Tony's father was a gregarious, radio and tv star. Tony listened to his voice on the radio at night as he went to sleep. As he got older, he got to know his father better. When his parents divorced, his world shattered. Where was Dad and why was Mom unhappy?

Tony's advice to parents who are divorcing. Get your kids into therapy. They may seem fine on the outside, but on the inside they could be confused, sad, angry, or afraid. Tony luckily had an actor/teacher who understood what he was going through and took him under his wing.

When Tony's parents both remarried, he learned to balance between the two different households. Which was right, better or more desirable?

Read Tony's book, "Every Other Weekend," to learn more about Beverly Hills in the 50's and 60's, life in Old Hollywood, and how Tony navigated between successful Stan and Gregarious Gerald.

Bio:

Author and retired judge Anthony Mohr knew his childhood and adolescence were different from most other kids his age. In Every Other Weekend: Coming of Age with Two Different Dads (Koehler Books), Anthony Mohr offers a poignant and compassionate portrait of two larger-than-life men – his actor father Gerald Mohr and inventor stepfather Stanley Dashew – and what it was like growing up in a blended family at a time when divorce was rare and considered shocking. He would make a great guest on Getting Real With Hilary.

Mohr's days were littered with celebrities and parties; living abroad for film and TV shoots; even appearances in TV episodes, all courtesy of his radio and screen actor father Gerald Mohr. After Gerald Mohr leaves his family for another woman, his mother later marries businessman Stanley Dashew. Delivering a unique perspective on growing up in Beverly Hills in the 1950s and 60s, Anthony tracks his stepfather’s career successes and his biological father’s failures as he tries to find his place in the world. One weekend he’s sailing on his stepfather’s fifty-eight-foot catamaran; the next, his Swedish stepmother tells him that they’re poor. Every Other Weekend sees Anthony finding his place at the edge of what others regard as a dream world, a place where reality and fantasy blend, maps lead to the homes of the stars, and obstacles abound.

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After Years of Self-Hate and Shame | Jill Amy Sager | Hilary Burns | S4EP6After years of suffering and being ashamed of herself, Jill Amy Sager now fully loves herself and finds joy every day. In her book, "Guidance from the Universe: Hopeful Messages for Everyday Challenges," Jill shares how she transformed her life.Born with a disability of having different-sized legs, it was made drastically worse at age 9 through an unsuccessful surgery. Jill went through life feeling different, ashamed and not realizing things could be different.She discovered Tarot Card reading in her late teens which opened her up to hearing divine guidance. Slowly, Jill did the work to transform her own life. She tuned in to her intuition and divine guidance. She published her book so that her story could help all of us. Please watch this life-changing interview. I recommend her book to anyone who is human.BIOJill Amy Sager is a Jewish woman and sought-after seer whose journey of transformation inspires and empowers others. Born with physical disabilities and raised in the Bronx, Jill overcame years of self-doubt and depression to embrace a profound connection with "Guidance," a universal source of love and wisdom she channels. Her work as a professional Tarot reader and channeler spans decades, earning her an international following. Jill's unique approach blends deeply personal experiences with actionable insights, making metaphysical concepts accessible and relatable. Her book, Guidance from the Universe: Hopeful Messages for Everyday Challenges, offers readers tools for self-love, resilience, and personal growth. Now based in Western Oregon, Jill continues to share her transformative teachings through readings, social media, and her engaging public appearances. Take a look at her website, jillamysager.com and get social with Jill athttps://www.facebook.com/JillAmySagerhttps://www.instagram.com/jillamysager/https://www.youtube.com/@jillamysagerFull video: https://youtu.be/qmSBJvC2gbY_______________________________________Hilary's Website: https://www.gettingrealwithhilary.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@GettingRealWithHilary Spotify: https://shorturl.at/pQY68 iTunes: https://shorturl.at/qyTZ3 BBS Radio: https://bbsradio.com/thegettingrealwithhilaryshowE360tv: bit.ly/TGRWHS#hilaryburns #gettingrealwithhilary #JillAmySager #gettingreal #guidance #divine #shame #suffering #anger #motherdaughterrelationships #joy #emotions #acceptance #disability #divineguidance #transformation #self-love #resilience #physicaldisabilities #tarotcards #tarotcardreaders #depression #BronxNY #feelingdifferent #belonging #notbelonging #guilt #forgiveness

