Casting blame on external encounters hinders us from recognizing that we are a vibrational match to everything we experience, therefore, these encounters were put in place by you, for you. Trusting that our universe is playing in perfect harmony and orchestrating our reality with complete perfection will assist in working through the flows that this human experience consists of. The flows of life are up to you. We must learn to love them and welcome them, as they are a part of our orchestra.