The Gender Diaries

Mallory came to us all the way from good ole’ Chilliwack, BC! A fellow mama-bear who is madly in love with her transgender son, she put on her advocate pants and came out to share everything with us that makes her family, and her community so great. She is doing GOOD work to make her city a more inclusive place for the next generation, and is probably the #1 fan of our podcast. Welcome, Mallory! Learn more about us @ www.thegenderdiaries.com, Read our blog @ https://www.thegenderdiaries.com/blog-gender-diaries, or follow us on facebook @ https://www.facebook.com/thegenderdiaries/

We told you to put your manners aside and ask us anything you wanted to. You delivered! Your questions made for some very interesting conversations between your hosts, Lucy and Ruby. There were so many questions we created 2 episodes. This is part 1 of the 2 part series; ask us anything. Enjoy! 

Making the decision to legally change our kiddos names on their behalf stirred up some pretty big feelings both of us were unprepared for. On this episode we discuss where each of our families is at in the legal name change process, how we got there, and some helpful tips if you are just beginning this journey. We'd love for you to like this podcast and give us a 5 star rating if you love what you hear. Learn MORE about RUBY & LUCY at https://www.thegenderdiaries.com/ruby-lucy

Parent guilt. Every parent's got it. None of us like it. As parents of transgender kiddos, people have certainly had a few choice words for us. But our worst critics are actually the little voices in our heads that tell us we are doing it all wrong. Join Ruby & Lucy for a vulnerable guilt sharing conversation and stay tuned for the burning party at the end. THE GENDER DIARIES FB PAGE: https://www.facebook.com/thegenderdiaries/ THE GENDER DIARIES INSTA: https://www.instagram.com/thegenderdiaries/ OUR BLOG: https://www.thegenderdiaries.com/blog-gender-diaries

We met Eli online.. surprise surprise! Eli identifies as non-binary, and uses the pronouns they/them/theirs. Raised by feminist parents, they certainly got the memo that gender norms were meant to be broken! But, their gender identity evolution has been a process in understanding, self-reflection, and compassion. They are a parent, kindergarten teacher, and all around cool person. We thank them for sharing their story, and helping us showcase another trans voice so we can continue to learn and grow. THE GENDER DIARIES FB PAGE: https://www.facebook.com/thegenderdiaries/ THE GENDER DIARIES INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thegenderdiaries/ OUR BLOG: https://www.thegenderdiaries.com/blog-gender-diaries 

What is social privilege? And, how does it relate to our experiences as cisgender people raising transgender kiddos? These are the questions we asked ourselves as we embarked on a conversation of what our privilege has afforded us, and how we can use that privilege to give our transgender friends a hand-up as supportive allies to their community. THE GENDER DIARIES FB PAGE:https://www.facebook.com/thegenderdiaries/ THE GENDER DIARIES IG:https://www.instagram.com/thegenderdiaries/ READ THE BLOG: https://www.thegenderdiaries.com/blog-gender-diaries

There's just something about back to school that makes us reach into our closets, pull out the advocacy pants, and call it a day! ha. In this episode Lucy and Ruby share a bit about their kiddo's back to school journey. There are times worth celebrating, shoe debates, and a bathroom incident. THE GENDER DIARIES FB PAGE: https://www.facebook.com/thegenderdiaries/ THE GENDER DIARIES IG: https://www.instagram.com/thegenderdiaries/ READ THE BLOG: https://www.thegenderdiaries.com/blog-gender-diaries

What’s a transiversary you ask? Well, it has to do with celebration, gratitude and of course … our kiddos! Listen to this weeks podcast to find out.

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We've focused a lot on positive parental relationships and coming outs here so far, but what does it look like for those who do not have their parent's support? Alec shares a vulnerable tale with us. His path in overcoming adversity is a messy one at times. But, also a beautiful story of resilience, strength, and staying true to oneself. A MUST listen for anyone who is struggling with receiving parental support, but also for those who are struggling to give it. THE GENDER DIARIES FB PAGE:https://www.facebook.com/thegenderdiaries/ THE GENDER DIARIES INSTAGRAM:https://www.instagram.com/thegenderdiaries/ OUR BLOG:https://www.thegenderdiaries.com/blog-gender-diariesWILL BLUNDERFIELD MUSIC: www.willblunderfield.ca 

Kicking season 2 off with a BANG! Transgender activist, parent, and all around good guy, Trystan Reese, joins us for an AMAZING chat. Trystan almost broke the internet in 2017, when he arguably became the most famous pregnant man of all time. But, he has got so much to share beyond any of his viral talks you may have seen online. Fertility for trans youth is a passion of his, and he drops some very real knowledge and support on our show this week. You're not going to want to miss this informative, and thoughtful episode. THE GENDER DIARIES FB PAGE: https://www.facebook.com/thegenderdiaries/ THE GENDER DIARIES INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thegenderdiaries/ OUR BLOG: https://www.thegenderdiaries.com/ WILL BLUNDERFIELD MUSIC:https://willblunderfield.ca/