I could not put down either of Ed Hajim's books, "On the Road Less Traveled," and "the Island of the Four P's." Ed's story can not be put into words and yet, Ed did. His father kidnapped him, told him his mother was dead, and then left him with neighbors. He was in the foster care system, orphanages, and left alone for a month at the age of 11. Here's the amazing part. Ed did not get bitter. He used his experiences to develop resilience and adaptability which served him for the rest of his life. That together with his "absent" father's unconditional love and positive reinforcement kept him headed towards success.Ed had a dream to be successful, create a loving family and help people be better than they think they can be. His career will impress and astound you. His generosity will inspire you. I believe we can all learn from Ed's story and wisdom. He is now helping 17 to 25 year olds learn how to make decisions and design their lives with his new course. Thank you, Ed, for the amazing person you are and please thank Barbara for chasing after you and being your P1 for life.BIOED HAJIM is the author of the critically acclaimed memoir, On The Road Less Traveled. The son of a Syrian immigrant, he is a seasoned Wall Street executive with more than 50 years of investment experience. In 2008, after 20 years as a trustee of the University of Rochester, Hajim began an eight-year tenure as chairman of the university’s board. Upon assuming that office he gave the school $30 million—the largest single donation in its history—to support scholarships and endow the Edmund A. Hajim School of Engineering and Applied Sciences. Through the Hajim Family Foundation, he has made generous donations to organizations that promote education, health care, arts, culture, and conservation. In 2015, he received the Horatio Alger Award.A bit more about Ed, and his connections to Education:Hobart and William Smith - Hajim Shares Insight and Knowledge During Campus Visit: https://www.hws.edu/news/2024/hajim-shares-insight-and-knowledge-during-campus-visit.aspxHajim School of Engineering and Applied Sciences at The University of Rochester: https://www.hajim.rochester.edu/about/index.html?utm_source=bing&utm_medium=paid_search&utm_campaign=phg_uor_us_brand_bing_search_2025&utm_content=bing_search_hajim_school&msclkid=2027869bb7b41367baf3e107500370d8My Magic Two Words Are "What's Next?": https://www.rochester.edu/adv/alumni-news-media/2021/05/19/my-magic-two-words-are-whats-next/Supporting the Arts - Hajim Professional Readiness Program at NJPAC: https://www.njpac.org/news/njpac-thrilled-to-announce-ed-hajim-professional-readiness-program-career-changing-initiative-for-young-artists/_______________________________________Hilary's Website: https://www.gettingrealwithhilary.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@GettingRealWithHilary Spotify: https://shorturl.at/pQY68 iTunes: https://shorturl.at/qyTZ3 BBS Radio: https://bbsradio.com/thegettingrealwithhilaryshowE360tv: bit.ly/TGRWHS#hilaryburns #gettingrealwithhilary #EdHajim #gettingreal #orphan #anger #WallStreet #EFHutton #LehmanBrothers #mutualfunds #college #UniversityofRochester #foundation #family #rolemodel #plastics #ontheroadlesstravelled #theislandofthefourps #EdHajim #merchantmarines #NROTC #jewish #catholicschool #fosterhomes #orphanage #IOA #lifedesign #innervoice #Ackermaninstitute #anger #disadvantaged #generosity

