This week, we’re flipping the script on what it really means to be in our Good Girl / Soft Girl Era—and trust us, it’s not all sundresses and silence. We dive into the power of softness as women: embracing femininity, surrendering control in the right spaces, and still being bold, vocal, and in charge of our needs. We talk about dominance and submission in the bedroom, the desire to be taken care of, and the trust it takes to lean into that.

We're also unpacking what traditional female traits look like today—with a modern twist. Can you be soft and strong? Can you be submissive but still powerful? Oh yes, you can. This episode is all about having a voice, knowing what we want, practicing self-love, and redefining what being a “good girl” actually means. Spoiler: she’s confident, sexy, and doing things her way.

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