You don’t have a purpose problem—you have a commitment problem.

Most high performers waste months (even years) searching for clarity, waiting for some “aha” moment before they take action. But purpose isn’t something you find—it’s something you activate.

In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly why you feel stuck, how to move faster toward what you actually want, and the 3 mindset shifts that will change everything.

🎧 YOU’LL LEARN:

✔️ Why you STILL haven’t found your purpose (and what to do instead)

✔️ The sneaky way high performers sabotage their next level

✔️ How to move 10x faster & create massive momentum

✔️ The role of ego death in unlocking success

✔️ A 30-day challenge to help you build clarity & confidence—fast

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We’re baaaack, and life is coming at us FAST. Laura’s pregnant & engaged. I just announced my business partnership with Nolan at Deep River Jewelry—while also scaling Fully Alive.

And let’s just say… we’re both in a masterclass on identity shifts, surrender, and navigating massive life transitions in real-time.

In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on:

🔥 The grief & magic of outgrowing your old self (and why no one talks about this enough)

🔥 Navigating life at turbo speed (without spiraling into overwhelm)

🔥 What surrender actually looks like when you stop clinging to control (especially in relationships)

🔥 The evolution of partnership—romantic, business, and everything in between

🔥 How our friendship is shifting as Laura steps into motherhood (and what we’re learning from it)

This is one of those raw, unfiltered, behind-the-scenes conversations where we’re figuring it out as we go. If you’re navigating your own season of expansion (and occasional WTF moments), you’re gonna feel right at home.

💬 DM us on Instagram (@StefanieElsperman + @itslaurapatriciamartin) and tell us what hit home for you.

🎧 Hit play & let’s dive in.

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They say never mix love and business… but what if doing it right made both even better?

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the 4 must-have systems Nolan [my fiancé] and I have implemented while growing our luxury jewelry brand, Deep River Jewelry—so we can scale with success and keep our relationship stronger (and hotter) than ever.

Because let’s be honest—working with your partner can either be a dream or a disaster… and the difference? Systems.

If you’ve ever dreamed of working with your partner (or are already in it and want to make it better), this episode is for you!

🚀 YOU’LL LEARN:

✅ How we clearly define our individual zones of genius (so we don’t step on each other’s toes!)

✅ The 2 weekly meetings that keep both our business and relationship thriving

✅ The exact tools & systems we use to stay organized, streamlined, and sane

✅ The key tasks we outsource to free up more time, energy, and intimacy

🎧 Hit play and let’s dive in.

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For all my multifaceted ladiessss 🎙 If you’ve ever felt like you’re stuck choosing between your passions, businesses, or which parts of yourself are “allowed” to show up online—this one’s for you.

Spoiler alert: You don’t have to choose.

In today’s episode, I’m spilling the tea with a leaked voice note from Slack office hours with a client (with permission, because it’s just that good). We’re walking through the exact steps to break out of the box and step into your next season: becoming the woman who has it all.

YOU’LL LEARN:

CONNECT WITH STEF

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We’re BACKKKKKK! Hi my loves, I’ve missed you! Laura (@itslaurapatriciamartin) & I sit down to have a girl chat & recap what tf happened in 2024. We dive into the lessons & blessings, as well as setting intentions for the year ahead.

Grab a journal, your poppi, and your bad self to listen in & use these prompts for your own 2024 reflection.

YOU’LL LEARN:

CONNECT WITH STEF

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IT HAPPENED 💍 We’re making it official! There’s a ring on it AND I have the man himself here to answer all your juicy questions, my fiancé, Nolan Sponsler.

In this episode, Nolan and I share the details on our engagement, plus we dive into what it takes to go all-in on a shared vision and make your relationship a true partnership—both in love and in business.

YOU’LL LEARN:

CONNECT WITH STEF

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CHAPTERS

0:00 Exciting News In Personal Life & Business

5:50 How Did You Know You Were Ready To Get Engaged?

