The Conscious Divorce

The Gap and The Gain


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Ever feel like no matter how much you achieve, it’s never enough? In this episode, we explore the “Gap vs. Gain” mindset, a powerful shift that transforms how you measure progress, success, and self-worth.

Join us as we dive into the true story of a triathlete who learned that peace and performance both come from looking back, not ahead. Discover how “measuring backward” reduces stress, rewires your brain for gratitude, and makes growth visible in your health, relationships, and healing journey after divorce.

You’ll learn how to break free from the endless chase of perfection and finally recognize how far you’ve come. Because when you stop chasing the horizon and start celebrating the ground you’ve covered, progress feels lighter and life starts to move forward naturally.


Key takeaways:

  • The difference between the Gap and the Gain mindsets
  • How backward measurement rewires stress and boosts confidence
  • Real-life tools to track personal progress and feel it
  • A weekly ritual to keep you grounded, grateful, and growing


Stop racing the horizon. Start celebrating the journey.

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The Conscious DivorceBy Justin Milrad