The Genderqueer Crossdressing Universe

A very interesting chat with Kink & Poly-Aware Sex Therapist Alexandria Champagne!

This is a podcast for those 18 years old or over.

Questions:

 1. As a starter what made you want to become a sex therapist?

2. What inspired you to write your book "Knotty Time"?

3. What is kink?

4. Is Crossdressing a kink?

5. Can kinks ever be unhealthy?

6. How would you go about re-assessing your kinks?

7. What happens when a scene doesn't go like I wanted? What should I do if my partner is wary of kink?

8. Any recommendations for someone who wants to see a sex therapist?

https://ncsfreedom.org/resources/kink-aware-professionals-directory/search-kap.html

https://www.psychologytoday.com/

9. Anything else you'd like to add?

10. Where can someone get a copy of Knotty Time?

https://www.s3safesexstore.com/products/product_detail.asp?guid=D76BBB092654464393CEE38A666A912E

http://www.amazon.com/Knotty-Time-BDSM-Safety-Guide-ebook/dp/B00J9VAHWW

Email: [email protected]

Howdy y'all!

Contents:

1. Howdy US

2. Halloween

http://stylecaster.com/beauty-high/pretty-halloween-makeup-ideas/

http://www.popsugar.com/beauty/Disney-Halloween-Makeup-Ideas-38431808?crlt.pid=camp.ogMHBnJwa1im#photo-38431808

3. JJ Levine - Couples Swap Genders In These Awesomely Awkward Prom Pics

http://www.fastcodesign.com/3028480/couples-swap-genders-in-these-awesomely-awkward-prom-pics?utm_source#1

4. Introducing Teddy: Crowdfunded book about transgender toy inspired by real family goes global

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2015-10-28/crowdfunded-book-about-transgender-teddy-bear-goes-global/6893488

Email: [email protected]

Contents:

1. Moving to the US - a gendered perspective

2. A women's sexuality is more fluid than a man's - study

http://m.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/news/article.cfm?c_id=6&objectid=11502678

3. Caitlyn Jenner Halloween costume

http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/celebrity/caitlyn-jenner-halloween-costume-released-20150824-gj6wms.html

4.  Mixed Synchronised Swimming

http://www.smh.com.au/sport/swimming/world-aquatic-championships-2015-bill-may-becomes-first-male-synchronised-swimming-world-champion-20150726-gil0z0.html

5. Transgender Heroes - Laura A. Jacobs

http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/projects/storywall/transgender-today/stories/laura-a-jacobs-lcsw-r

Email: [email protected]

Contents:-

1. Cordelia Fine talk - The gender galaxy: beyond Mars and Venus

Her lecture is available at http://www.abc.net.au/radionational/programs/bigideas/the-gender-galaxy/6607332

My previous podcast about Fine's work -

http://genderqueeruniverse.blogspot.com/2014/02/tall-women-frozen-facebook-changes.html

2. Insult, Aggression, and the Southern Culture of Honor: An "Experimental Ethnography"

http://www.simine.com/240/readings/Cohen_et_al_%282%29.pdf

3. Gender norm problems with a friend

4. #NudeComesInAllShades

http://www.stuff.co.nz/life-style/fashion/70332800/how-fashion-brands-are-urging-us-to-rethink-nude-when-it-comes-to-skin-colour

5.  CD Pride vs Humiliation

Men taught to suppress emotions - Can't find its linked source, believe it is from iwastesomuchtime.com https://www.pinterest.com/pin/314689092688697054/

6. Genderqueer Role Models: William Powell Eddins

http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/projects/storywall/transgender-today/stories/william-powell-eddins

Email: [email protected]

Contents:-

1. Therapy

http://genderqueeruniverse.blogspot.com/2014/07/chat-with-tg-counsellor-academic-dr.html

Dr Elizabeth's wisdom

"As a crossdresser, you need to crossdress regularly. It is like your therapy, and will be a huge stress reliever."

"During moments of intense stress, crossdressers can feel their dressing desires much more strongly than normal. These intense feelings can sometimes make crossdressers feel that they need to transition, when in reality all they need is to remove the source of intense stress."

2. #PowerofMakeup

http://www.dailylife.com.au/dl-beauty/makeup/the-power-of-makeup-selfies-send-an-important-message-about-makeup-shaming-20150624-ghx3kz.html

3. Masks

Makup Artist

Lilli Female Foam Latex Mask http://www.makupartist.com/154/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=2&products_id=112

Honka White Gothic Hood Foam Latex Mash with Black Lips http://www.makupartist.com/154/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=29&products_id=175

Nikki's Monster Shop

http://www.nikkismonstershop.com/taylor.htm

http://www.nikkismonstershop.com/rose.htm

2nd Skin

http://www.2nd-skin.com/shop/product_info.php/language/en/info/p33_Dita-Maske.html#images/product_images/popup_images/33_0.jpg

http://www.2nd-skin.com/shop/product_info.php/language/en/info/p9_Gloria-Maske.html#images/product_images/popup_images/9_0.jpg

