Excessive love order is a false notion of obedience and control that stems from self-reliance and a lack of faith.

License of tongue is excessive talkativeness.

Flute playing is to make music with a flute or a pipe.

Revelry is excessive and indulgent eating, drinking, and partying.

Improper songs are songs and music that incite the passions rather than lift the heart and mind to God.

Clapping is an act of applause and praise made by striking the hands together.

Immodest dancing is indecent, improper, and leads to lust. 

All I really want is to be able to do a metany by the time evening prayer rolls around on Christmas night, so we pre-examined the potential spiritual pitfalls heading into the Nativity. 

Joking is to say or do something to provoke laughter.

Laughter is a show of emotion of joy or scorn with a chuckle or explosive vocal sound.