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  • Season 3 Episode 5 – On Having Hard Conversations with David and Julie Bulitt

    Welcome to episode 5 of season 3 of the Generous Marriage Podcast. In this episode we talk to David and Julie Bulitt. 

    David is one of the premier DC Metro family law attorneys, representing clients in high profile divorce cases since 1986. Julie is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 25 years of experience working with families. She is also an in-house therapist at Discovery Channel.

    Professionally, David and Julie have seen life’s most difficult challenges, including addiction, infidelity, mental and physical health diagnoses and trauma. At the same time, they have weathered their own challenges at home, married for 34 years, raising four daughters, two biological and two adopted, and dealing with one child’s addiction and mental health challenges. They have a unique insight on what it takes to maintain a marriage.

     

    Here are the highlights of the episode:

    • David and Julie wrote a book about the 5 core conversations for couples
    • It has different sections that cover not only the ‘we’ part of the relationship but also the ‘I’ part of the relationship
    • The book is based on a lot of conversations they had in the years they’ve been together
    • Talking about hard things starts with talking about easy things
    • There needs to be an I in Team – The importance of self-care for the relationship
    • Living your life rather than managing your life
    • Silence DOES NOT solve conflict
    • The 5 Core Conversations for Couples
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      Bonus: 15 Conversation Kickstarters

      David and Julie Bulitt generously share with us 15 conversation kickstartes so that you could get that conversation you prefer to avoid started…

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      Shachar Erez, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, 12 years married, father of two

      Ziv Raviv, 16 years married, father of three

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      25 min
    • Season 3 Episode 4 – Feeling Supported in Fulfilling Your Dream with Kellee Wip
       Summary of this Episode

       

      Welcome to episode 4 of season 3, on the Generous Marriage Podcast. In this episode we talked to Kellee Wip who is a successful “mom-prenuer” and partner at Mom’s Making Six Figures.

       

      Here are the highlights of the episode:

      • Kellee started in the business world in a really young age and quickly moved through the ranks
      • Kellee met the father of her kids in that business journey
      • All of a sudden, she hit a point in her career where she’s no longer growing in the corporate world and feeling stuck
      • Kellee shifted out of the corporate world and moved to the entrepreneurial world so she can prioritize her kids and family
      • 9 years later she can say that this is the best decision she ever made
      • Her relationship with her husband was like roommates because of lack of communication and not too much love and it resulted in a divorce
      • Kellee had a real good picture of what a good partnership looks like
      • Kellee eventually found a person who supports her all the way
      • When she looks at her relationship, she appreciates the small things that her partner does for her more than the big things
      • In her present career, they chose to help moms bring in extra income for the family while at home and taking care of the family
      • Her advice is to really understand why you are doing what you’re doing – and this will help you make great decisions in your life
      • Kellee is happy with her life because she knows the ‘Why?’ of what she’s doing.
      • https://www.momsmakingsixfigures.com/kellee
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        Bonus: 8 Tips for Supporting Your Spouse

         

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        Ziv Raviv, 16 years married, father of three

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        The post Season 3 Episode 4 – Feeling Supported in Fulfilling Your Dream with Kellee Wip appeared first on The Generous Marriage Academy.

        28 min
      • Season 3 Episode 3 – Marriage as Partnership with Ricardo Ortizcazarin
         Summary of this Episode

         

        Welcome to episode 3 of season 3 on the Generous Marriage Podcast. In this episode we talk to Ricardo Ortizcazarin, the President (and Janitor when needed) of Cazarin Interactive, a successful digital marketing agency.

         

        In this special episode he shares with us his unusual story of a mystical awakening in 2008 and how it changed his life from a life focused on success and money to a life which is all about leaving a legacy and being the best person he could be.

        He also shares with us great tips on leading a marriage of equality, respect and trust, of a partnership.

        Here are the highlights of the episode:

        • Ricardo’s spiritual awakening and how it changed his life
        • How to be a successful businessman and have a loving, strong, supportive marriage
        • What life should be about
        • Negotiating roles with your partner so that both of you do the roles you like doing, and share roles you like less
        • How to support each other’s careers
        • Creating rituals that fill up your marriage with good memories
        • The importance of knowing when to give space to each other
        • Being the best person you can be
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          Bonus: Tips to Keep a Great Marriage 

           

          Ricardo and Mary share tips on how to keep a great marriage for longer than 30 years.