Margot Denomme quit her job as a Crown Attorney (District Attorney in the US), to educate and create awareness about how low self-esteem and social media can harm children, leading to mental health struggles, bullying and legal issues.She compares her efforts to Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD) and how they have changed the culture about drunk driving. Her first two books, "Mommy Am I Pretty" and "Awesome Inside and Out" address how our children see themselves. Comparing themselves to what they see on social media has led to a new generation with anxiety, depression and a new mental health crisis. Margot is passionate about turning around this crisis. Her journey began in 2013 with the Celebrate You tour where she visited over 150 schools in Canada and the US, addressing the dangers of social media and promoting self-worth.Margot's new book, The Family Smartphone Guide is a radical way to educate families about the new and growing dangers of giving your children a smartphone too early. Her website: www.raadd.ca stands for raising awareness about digital dangers.Please tune in to this possibly life changing interview that can educate parents, children, grandparents, aunts, uncles and friends to possible predators and dangers of social media. This is not to create fear, but rather to educate and grow awareness.Margot's work with Kikori, an experiential social emotional learning platform, is taking her work into schools. Contact Margot for speaking engagements and to buy her books at her web site or at [email protected]:Margot Denommé, JD, Lawyer, Author, Speaker Margot Denommé is the Founder of Raising Awareness About Digital Dangers (raadd.). With 26 years of experience as a Crown Attorney, Margot, now retired, has seen first-hand how low self-esteem and social media can harm children, leading to mental health issues, bullying, and legal troubles. As a mother of two, she’s deeply concerned about the unrealistic beauty standards set by social media. In 2013, Margot launched the ‘Celebrate YOU! Tour,’ reaching over 150 schools across Canada and the US, promoting positive self esteem, resilience, and self-love. She also educates parents on the mental, physical, and legal implications of smartphone use. Margot is dedicated to raising awareness about digital dangers and equipping families to navigate the digital world safely and confidently. About the Contributors 54Full video: https://youtu.be/Uu9N3vksewU_______________________________________Hilary's Website: https://www.gettingrealwithhilary.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@GettingRealWithHilary Spotify: https://shorturl.at/pQY68 iTunes: https://shorturl.at/qyTZ3 BBS Radio: https://bbsradio.com/thegettingrealwithhilaryshowE360tv: bit.ly/TGRWHS#hilaryburns #gettingrealwithhilary #MargotDenomme #realtalk #getreal #getfree #inspiration #thegettingrealwithhilaryshow #smartphone #digitalliteracy #Kikori #self-esteem #advocacy #canada #danger #digitalsafety #margotdenomme #thegettingrealwithhilaryshow #crownattorney #districtattorney #mentalhealth #mentalhealthimpact #socialmediadanger #predators #childpredators #anxiety #depression #lowself-esteem #sextortion #fentanyl #teensuicide #kikori

Reinventing Themselves at 60 and 93 - An Amazing Mother-Daughter Conversation | Amy Goober & Gwen Borden | Hilary Burns | S4EP3Amy Goober and Gwen Borden wrote a book together. Why is that interesting? Because Gwen is Amy’s mother. Amy was always quoting her mother and decided to let the world benefit from her wisdom. Their book is called, "My Mother Always Says," 25 lessons for Finding the Silver Lining. It's a great gift for Mother's Day for mothers, daughters, sisters and friends. Gwen Borden tells her amazing story about living through the blackout in World War II, alone in her dark house at 10 years old. She learned to pretend, had confidence, and told herself, "I'll be ok." This attitude has served her well. When she became a young widow at 44, she reinvented herself and started a bereavement center. At 93, she is still going strong and thinking of her next career.Amy Goober, Gwen's daughter, has used her mother’s strength, fortitude and wisdom in her own life and with her coaching clients. . Amy also re-invented herself many times and now runs Travel for Women, writes books, and creates connections for women. She borrowed her mother’s strong will and made sure their book got published. Her work, trips, and groups can be found at www.amygoober.comThank you both for your wisdom, courage, and for being great examples for women. Full video: https://youtu.be/s-8NiwPskcc_______________________________________Hilary's Website: https://www.gettingrealwithhilary.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@GettingRealWithHilary Spotify: https://shorturl.at/pQY68 iTunes: https://shorturl.at/qyTZ3 BBS Radio: https://bbsradio.com/thegettingrealwithhilaryshowE360tv: bit.ly/TGRWHS#hilaryburns #gettingrealwithhilary #AmyGoober #GwenBorden #realtalk #getreal #getfree #inspiration #thegettingrealwithhilaryshow #Mymotheralwaysays #amygoober #gwenborden #mothers #daughters #womenstravel #communities #911 #bereavement #bereavementcenters #bettertogether #reinventyourself #resiliency #thegettingrealwithhilaryshow #kikoriapp.com #norfolkva #polio #heroine #pretend

"What is it Costing You Not to Listen," Christine Mile's first book, literally changed my life. 96% of us think we are good listeners and given what we know about listening, that makes sense.  

