Rage is a fit of violent wrath.

Fighting is engaging in violent, combative, and aggressive behavior.

Brawling is to fight or quarrel in a rough and loud way. The incisive part of our soul can choose to brawl against our neighbor or against the enemy. 

Shouting is to yell emphatically and can indicate poor control of anger.

Have I watched over my children and the company they keep, the books they read, the entertainments they engage in, the social media they use?

Seeking spiritual consolation is to desire of feeling of warmth, delight, and comfort in prayer. It risks placing our will ahead of God's will. 

Abusiveness is to use something for the wrong purpose. It is to take advantage of a good thing for a bad purpose. 

Quarrelsomeness is being disposed to respond in a petty, contentious, and aggressive manner.

Contentiousness is being prone to disagreement and argument.

Rudeness is a lack of manners and courtesy.