8:57 Did Stef Know?🙈 & About The Ring

16:37 What Does It Mean To Be Ready?

18:42 The Proposal Story (In Spain!)

22:44 What Has Shifted For Each Of Us Since We’ve Gotten Engaged?

34:07 Sharing A Vision: Our Partnership In Business

43:35 What Are You Most Excited For In The Future?

45:30 When’s The Wedding?!?

You’re a multi-passionate entrepreneur with a biiiig vision—and you’re ready to expand into more than one venture. But does adding new paths mean you’re drifting from your purpose?

CONNECT WITH STEF

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CHAPTERS

0:00 Welcome-Are You A Multi-Passionate Entrepreneur?

2:53 Combatting the Fear of “Losing Your Purpose” & Creating A Fluid Purpose

10:16 Personal Example-Playing With Sources of Wealth

13:37 The 3 Levels of Purpose

17:09 Tips to Manage Multiple Ventures

22:43 Stay In Touch, We Appreciate You!

We’re back baby!! After a quick pause (sorry, I’ve been getting engaged 💍), Laura ⁠@itslaurapatriciamartin ⁠ and I sit down in-person to peel back the curtain on what’s actually been going down behind the scenes for the last month.

Plus, our take on breaking out of the coaching matrix, slowing down for sustainability, and handling identity shifts while getting sh*t done.

YOU’LL LEARN

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The time has finally come. In this episode, I sit down with none other than Jacqui—my angel mama, healer, coach, and absolute light in this world. We talk about one of the most powerful, yet challenging, aspects of motherhood: raising children to follow their true purpose, even if that means watching them struggle or fail along the way.

From breaking generational patterns, healing through divorce & breast cancer with grace, to releasing control as a parent, this conversation will inspire you to support your kids as they find their own path—even if that journey is messy.

YOU’LL LEARN:

RESOURCES DISCUSSED:

Our Fave Binaural Beats 10-Min Power Nap

TO DIVE DEEPER:

🌟 Ready to uncover your specific expertise, so you can get paid for your purpose?

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CHAPTERS:

0:00 Hello From London & Introducing A VERY Special Guest

3:59 What Makes You Happy? The Significance of This Question.

11:03 Jacqui’s Passion For Research & The Brain

15:20 Trusting Your Loved One’s Self-Growth Journey

29:42 Breast Cancer Catalyzing Coming Back To Herself-Living A Full Life vs. Living A Fine Life

44:03 Navigating Familial Boundary Setting & Taking Time Daily To Connect With Your Heart

1:00:01 Listener Questions: Generational Cycles, Beauty Secrets & More

In this episode, I’m sharing the exact systems and mindset shifts I’m using to make sure my business + life are set up for taking 3 weeks off to travel throughout Europe.

Many talk about the ‘freedom lifestyle,’ but what does it actually take to live it?

Whether you're planning a trip, want an inside look at running a business + traveling, or just want to streamline your routine, I’m sharing alll the practical strategies to get organized so you can be PRESENT on your trip away.

YOU’LL LEARN:

MY NOTION TRAVEL DASHBOARD (FREE)

TO DIVE DEEPER:

🌟 Ready to uncover your specific expertise, so you can get paid for your purpose?

⚡️ ⁠⁠⁠Snag the X-Factor Free Course HERE.⁠⁠⁠

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CHAPTERS

0:00 The Reality of Traveling Internationally While Running A Business

3:51 Where We’re Going & What We’re Doing On This Trip

5:03 Personal Life Mindset Shift-Tricking Your Body

7:55 Personal Life Systems-Packing Timeline, Planning Outfits & More Hacks

12:23 Business Mindset Shift-How Travel Really Enhances Your Business

15:11 ⚡️Your Understanding Of Your X-Factor Doesn’t Go Away, It Goes With You Everywhere⚡️

19:06 Business Systems-Pre-Batching Necessary Content, Setting Expectations, & Prepping A Key Project

23:46 Yes It Is A Dream…And It’s Also A Lot

25:06 What’s Coming Up!