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          Shachar Erez, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, 12 years married, father of two

          Ziv Raviv, 16 years married, father of three

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          The post Season 3 Episode 3 – Marriage as Partnership with Ricardo Ortizcazarin appeared first on The Generous Marriage Academy.

          35 min
        • Season 3 Episode 2 – High Achieving in Your Business and Your Marriage with Jordan Grey
          Summary of this Episode

           

          In the second episode of season 3 we talk with Jordan Gray an author and relationship coach. Jordan helps people remove their emotional blocks and maintain thriving intimate relationships. His mission is to help as many people as possible create their most fulfilling, passionate, love-filled lives..

          We love his writing, and believe you will as well. Check out his blog for mind blowing, sexy, direct and honest relationship wisdom.  

          Here are the highlights of this episode:

          • How important is sex in relationship and how it matters
          • Growing your masculine edge with Presence
          • The importance of dating in a relationship
          • How to show up effectively in your relationship 
          • How to balance achieving your goals and having a good relationship
          • Love dates and scheduling time for sex
          • Dealing with men anger
          • Jordan’s website is jordangrayconsulting.com 
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            Bonus: How to Create Your Ideal Sex Life

             

            Jordan is super generous with his readers. Giving tons of free wisdom.
            He generously shared with us an ebook on creating your ideal sex life.

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            Shachar Erez, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, 12 years married, father of two

            Ziv Raviv, 16 years married, father of three

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            The post Season 3 Episode 2 – High Achieving in Your Business and Your Marriage with Jordan Grey appeared first on The Generous Marriage Academy.

            31 min
          • Season 3 Episode 1 – Rules for Good Men with Jed Diamond
            Summary of this Episode

             

            Welcome to Season 3 of the Generous Marriage Podcast.

            In this season we continue to interview different teachers, therapists, coaches and authors we meet, and bring you practical wisdom you can use to create a more generous marriage for you and your partner.

            Our guest on this episode is Jed Diamond, an elder in the men evolution movement. He is the founder of MenAlive, a health program that helps men live long and well. Jed has been a licensed psychotherapist for about 40 years. Since its inception, he has been on the Board of Advisors of the Men’s Health Network. His passion in life is to suupport men, and the women who love them, in eliminating the stresses that undermine their health and wreck relationships.

            Here are the highlights on this new episode: 

            • It all started in 1969 when Jed had his first child
            • According to Jed, his work life is a fulfillment of a promise he made to his son
            • Jed didn’t have good relationships in the early part of his life
            • Eventually went to therapy himself and learned the cornerstone of relationships on his part
            • Jed’s been with his current wife for 40 years now
            • Jed is also part of a men’s group that’s been meeting for 40 years now(!)
            • One of the Rules for Good Men is being in a men’s group which is a group of healthy men in healthy relationships
            • One of his goals is to help men and their families to be able to do the healing from growing up in a dysfunctional family
            • If we’re not aware, we fall in love to the projected image of what we hope that person would be and not with the person for who she is
            • His wife was the one who challenged him to write the book 12 Rules for Good Men
            • Number one rule is to be comfortable with our maleness
            • Men’s group is a way to discover yourself on a deeper level
            • Second rule is breaking out of a man box – the way we are raised as men and the beliefs that we grew up with
            • Worrier vs Warrior = Woman vs Man
            • Jed and his wife remarried after 15 years to renew their vows, by then they were two different people as they already changed to be the better version of themselves
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              Bonus: 12 Rules for Good Men

               

              Jed Diamond generously shared with us this fun infographic about the 12 Rules for Good Men.

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              Ziv Raviv, 16 years married, father of three

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              The post Season 3 Episode 1 – Rules for Good Men with Jed Diamond appeared first on The Generous Marriage Academy.

              34 min
            • Families Dealing with the Pandemic Situation
              Summary of this Episode

               

              The global lockdown we are going through these days, while facing COVID-19, made us want to offer some support to couples and families.

              We were very happy to interview Tina Tessina, PhD, MFT, who’s also known as Dr. Romance. Tina has been practicing therapy for decades and had a lot of practical wisdom to share with us. 

              Some of the topics we discussed:

              • The power of asking each other “How can I support you today?”
              • The importance of forgiveness
              • Sense of humour as a resource
              • Practicing short moments of connection
              • How regulating counting our blessings and being grateful can be
              • Tips on having sex under lockdown
              • Using resources like exercising and dancing
              • The interview is 33 minutes long and is packed full of practical gems you can use.  