But, given what we don't know about listening, it means our lives could work 1000% better. The old, we don't know what we don't know.  

Christine's book addresses the problem that we don't even know we have.  Listening is the most powerful underdeveloped skill, according to Christine.  She focuses on understanding and Story Gathering.  

Christine developed the Listening Path which she is bringing into schools across the world.  She is training young people to be better learners and leaders.  She has worked with companies, helping them to be more effective, successful, and better places to work. Her mission is to eliminate the divisive and polarizing discourse in the country. Through her program, the world can be a more inclusive, powerful, and focused place. 

Christine's own story is powerful, inspiring and uplifting. She can be found at thelisteningpath.com and christinemileslistens.com.

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I learned so much about people in my interview with Sam Mitchell. He is a 22 year old, motivational speaker, entrepreneur, blogger, podcaster, educator and has done a Tedex talk. Sam is a high functioning human being on the autism spectrum with a mission: to show people that people with autism are not broken. He has spoken all over the world, demonstrating his success and educating people about autism.Sam taught me that you can ask questions and there is a diference between a temper tantrum and a meltdown. He teaches law enforcement personnel how to work with autistic people. He says there are signs. It's obvious. Thank you, Sam for the work you are doing.Full video: https://youtu.be/0We3orqkSk4Website:https://autismrocksandrolls.com/_______________________________________Hilary's Website: https://www.gettingrealwithhilary.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@GettingRealWithHilary Spotify: https://shorturl.at/pQY68 iTunes: https://shorturl.at/qyTZ3 BBS Radio: https://bbsradio.com/thegettingrealwithhilaryshowE360tv: bit.ly/TGRWHS#hilaryburns #gettingrealwithhilary #SamMitchell #realtalk #getreal #getfree #inspiration #thegettingrealwithhilaryshow #AutismAwareness #MotivationalSpeaker #AutismAdvocate #Neurodiversity #TedxSpeaker #DisabilityAwareness #InclusionMatters #AutismEducation #NotBroken #AutisticVoices #GettingRealWithHilary #HilaryBurnsPodcast #SamMitchellInterview #RealTalkPodcast #PodcastEpisode #InspiringStories #S5EP1 #NewPodcastAlert #InterviewSeries #GetInspired #OvercomingObstacles #EmpowermentThroughAutism #MindsetShift #BreakingStereotypes #ChangingNarratives #LiveYourMission #Unstoppable #AutismSupport #AutismSpeaks #HighFunctioningAutism #AutismAcceptance #AutismCommunity #AutismAndPolice #AutismFacts #AutismDoesNotDefineMe

