Most people don't know what to do after an affair-especially in the church, where many people suffer quietly and alone.

In this episode, I sit down with Rick Reynolds founder of Affair Recovery, and we talk about his own story of betrayal, addiction, a vision, and what actually helps couples heal.

If you're dealing with this topic right now, you're not alone, there's a path forward, and this conversation will help & encourage you.

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How do you actually know you’re saved?

Not “I grew up in church” saved.

Not “I said the right prayer once” saved.

But genuinely, biblically saved.

In this episode, I sit down with Rob Best to talk honestly about assurance of salvation — how Scripture defines it, where people get it wrong, and why so many Christians live with quiet doubt they never talk about.

We dig into false assurance, real repentance, belief versus behavior, and why following Jesus isn’t about feelings, religious effort, or checking the right boxes. This conversation is shaped by Scripture and lived experience. No fluff. No hype. Just real talk about eternity, repentance, and what it means to truly trust Christ.

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-Kyle

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After the success of my last episode with Dr. Hawkins (90k plus downloads), Dr. Hawkins suggested we do a sequel on the impact of emotionally immature men, not on marriages like the first interview, but on the kids.

Dr. Hawkins' colleague, Ernest Hart, also joins us, and we get brutally practical about what emotional immaturity and emotional abuse actually do to a family over time: how it becomes “normal”, why kids eventually detach, how it shows up in church, and so much more.

I really enjoyed this one. I hope you guys do too.

God Bless -Kyle

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In this episode, I sit down with Paul Weems. He has raised millions for Christian organizations, owned and sold a John Deere dealership, and walked closely with families navigating wealth, faith, and legacy.

We talk about why money quietly shapes people spiritually, how wealth can drift from blessing to burden, and why generosity without clarity often does more harm than good. Paul shares what he has learned about cheerful giving, family inheritance, donor fatigue, and the simple but uncomfortable truth that God owns it all.

If you have ever wondered how to handle money faithfully without letting it handle you, this conversation will give you a lot to think about.

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In this conversation, I sit down with Madeleine Buhlau for an honest conversation about her career in non-profits, the personal loss of a stillborn child, and where we see things differently when it comes to abortion, gay rights, and living out Christian values.

Madeleine currently serves as the Executive Director of Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Fraser Valley.

You can learn more about Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Fraser Valley at fraservalley.bigbrothersbigsisters.ca

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-Kyle

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Most of us grew up thinking spiritual warfare was either something dramatic and far away, or something we just weren’t supposed to talk about. Meanwhile, real life hits—shame, anger, addiction, anxiety, wounds we can’t explain—and we’re left wondering what’s actually going on under the surface.

In this conversation, Gerry Breshears brings clarity in a way that's practical, biblical, and surprisingly simple. We talk about whether a Christian can be cursed, how Satan twists our wounds and habits, why accusation feels so heavy, and what freedom actually looks like for ordinary people trying to walk with God.

This isn’t hype or fear-mongering—it’s a grounded look at the stuff most of us feel but haven’t had language for. If you’ve ever wondered why certain patterns won’t break, or why you feel pushed, pulled, or weighed down spiritually, this episode is going to give you a lot to think about.

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In this episode, I get furiously curious with Steffan Moens from Sterling Oak Research & Investigations, a Canadian private investigator who spends his days tracking insurance fraud, infidelity, corporate sabotage, and even vetting political candidates.

We talk about how you actually become a PI, what surveillance really looks like, why he sometimes says “no” to clients, what he can and can’t legally access, how the dark web and AI are changing the game, and what all of this reveals about human nature, trust, and power.

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https://sterlingoakinvestigations.com/

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In this episode, I sit down with my friend and Mike Feenstra, a former dairy farmer who sold the farm and stepped into full-time ministry with Power to Change. We talk about what it really costs to follow Jesus in an affluent Western church, why money so easily becomes an idol, and how to think about business, generosity, and “Freedom 55” when eternity is real.

Mike shares how he went to church for 40 years without knowing how to clearly share the gospel, what finally changed, and why he now lives with the finish line in view—raising kids, fighting sin, choosing a church, and reading the Bible with eternity in mind. If you’ve ever felt the pull between comfort and calling, this conversation is for you.

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In this LIVE recording, I sit down with Colonel Tray Ardese — Marine, mentor, and one of the wisest men I know, who has flown over 250 combat missions in an F/A-18 fighter jet, earned the Bronze Star and Purple Heart, and led direct action operations with U.S. Special Forces.

We unpack the leadership principles our generation desperately needs: servant leadership, integrity over results, loving the people who fail you, and why discipline and suffering actually create freedom.

Tray shares raw stories from combat, family life, and faith that hit hard, challenge your comfort, and call men to rise up.

If you're a business owner, dad, husband, or Christian man trying to build a life that actually means something, this conversation will grab you by the collar in the best way possible.

The first half of the conversion starts with an interview, and the second half is a Q&A with the Audience.

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-Kyle

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In this raw and redemptive conversation, I sit down with Sharmen Kimbrough — counselor at the Marriage Recovery Center and founder of Live Found — to talk about how women can heal after being married to a religious "man”.

Sharmen shares her story of growing up under a controlling, legalistic father, marrying into the same pattern, and eventually finding freedom in Christ. Our conversation also digs into:

- How legalism and “obedience culture” breed spiritual abuse

- Why emotionally immature men hide behind Scripture and authority

- What happens to a woman’s identity after years of control

- How genuine faith, surrender, and inner work lead to healing- What biblical leadership and submission actually look like

If you’ve ever felt trapped in a “Christian” marriage that crushed your spirit — this episode is for you.

Enjoy

-Kyle

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Sharmen Kimbrough Details:

Website: Https://www.livefound.org

Facebook: / livefoundinc

Instagram: / livefoundinc

TikTok: / livefound.org

YouTube: / @livefound

MRC Website: https://Marriagerecoverycenter.com

MRC YouTube Playlist: Sharmen Kimbrough

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