The Good Guy Guide

By taking an honest and critical look at male culture in our society, particularly as it relates to domestic violence, this initiative is designed to shift paradigms and invite men to be part of the solution in ending domestic violence. It is part of the ”It’s Time” initiative of Lexington, Kentucky.

Hosted by Devine Carama and Sam Stockley, this RECAP takes a look back at all 9 episodes of season 1 of the Good Guy Guide.

Music provided by: Lincoln Jesser

Objectives: - To create a safe and open space for men to discuss and reflect on their roles and behaviors in today’s society. - To challenge and dismantle the cultural norms that contribute to domestic violence. - To inspire men to stomp through societal ”glass ceilings” from above and redefine masculinity in a positive and healthy way. - To provide education and resources that empower men to become active participants in the fight against domestic violence.

So what's next? How do men begin to shirt perspectives in their homes, their workplaces and beyond? This episode explores it all.

Hosted by: Devine Carama and Sam Stockley 

Music Provided by: Lincoln Jesser

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On this episode, Devine and Sam talk with David Cozart and Chris Begley about next steps and what men can do to live more authentically and dismantle barriers to equality that have impacted women in our communities. 

What are some tangible ways men can improve daily to make this world a safer, more supportive place? What is lying beneath the anger? This episode explores it all.

Hosted by: Devine Carama and Sam Stockley 

Music Provided by: Lincoln Jesser

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On this episode, Devine and Sam talk with Carlos Aquilar about how masculinity can get in the way of our humanity. 

What does it mean to be a leader in today's world?  

Hosted by: Devine Carama

Music Provided by: Lincoln Jesser

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On this episode, Devine talks with Zach Dembo and Alex Elswick about how leadership is more of a mindset than a title and how often get this wrong in our culture.  

How does race impact violence? What are some of the ways your cultural background normalizes violence and what can we learn from each other? 

Hosted by: Devine Carama

Guests:Jason Otis and Aldo Gomez 

Music Provided by: Lincoln Jesser

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What are some of the more subtle ways men play into sexism? 

Hosted by: Devine Carama

Guest: Darlene Thomas of GreenHouse17

Music Provided by: Lincoln Jesser

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Fathers and Daughters have a special bond. 

Hosted by: Devine Carama and Sam Stockley

Music Provided by: Lincoln Jesser

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On this episode, Devine and Sam introduce us to their young adult daughters, Ollice (23) and Esme (18) for a look at how parenting has played out for both sides. Grab your tissues and sit back for a masterclass in authenticity, acceptance, and love.

What does it mean to 'be a man' in today's world? 

Hosted by: Devine Carama

Guests: Victor Rivera, Caelin Wilhoite

Music Provided by: Lincoln Jesser

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EQUALITY. We talk a lot about equality. But do we practice it? How has the baked-in notion of the “weaker sex” affected our culture? ‘Boys will be boys’ mentality. What messages do boys get growing up and how does this contribute to our problems today?

Hosted by: Devine Carama

Guests: Lexington Vice Mayor, Dan Wu and TV personality Andrew Shayde

Music Provided by: Lincoln Jesser

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POWER. How masculinity and strength have been construed to mean dominating others. What is REAL power? 

Guests: Devine Carama, Sam Stockley, Kris Grimes, and Robert Springfield

Music Provided by: Lincoln Jesser

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