 CreaFX studio

http://www.creafx.com/scheda.php?id=139&lang=eng#col_doppia

4. Viewpoint: Watching the lesbians in India

http://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-india-33265987

5. Shoutouts for this weekend

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2015-07-03/miss-showgirl-needed-for-mt-gravatts-100th-show/6592252

http://www.sparkle.org.uk/about-us/the-sparkle-story/

Email: [email protected]

Contents:-

1. Travel troubles

2. Pink punishment

 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baker-Miller_Pink

3. Crossdressing in Gaming - Witcher III

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kTC750ZFGOA (Adult rating)

4. Crossdressing Fashion - Glamour Boutique

 http://www.glamourboutique.com/dressesskirts.aspx

Sexy Sequin Dress - http://www.glamourboutique.com/sexysequinpartydress-closeout.aspx

Stretch Pink Skirt with Double Hem - http://www.glamourboutique.com/stretchpinksatinskirtwithdoublehem-closeout.aspx

Lace Bodice Black Dress - http://www.glamourboutique.com/lacebodiceblackdress-closeout.aspx

"Owl" earrings - http://www.glamourboutique.com/largeinterlockinghoopearrings-new.aspx

5. Irish gay marriage passes

READ THIS: http://www.irishtimes.com/opinion/fintan-o-toole-marriage-was-nothing-to-be-proud-of-in-1983-1.2217299

http://www.smh.com.au/federal-politics/political-news/meet-warren-entsch-queenslands-unlikely-but-vocal-lgbti-champion-20150529-ghbwdc.html

Email: [email protected]

Contents:-

1. April Fools Day - Jokes for Crossdressing?

2.  Menswear Fashion takes a feminine turn

http://www.smh.com.au/executive-style/style/menswear-takes-a-feminine-turn-at-sydneys-mercedesbenz-fashion-week-20150415-1ml9vw.html

3. Pregnancy Envy

http://www.washingtonpost.com/news/to-your-health/wp/2014/09/26/why-some-men-develop-signs-of-pregnancy/

4. Crossdresser Envy

Email: [email protected]

Contents:-

1. Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras

 Picture of Tank - http://www.panduvie.com/pplsrepublicof/photo/935522856996052073_1698570134

2. My magazine crush: SLiNK magazine

http://genderqueeruniverse.blogspot.com/2015/03/my-magazine-crush-slink-magazine.html

3. Commemorating the wonderful Terry Pratchett

http://www.amazon.com/Going-Postal-Discworld-Terry-Pratchett/dp/0060502932/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1426586347&sr=1-1&keywords=going+postal

4. Superpowers

http://imgur.com/gallery/AOTE74s

Email: [email protected]

Contents:

1. Sea of Humanity

2. One size fits all clothing

ARRGGGHHHH!!

http://www.buzzfeed.com/candacelowry/heres-what-one-size-fits-all-looks-like-on-all#.yklo77LD5

3. Sports

Afghanistan's World Cup win

http://www.cricket.com.au/news/afghanistan-cricket-world-cup-win-over-scotland-celebrated-in-dunedin-to-kabul/2015-02-26

Womens sports - competition more important than skills

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2014-12-04/sportswomen-treated-as-second-class-ric-charlesworth/5942348

4. Trans panic

5. Last Week Tonight with John Oliver: Uganda and Pepe Julian Onziema

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G2W41pvvZs0

Email: [email protected]

Gender Stereotypes Quiz 

Assign a value between 0-5 based on how much you like the following things or activities:

If you think it is awesome, give it a 5

If you really like it, give it a 4

If you like it, give it a 3

If you a neutral about it, give it a 2

If you don't like it, give it a 1.

If you really don't like it, give it a 0.

1. Gardening

2. Drinking coffee

3. Baking

4. Going to a hardware / outdoor supplies store

5. Checking social media

6. Playing a harp

7. Wearing dark-coloured clothing

8. Voting

9. Flirting

10. Joining the army

11. Woodworking / Metalworking

12. Drawing

13. Going to parties

14. Drinking beer

15. Camping / hiking

16. Travelling

17. Learning a foreign language

18. Owning a cat

19. Going Go-Kart Racing

20. Watching Action Movies

21. Watching the News

22. Reading Fashion Magazines

23. Eating Thai Food

24. Fighting Sports

25. Wearing Jeans

26. Reading Romance Novels

27. Playing Consoles / Computer Games

28. Scrapbooking / Pinteresting

29. Painting the house

30. Wearing tight-fitting clothing

Listen to the podcast to determine your score, and what I am trying to convey!

MTF Crossdressing Stereotypes Quiz

Preparation / Wearing

1. Wearing eyeliner

2. Wearing full make-up

3. Wearing over-the-top makeup

4. Wearing a wig

5. Wearing femme costumes

6. Wearing skirts

7. Wearing breast forms

8. Wearing femme underwear

9. Wearing a corset

10. Having clean-shaven legs

Activities / Inclinations

1. Shopping for clothes

2. Attracted to men

3. Cooking

4. Cleaning

5. Reading femme magazines

6. Going out in femme attire

7. Having a manicure

8. Dancing in a femme way

9. Being submissive in the bedroom

10. Singing Drag Queen tunes

Listen to the podcast to determine your score, and what I am trying to convey!

Email: [email protected]