Podcast host Lindsay Abernathy joins Ilona and Mila to discuss the hidden epidemic of domestic abuse, emotional manipulation, and the failures of the family court system.

Lindsay — host of Bitch Is A Bad Word — shares her personal survival story and explains why silence is dangerous, how trauma bonds form, and what “pink flags” really mean. From love bombing and gaslighting to corruption in courtrooms, Lindsay speaks out for every woman who’s ever felt stuck, unheard, or afraid to leave.

🔥 Topics covered:

• Love bombing, trauma bonds & emotional abuse
• Recording arguments: survival or red flag?
• Flying monkeys, pink flags & the “narc vault”
• Family court manipulation & legal system weaponization
• The cost of silence & importance of speaking up
• Support networks: BFF Alliance & One Safe Place

This episode isn’t just a conversation — it’s a call to action. Whether you’re a survivor, an ally, or a legal professional, this one will stay with you.

🔗 If you're questioning your relationship, you’re not alone. Help is out there.

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 🎙️ Guest: Lindsay Abernathy, host of Bitch Is A Bad Word

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Are you actually an employee—but getting paid like a contractor?

In this eye-opening episode of The Glamorous Grind, Ilona and Mila expose the legal gray areas surrounding independent contractor misclassification. From workplace horror stories to California’s ABC Test, AB5, and the Uber & Lyft legal wars, this episode is packed with insight every worker and employer needs to hear.

🎧 You’ll learn:

• What makes someone a W-2 employee vs a 1099 contractor
• Why so many businesses get it wrong—sometimes on purpose
• The real consequences of misclassification (spoiler: lawsuits 💸)
• The truth about gig economy protections under Prop 22
• What to do if you think you’ve been misclassified
• Legal tips for employers, HR teams, and contractors

💼 Whether you’re a startup founder, a freelancer, a gig worker, or just someone clocking 40+ hours a week—you can’t afford to miss this one.

🔊 Red Flag or Green Flag, Glam Tip of the Week, and a raw Q&A from a listener bring the law to life in classic Glamorous Grind style.

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San Diego District Attorney Summer Stephan joins The Glamorous Grind for a chilling, eye-opening look into the hidden world of human trafficking—and how it’s happening right in our own neighborhoods.

With over 35 years of experience on the front lines of justice, DA Stephan shares how a childhood moment sparked her lifelong mission to protect the vulnerable. From teens recruited on Instagram to trafficking operations that thrive without a single bruise, this episode is packed with truth, tools, and action.

💥 Human trafficking is the second largest criminal industry in the world—generating $810M in San Diego County alone.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
• How traffickers use psychological control instead of physical chains
• Why 80% of victims in San Diego are local teens, not foreign imports
• How social media apps like Snapchat & Instagram are weaponized
• The common red flags parents, teachers, and friends should watch for
• How One Safe Place is helping survivors rebuild their lives
• Why no family—regardless of wealth, education, or awareness—is immune
• What the DOJ is doing, and how California law is catching up
• How you can help: National Human Trafficking Hotline → 888-373-7888

⚠️ If this episode opened your eyes—share it. Raise awareness. Be the advocate.

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If you or someone you love is experiencing domestic violence, abuse, or trauma—this episode could change everything.

This week on The Glamorous Grind, attorneys Ilona Antonyan and Mila Arutunian go inside One Safe Place North County, a trauma-informed Family Justice Center serving survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, child abuse, elder abuse, human trafficking, and more.

Joining them is Claudio Grasso, former Chief of the Family Protection Division and now Director of One Safe Place, who shares the heartbreaking realities survivors face and how this center provides life-saving wraparound care—including a new pro bono legal services program.

🎙️ What you’ll learn:

How One Safe Place supports survivors with legal, medical, and emotional resources

The real impact of domestic violence on families and children

Why restraining orders and custody help are often out of reach—and how that’s changing

The power of trauma-informed child advocacy and forensic interviews

How generational cycles of abuse can finally be broken

👉 Share this episode—it might literally save a life.

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Can what you wear make or break your career? This week on The Glamorous Grind, Ilona and Mila welcome fashion expert Dean Hall to talk about the politics, pressure, and prestige behind how we present ourselves. Dean has styled celebrities, CEOs, and pro athletes—and he’s here to spill the glam tea on everything from courtroom couture to TV set chaos.

