After a rainy weekend, a sun-filled one felt amazing. We headed out for a walk through the woods beneath blue skies and birdsong. The trail was familiar, the pace was slow, and the forest seemed eager to reveal its seasonal surprises.

What happened next was completely unexpected.

Standing quietly beneath the trees, I found myself face-to-face with a moment I had hoped for days earlier and failed to come across.

There was just one problem…

In this week’s episode, I share a story about timing, attention, and the strange way nature seems to deliver exactly what we’re looking for when we’re least prepared for it.

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This week’s episode begins with a bird I could hear everywhere but could barely photograph. What followed became an afternoon of dodging raindrops through Sandy Hook, New Jersey beneath gray skies. It's strange the way nature sometimes redirects our attention when we stop searching so hard.

Along the shoreline, I came across a tiny threatened shorebird I never expected to encounter, and the story slowly unfolded from there. This episode is about the quiet moments that somehow find us. This story will continue to unfold in my Sunday essay. So be sure to subscribe to my free Substack so you don't miss the continuation!

You can also find me over at Flutter By Meadows on Substack for weekly essays and reflections inspired by the natural world.

I am also on Instagram too.

If you want to learn more about protecting piping plovers and other nesting shorebirds in New Jersey, visit the Conserve Wildlife Foundation of New Jersey

Additionally, please visit NJ Fish & Wildlife for more information.

In this episode, I mention Episode 12. You can find it here.

Common Yellowthroat Sound Recording provided by:

CitationWilliam Whitehead, XC720362. Accessible at www.xeno-canto.org/720362.

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Why You Should Be Planting A Caterpillar Cafe: Is Your Butterfly Garden Doing the Right Thing?

This episode explores the importance of planting both nectar sources and host plants, revealing the overlooked stages of these incredible insects and what they truly need to thrive.In this episode I talk specifically about the monarch butterfly.

So next time you’re planting a garden, ask yourself: am I supporting the entire life cycle of the butterfly? And did I plant a caterpillar cafe, or just a butterfly garden?

New to milkweed? Start here.

Want to dig in a little more to caterpillar gardening? You can find This Tree Grows Caterpillars here.

Come find me at Flutter By Meadows on Substack — there's a Sunday essay waiting for you there too, rooted in the same moments we talk about here. There's an essay for this episode that goes along with this. Don't miss it!

You can also find me on Instagram too.

The Secretive Garden

Clues Tell Us Part of The Story But The Trick Is, To Never Stop Looking

Explore the magic of nature and the surprises in your own garden, from rainbows to hummingbirds, and learn how paying attention to small details can reveal that some kinds of magic only reveal themselves to people who keep showing up.

I think the reason I share so many stories from my garden is because it keeps secrets from me.

And maybe, that’s why I love my imperfect little garden so much, because it still knows how to surprise me.

But when I am surprised, I don’t run to a bolt hole. I run to my laptop and start writing about what I saw. Today's episode was inspired by a bunny.

The Feather Story

Episode 20

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It's May. You planted for pollinators. You went to the plant sales. You did everything right. So why does your garden look like nothing but green?

What you're experiencing has a name: the bloom gap. That in-between stretch after the spring ephemerals finish and before the summer perennials take over. It's not failure. It's a pause. And nature has been doing it on purpose for thousands of years.

In this episode: a yellow sign on a train platform, an Eastern Towhee 60 miles apart on consecutive days, a wood thrush singing from the canopy for the first time this year, and why the Eastern red columbine blooms exactly when it does. For someone very specific who just got back from Central America.

Your garden knows what it's doing. This episode will help you trust it.

Audio recordings of the wood thrush provided by xeno-canto.org:

CitationPaul Driver, XC771930. Accessible at www.xeno-canto.org/771930.

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Episode 26 | Site Fidelity: An Old Farm Field and a Date in April

Slow down, pay close attention to the small, quiet signs around us. Growth isn’t usually dramatic. It’s the little changes that tell the real story.

Imagine taking a photo of the same spot each year and watching it evolve. That’s real progress—slow, steady, undeniable. It's a reminder that transformation is ongoing, even when we don’t see it immediately.

Birds can navigate an entire continent, survive a winter somewhere else, including evading predators, and habitat loss along the way. And then return. How?

In this episode, I intertwine the two: a yearly photo I take in my yard, and a warbler that keeps showing up in the same farm field three years in a row.

Every spring, I witness the return of familiar faces: hummingbirds, Baltimore orioles, and the masked common yellowthroat, arriving precisely on schedule.

They embody nature's reliability, contrasting sharply with our human tendency to forget or arrive late. In today’s episode I talk in particular about a tiny warbler that weighs less than the change in your pocket.

