Seeking spiritual consolation is to desire of feeling of warmth, delight, and comfort in prayer. It risks placing our will ahead of God's will. 

Abusiveness is to use something for the wrong purpose. It is to take advantage of a good thing for a bad purpose. 

Quarrelsomeness is being disposed to respond in a petty, contentious, and aggressive manner.

Contentiousness is being prone to disagreement and argument.

Rudeness is a lack of manners and courtesy. 

Boorishness is being rude, insensitive, ill-mannered, and coarse.

Lightmindedness is a frivolous, trifling, or immature attitude. Repentance is contrary to lightmindedness.

Meaningful moments in the mundane. 

Gaucherie is lacking social grace and awareness. It is awkwardness.

Uncouthness is a lack of hospitality, manners, and etiquette.