In this episode of The Challenger Podcast, Dave dives deep into the Enneagram Type 1 — also known as The Reformer or The Perfectionist.

We explore how Type 1s show up in life and especially in relationships through the lens of the good, the bad, and the ugly.

✨ The Good: Integrity, responsibility, and being a dependable partner. 😬 The Bad: High standards, self-criticism, and nitpicking tendencies. 😈 The Ugly: Harsh judgment, control, and emotional rigidity that can damage connection.

You’ll also hear practical insights on what helps Type 1s move toward growth: self-compassion, flexibility, and celebrating progress instead of chasing perfection.

Whether you’re a Type 1 yourself, in a relationship with one, or just curious about how this personality type shapes connection, this episode offers powerful takeaways.

🔑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How Type 1s bring integrity and stability into relationships

• Why their inner critic can create tension with partners

• The shadow side of perfectionism in love and intimacy

• How grace and play can transform their relationships

📌 Resources & Next Steps

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