Resources & Mentions:

Read the Story: For the full article on this bird, Loss vs Gain – Measured in Grams click here: https://wildbirdresearch.org/loss-vs-gain-measured-in-grams/.

Volunteer Spotlight: Learn more about The Wild Bird Research Group, where my husband and I volunteer. https://wildbirdresearch.org/

Join the Community: Subscribe to my Weekly Newsletter for more nature stories.

Common Yellowthroat recording by William Whitehead (XC720362) via xeno-canto.org.

I read Doug Tallamy’s books and transformed my yard, but the real work started after the planting was done. Samantha explores the "after" of habitat restoration: the small observations, the roadside discoveries, and the reality of gardening for wildlife.

Learn why native plants are a long-term investment, how "volunteers" can save you money, and why the hardest sell in gardening is simply having the patience to wait for the bloom. If you're a new listener looking for the heart behind the habitat, this episode is for you.The Tallamy Effect: What happens to your perspective after reading Nature's Best Hope.

The $9 Investment: Why "pasta-sized" native plants are the hardest sell but the highest reward.

Roadside Rescue: A story about Wild Geranium, Golden Alexander, and how one person can change local mowing schedules.

The Opportunity Garden: How native plants like Wild Bergamot and Chokeberry "volunteer" to save you money over time.https://homegrownnationalpark.org/

Companion Article: https://open.substack.com/pub/flutterbymeadows/p/i-read-doug-tallamys-books-heres?utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web

In this episode, I mention an old piece I wrote about a roadside mowing that was difficult to “un-see”. If you would like to read it, click on the link below.

So Much For No Mow May

Thanks for listening!

“The best relationships aren’t the ones that look perfect right away. They’re the ones that become something over time.”

There’s no store front for friendships. Friendships take time to build. They often come with setbacks too. But over time, common threads connect people, and relationships take shape.

“We don’t pick our friends off of a shelf and get instant gratification. If anything, they require time and effort.”

In this episode, I take a look at the parallels between building friendships and native plant gardening, emphasizing patience, effort, and growth over time.

Today I saw my first tiger swallowtail of the season. The butterfly flew across the deck and over the roofline. But here’s what I keep thinking about—before that butterfly, there was a caterpillar. Awkward. Slow. Nothing about a caterpillar announces what it’s becoming. Same thing with the chrysalis that it was all winter in leaf litter, or hidden in the bark of a tree. Completely unassuming.

Like a friendship in year one.

Like me in 2016, confidently mispronouncing “monarda fistulosa” and having no idea what a host plant was.

When I first started planting native species, they looked unassuming & messy—nothing like the perfect nursery.

You can't buy a friendship off a shelf already in bloom. You can't rush a caterpillar either.

Find more to this story and the friendship I am celebrating over here on Substack. (It's free!)

Wild bergamot (Monarda fistulosa) showed up in my rain garden in April uninvited — and it's one of the best native pollinator plants for much of the US and southern Canada (excluding Florida and the far West coast.) We will also discuss insights on identifying mystery seedlings, native plant behavior, and the lessons they teach us about patience and persistence in our own day to day lives.

April has a way of making you doubt yourself. The very FIRST day of the month starts off in let’s play a joke mode. The spring garden is a tricky lot.

You stand over a patch of soil where you know you dug a hole and planted something (or did I?)…and nothing looks familiar. Just green. Indistinguishable, quiet, and slightly suspicious. Yet honest.

Where Did They Go?

Key topics in this episode include

Native plant identification and growth patterns

Resilience of plants crossing boundaries and thriving

Patience in gardening and life lessons from nature

And for the first time, there’s a full YouTube video to go with it. But if you still prefer the audio only, that is not going to change.

If your garden feels quiet right now…it might not be behind. It might just be getting ready.

Read the original piece on wild bergamot that inspired this episode.

http://flutterbymeadows.com/natures-resiliency/

In life, transitions are inevitable. They often come disguised as uncertainty or discomfort, like the space between winter and spring. Just as nature slowly awakens from its slumber, we too can learn to move forward, even when we feel stuck.

Nature provides a perfect metaphor for understanding transitions. Take the Eastern towhee, for instance, which eases into its full song. It reminds us that growth takes time. Similarly, during the first days of spring, we see the landscape in shades of brown, yet beneath the surface, life is stirring. Recognizing this can help us appreciate our own growth processes, even when they feel slow.

And April is finally here. Even if we are still a little in-between.

PS. I did finally put away my suitcase before I hit publish on this episode.

Audio recordings of the Eastern towhee provided by xeno-canto.org:

CitationDavid A. Brinkman, XC645749. Accessible at www.xeno-canto.org/645749.

CitationDavid A. Brinkman, XC779377. Accessible at www.xeno-canto.org/779377.

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