Are you active or passive in playing? The funny thing is that we all think we will be here forever or have time. The funny thing is we have no time, and that life is constantly happening; all that matters is how active you are when it comes to that. As in, what are you waiting for? It is like if you are sad and go on vacation and have a miserable time. You had a miserable time because the vacation is happening, but your mindset is not changing. Or waiting to go somewhere but you are waiting for a partner, so you never go. If you want something, you have to go for it; time does not wait for you. And if you passively sit by and wait, you will get nothing.