Together, we discuss:

• The psychology behind style and first impressions
• How to radiate authority and femininity without compromise
• Why looking polished isn't about being rich
• Style advice for lawyers, entrepreneurs, and ambitious women everywhere

Get ready for bold truths, relatable laughs, and practical glam tips that will change the way you show up.

🎧 Hit play—then hit the mall (or at least the mirror).

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Thinking about divorce or already in the thick of it? In this episode of The Glamorous Grind, Ilona and Mila break down everything you need to know about navigating divorce with clarity, confidence, and class.

Ilona—certified family law specialist—walks us through the entire process: from recognizing the red flags that it might be time to leave, to the step-by-step legal timeline, child custody, financial division, and how to protect your peace during one of the most emotionally charged experiences in life.

Mila brings the real questions and relatable insight, while Ilona brings expert answers and grounded guidance. Plus, don’t miss our signature segments:

• 🚩 Red Flag / Green Flag: Signs it’s time to go
• 📰 Headline Breakdown: Are celebrity divorces changing marriage?
• 💌 Let’s Get Gritty: Listener Q&A
• ✨ Glam Tip of the Week: Reclaim your power, your space, and your sparkle

Whether you’re considering separation, already in the process, or supporting someone who is—this episode is your must-listen divorce survival guide.

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What happens when the people who serve us—restaurant staff, hotel workers, bartenders—quietly fall into crisis?

Nick Petro, San Diego City Director of Big Table, joins The Glamorous Grind to pull back the curtain on a growing, hidden emergency in the hospitality industry. From eviction to mental health breakdowns, workers are often left to fend for themselves—until Big Table shows up.

In this episode, we explore:

• The truth about working in hospitality today
• Stories of real lives changed through compassion
• How Big Table acts as a safety net for those who serve
• Why dignity-driven care is more powerful than charity
• What we can all do to support the servers in our own communities

🎧 Plus, a powerful game of Red Flag / Green Flag and one story that will stay with you long after the episode ends.

💡 To learn more or support Big Table, visit: https://bigtable.org

🎙 Hosted by Carly Antonyan Miranda | @glamorousgrindpod

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This week on The Glamorous Grind, we sit down with employment attorney and viral legal influencer Ryan Stygar, aka “The Labor Lawyer” on TikTok. From his blue-collar roots in firefighting to building a law firm from scratch during the pandemic, Ryan shares the gritty truth behind online advocacy, legal education, and what it really takes to go viral.

🎙️ Inside the episode:

• How Attorney Ryan built a 2M+ following with legal truth bombs
• Why authenticity and empathy are his secret weapons
• Our viral “Red Flag / Green Flag” game on real-world legal scenarios
• The Starbucks viral firing case: Was it legal?
• What creators need to know before posting online
• Audience Q: Can your ex really sue for a TikTok post?

🔥 Whether you’re a lawyer, content creator, or just curious about the power of legal social media, this one’s a must-listen.

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In the premiere of Season 2 of The Glamorous Grind, attorneys Ilona Antonyan and Mila Arutunian sit down with family law expert Nicholas Moore for a raw, insightful look at the emotional and legal minefields of family court and juvenile dependency cases.

What happens when CPS knocks on your door? When does emotional abuse become a legal case? And what does “full custody” really mean?

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• The real legal process behind CPS and juvenile court
• Red flag vs. green flag scenarios in custody and separation
• How recovery from addiction is treated in family law
• Strategic insights for victims of domestic violence
• Why rushing to court without counsel can backfire
• And what every parent needs to know about their legal rights

Whether you’re navigating a divorce, recovering from abuse, or just want to understand the system better, this episode is a must-listen.

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Sexual harassment. Wrongful termination. Domestic violence. Restraining orders.
In this season finale of The Glamorous Grind, attorneys Mila and Ilona get real about some of the most misunderstood legal issues people face today—both at work and at home.

They break down what actually qualifies as harassment, how to protect yourself if you’re fired for reporting abuse or having a medical condition, and how restraining orders can be used to protect victims—or manipulate custody and court outcomes.

Whether you're an employee, a parent, or a survivor navigating a toxic relationship, this episode gives you real tools, legal insight, and confidence to stand up for yourself.

🔑 Topics include:

• How to document abuse and report it safely
• The truth about retaliation and whistleblower laws
• The legal and emotional cost of restraining orders
• Disability rights in the workplace
• What judges really look at in family court
• How to defend yourself from false allegations

💬 “You have a duty to protect yourself—and your children. We’re here to tell you how.”

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