowship one porch gathering at a time. Subscribe to A Wise and Happy Life, leave a review, and share this episode with anyone seeking meaning, especially in midlife and beyond.

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What makes someone walk away from a thriving megachurch in the U.S. to build a spiritual community on a front porch in Costa Rica? 

What leads a respected Lutheran pastor to step away from a thriving megachurch and choose a slower, simpler life centered around real connection? In this episode of A Wise and Happy Life, host Bob Martin talks with Pastor Allen Cudahy about the calling that led him from U.S. pulpits to a quiet front porch in Costa Rica.

In Part 1, Pastor Allen opens up about the pressure of church performance culture, his early decisions to reject elite academic paths, and how he realized “the church left me first.” With warmth and honesty, he shares how decades in ministry shaped his understanding of grace, burnout, and the deeply human desire for belonging and meaning.

Tune in to hear how Pastor Allen is reshaping faith and fellowship one porch gathering at a time. Subscribe to A Wise and Happy Life, leave a review, and share this episode with anyone seeking meaning, especially in midlife and beyond.

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In Part 2 of this heartfelt chat, Bob and Cricket explore how touch, self-kindness, and spiritual connection deepen our well-being. They talk about restorative yoga, demystifying its spiritual roots, and why creating space for joy is a non-negotiable part of life.

If you’ve ever felt stuck or overwhelmed, this conversation will remind you that healing is possible and it starts with presence. You’ll hear stories of discipline, connection, and what happens when you give yourself permission to begin again, over and over. 

Whether you’re 25 or 75, Cricket reminds us that it’s never too late to feel stronger, lighter, and more alive in your own body.

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You’ve been meaning to get back to the gym, try yoga, or reconnect with what makes you feel alive. Bob and Cricket make this conversation feel like sitting on the porch with old friends: thoughtful, funny, and full of heart.

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"It feeds my soul to teach you yoga." - Cricket Foster

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Cricket Foster has lived a big, creative life. From dancing across the globe to leading yoga classes and belting out rock songs in a wedding band. In Part 1, Bob Martin sits down with his longtime friend to talk about the early roots of her journey: ballet discipline, performing joy, and what it means to truly show up for your own life.

You’ll hear how daily practices, even in small ways, help build self-trust, and why rituals like yoga and music aren't just habits, they’re healing.

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You’ve been meaning to get back to the gym, try yoga, or reconnect with what makes you feel alive. Bob and Cricket make this conversation feel like sitting on the porch with old friends: thoughtful, funny, and full of heart.

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"Just show up. That’s it. Just show up." - Cricket Foster

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This is The Wise and Happy Life Podcast—a space where ancient wisdom meets modern science. Mindfulness, philosophy, and happiness practices blend with brain research, compassion, and common sense.

Hosted by Bob Martin—meditation mentor, happiness coach, trial lawyer, and entrepreneur—this podcast is your companion for navigating life’s joys and difficulties with grace, humor, stability, and success.

Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, seeking deeper meaning, or simply aiming to live more wisely, effectively, and humanely in a chaotic world, each episode offers soulful insights, practical tools, and conversations to support the art—and the work—of being fully human.