                 

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                34 min
              • Season 2 Episode 20 – What We’ve Learned in Season 2 – Part II
                Summary of this Episode

                 

                In the second part of the last episode of season 2, on the Generous Marriage Podcast we continue to go through the season, the different teachers, therapists, coaches and authors we met, and the lessons we learned from them.

                This has been a great season, we met so many thought leaders and learned so much, we felt it’s important to review and digest what we’ve learned from each of them.

                We go through episodes 11 – 18 and reflect on: 

                • What made an impact on us
                • What we’ve learned from each of them
                • At the end of the episode we share with you our plans on growing The Generous Marriage Podcast to The Generous Marriage Academy, with upcoming courses:

                  • Generous Marriage Foundations – Trust
                  • The Feminine Orgasm – by Michal Maayan Don
                  • Love Made Simple – by Gal Szekely
                  • Stay tuned for more information about the Generous Marriage Academy coming up soon!!

                      

                     

                    Bonus: The Best of Season 2  

                     

                    We made an archive for you with the bonuses of the episodes 11 – 18, in case you missed any of them.

                    Just click the download button, and get all 10 bonuses. 

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                    The post Season 2 Episode 20 – What We’ve Learned in Season 2 – Part II appeared first on The Generous Marriage Academy.

                    38 min
                  • Season 2 Episode 19 – What We’ve Learned in Season 2
                    Summary of this Episode

                     

                    In this episode of the Generous Marriage Podcast we go through the season, the different teachers, therapists, coaches and authors we met, and the lessons we learned from them.

                    This has been a great season, we met so many thought leaders and learned so much, we felt it’s important to review and digest what we’ve learned from each of them.

                    We go through the first 10 episodes and reflect on: 

                    • What made an impact on us
                    • What we’ve learned from each of them
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                      Bonus: The Best of Season 2  

                       

                      We made an archive for you with the bonuses of the first 10 episodes, in case you missed any of them.

                      Just click the download button, and get all 10 bonuses. 

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                      30 min
                    • Season 2 Episode 18 – Successful Dialogue – With Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin
                      Summary of this Episode

                       

                      In this episode of the Generous Marriage Podcast we talk with Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin, a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist.

                      Rabbi Shlomo is the founder of The Marriage Restoration Project, a global initiative to help keep couples together and happy. Their 2 Day “No Blame, No Shame” Marriage Restoration Retreat speeds up the process for healing marriages and is equal to 6 months of marriage counseling. Their unique process allows couples to transform their marriages without the typically long drawn out weekly marriage counseling sessions.

                       

                      We had a great talk with Rabbi Shlomo, packed with practical wisdom you can use. Here are some of the topics we covered in the interview:

                       

                      • What are the principles of Imago couples therapy
                      • How The Dialogue Process creates the safety that’s needed in a relationship for transformation
                      • Things you can do on your own to save a struggling relationship
                      • Practical exercises you can do together to be closer and increase understanding of each other
                      • The Five Step Action Plan to a Happy and Healthy relationship  
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                        Bonus: The Five Step Action Plan to a Happy and Healthy relationship  

                         

                        Rabbi Shlomo was super generous with us, and gave us an infographic that explains The Five Step Action Plan to a Happy and Healthy relationship.

                        Click the download button, print it, and use it! So, you can have a plan to making your relationship happy and healthy!!

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                        26 min
                      • Season 2 Episode 17 – Strengthening Intimacy – with Marcus and Ashley Kusi
                         Summary of this Episode

                         

                        In this episode we are interviewing Marcus and Ashley Kusi, authors of “Emotional and Sexual Intimacy in Marriage“, and other relationship books.

                        Marcus and Ashley are a married couple, and like many married couples they go through challenges and hurdles, and grow together. But different than other couples, Marcus and Ashley write books about what they learn together, and have a podcast talking about that as well.

                        They are fun and inspiring, and we enjoyed our conversation with them very much.

                         

                        These are some of the topics we covered in the interview:

                        • Practical advice on rekindling passion and intimacy
                        • Using bedtime conversations to increase intimacy
                        • The importance of reflecting about sex and learning from it
                        • How prioritizing the relationship is key for intimacy and sex
                        • The cool practice of creating a bucket list of dreams for your relationship 
                        • Bonus: Choose Your Family Theme

                           

                          Marcus and Ashley generously shared with us an eBook they made about creating a family theme, which will support you in having a common goal for your family, and will make your family life more meaningful.

                          It’s a fun and practical eBook. Check it out!

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                          28 min

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