Felicia took on mental illness head on. She is dedicated to changing the context of mental illness into the conversation of mental genius. Everyone has a gift, we are all different, and there is nothing wrong with any of us. Her creation, TrainYourGenius.com, is a community where everyone is embraced, accepted as is, and given training to create the life of their dreams.Felicia is bold, brave and committed to altering how the world sees neurodiversity. As a person who was diagnosed with bi-polar disease, ADHD, OCD and autism, she also suffered with anxiety and panic attacks throughout her life. Felicia decided to take them on, the month that her mother passed away. No longer would she be a victim.She has spent the last 37 years pursuing any path that will give her freedom. She has many certifications and can train others in these techniques.Visit her platform, TrainYourGenius.com to find out the incredible world that Felicia is creating. If you have family members or friends who are neurodivergent, this site is also for you. Felicia welcomes everyone. Her love, wisdom, and commitment are a light in this world. Bio:FELICIA NAGAMATSU is a global advocate for Full Spectrum Intelligence, where neurodiversity is natural, expected, and valued. She partners WITH people who have gifts of dyslexia, autism, ADHD, OCD, bipolar, and more. Leveraging 30 years’ experience with neurodiversity, she helps people thrive, no matter what. Nagamatsu founded HSP Alliance and TrainYourGenius.com to help families remove shame, restore confidence, and master their inborn gifts. She is passionate about expanding education for visual-spatial learners with dyslexia, ADHD, and autism. Speaker, teacher, coach, breakthrough expert, author, and inventor holding two patents. Greatest achievement: a neurodiverse marriage partnership, 47 years strong, and counting.Website:https://trainyourgenius.com/#hilaryburns #gettingrealwithhilary #realtalk #getreal #getfree #inspiration #thegettingrealwithhilaryshow #FeliciaNagamatsu #neurodivergence #mentalillness #autism #bipolar #panicattacks #anxiety #ballroomdance #marriage #children #gifts #victim #powerless #dyslexia #ADHD #OCD #shame #visual-spatiallearners #trainyourgenius #trainyourgenius.com _______________________________________Hilary's Website: https://www.gettingrealwithhilary.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@GettingRealWithHilary Spotify: https://shorturl.at/pQY68 iTunes: https://shorturl.at/qyTZ3 BBS Radio: https://bbsradio.com/thegettingrealwithhilaryshowE360tv: bit.ly/TGRWHS

Imagine being an American heiress in the early 1900’s.. Your job is to marry and get a title.  It doesn’t matter that you hand over your money to your husband and give up your American citizenship. It’s just what was done.  The most important thing back then was to get married.

"The Countess and the Nazi," by Richard Hutto, tells the story of Muriel, and her heroic life. Richard shines a light on this amazing woman, her famous father, and the families and people she saved during World War II.

Reading Richard's book opened my eyes to "society,"  aristocracy, what was important back then, and what it was like liiving through those times and wars. If you want to read a true, well-written, historical novel, pick up at least one copy. And watch our interview.

Richard is a gem.  His interest in women's stories, research, and getting these heroic stories into the public domain is a treasure. 

Thank you, Richard, for your dedication, devotion and talent.

And thank you, Muriel, for making this happen!! 

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Richard Jay Hutto served as White House Appointments Secretary to the Carter family and was chairman of the Georgia Council for the Arts. One of the foremost historians of the Gilded Age, he is the author of Crowning Glory: American Wives of Princes and Dukes, and Their Gilded Cage: The Jekyll Island Club Members. A frequent international lecturer, his book A Peculiar Tribe of People: Murder and Madness in the Heart of Georgia was adapted for television—the Atlanta Journal-Constitution described it as “a southern grotesque that comes complete with stately mansions, murder most vile, forbidden sex, a pot-boiling trial and a denouement worthy of a Greek tragedy [with] an ending that even Sophocles wouldn't wish on his worst enemy” (November 3, 2010). He is also a regular contributor to Royalty Digest Quarterly. Check out Rick's website @ www.rickhutto.com and the book site at www.TheCountess.net - You can also get social with Rick on Facebook.

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Andrew Shelley has been involved in the world of squash for nearly 50 years. He is the founder of the World Squash Library and a co-author of Squash: Then and Now: A Celebration. He wants people to know where the sport of squash came from, its background, and its history.The book is a beautiful compilation of history, photos and anecdotes of how squash started, and how it has transformed into the game it is today. The interview is dedicated to my old squash coach, Ann Wetzel, who passed away in May 2024.Her obituary can be found at: https://bit.ly/AndrewShelleyA write-up by Penn Athletics can be found at: https://bit.ly/AndrewShelley2As a former University of Pennsylvania Varsity Squash Captain, this interview was fascinating, heart-warming and enjoyable. Thank you, Andrew, for your passion, dedication, humour, generosity, and fun. You are a gift to the game of squash. Thank you, Thomas Tarantino, for making the introduction.

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