As an Enneagram 8 father, your strength and protectiveness are incredible gifts—but not every child experiences that big energy the same way.

In this episode of The Protective Leader, we explore how children of all nine Enneagram types perceive a Type 8 parent—and what they need to truly thrive.

From sensitive Type 4s to enthusiastic Type 7s, discover practical strategies to adapt your parenting style while staying true to who you are. Learn how to turn your power into presence—and help each of your children feel safe, valued, and deeply understood.

✅ Why Enneagram 8 fathers sometimes clash with children who have different core fears and desires.

✅ The core motivations of each of the 9 Enneagram types in kids—and how they might react to a Type 8’s leadership style.

✅ Specific ways to help your children feel seen, heard, and safe, no matter their personality type.

✅ How to adjust your tone, communication, and emotional presence for each child without sacrificing your authentic self.

✅ Real-life tips for handling conflict, big feelings, and creating deeper connection across all types.

✨ Type 1 kids need gentle correction and praise for their efforts, not just results.

✨ Type 2 kids flourish with heartfelt appreciation and consistent emotional connection.

✨ Type 3 kids want to be valued for who they are—not just what they achieve.

✨ Type 4 kids thrive when their emotions are validated rather than dismissed.

✨ Type 5 kids need space and respect for their privacy, even in close families.

✨ Type 6 kids seek reassurance and consistency to soothe their anxieties.

✨ Type 7 kids crave adventure and freedom alongside loving boundaries.

✨ Type 8 kids need honesty, mutual respect, and freedom to be strong.

✨ Type 9 kids benefit from soft, patient energy that invites them to share their opinions.

“Your strength is a gift—but your willingness to see and honor your child’s true self is the greater gift.”

This episode explores parenting and nuturing your child's indivuality through the powerful lens of the Enneagram Type 8—often known as “The Challenger.” Known for strength, assertiveness, and protectiveness, Type 8s are dominant parents, typically.

But how does this personality navigate the emotional landscape of parenting, especially when trying to lead with understanding, patience, and non-attachment?

We’ll unpack how commnicating directly with your children allow Type 8 parents to transform their strength into a grounded, empathetic presence—and how embracing the perspectives of their children enriches both nuturing and parenting.

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If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand.

A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world.

Join me each week in one of our small group classes to understand better how you can show up more authentically in your relationships and life.

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The Challenger Podcast takes a look at modern masculinity through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness.

This episode explores how Enneagram 8 fathers can build deeper emotional connections by developing trust, tenderness, and emotional fluency—without feeling like they’re giving up strength. It’s a vulnerable dive into what happens when the protector becomes present, not just powerful.

As a follow up to last week's episode, host Dave Glaser invites The Challenger to look inward for answers and growth to enrich the relationships in your life.

Don't know your type?

Click 9types.com and take the Rheti version, screenshot your results and email them to me at [email protected]

If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand.

A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world.

Join me each week in one of our small group classes to understand better how you can show up more authentically in your relationships and life.

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The Challenger Podcast takes a look at modern masculinity through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness.

This episode explores fatherhood and leadership through the powerful lens of the Enneagram Type 8—often seen as “The Challenger.” Known for strength, assertiveness, and protectiveness, Type 8s are natural leaders. But how does this personality navigate the emotional landscape of parenting, especially when trying to lead with empathy, grace, and growth?

We’ll unpack how self-leadership and inner work allow Type 8 fathers to transform their strength into a grounded, empathetic presence—and how embracing the perspectives of other Enneagram types enriches both leadership and parenting.

Don't know your type?

Click 9types.com and take the Rheti version, screenshot your results and email them to me at [email protected]

If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand.

A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world.

Join me each week in one of our small group classes to understand better how you can show up more authentically in your relationships and life.

Click linktr.ee/fitlifechampions to sign up now!

The Challenger Podcast takes a look at modern masculinity through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness.

In today's episode, I will walk you through how to use the Ennegram as a tool to show up more authentically at work, with family and in relationships. Have you heard of The Enneagram?

 Today, I will guide you through how to learn about yourself through your Ennegram type using The Peacemaker, type 9, as an introduction to the fun and amazing tool for self-awareness. Don't know your type?

Click 9types.com and take the Rheti version, screenshot your results and email them to me at [email protected]

If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand.

A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world.

Join me each week in one of our small group classes to understand better how you can show up more authentically in your relationships and life.

Click linktr.ee/fitlifechampions to sign up now!

The Challenger Podcast takes a look at modern relationships through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness.

In today's video, I will walk you through how to use the Ennegram as a tool to show up more authentically at work, with family and in relationships.

Have you heard of The Enneagram?

Today, I will guide you through how to learn about yourself through your Ennegram type using The Peacemaker, type 9, as an introduction to the fun and amazing tool for self-awareness.

Don't know your type? 

Click 9types.com and take the Rheti version, screenshot your results and email them to me at [email protected]

Join me each week in one of our small group classes to understand better how you can show up more authentically in your relationships and life.

Click linktr.ee/fitlifechampions to sign up now!

The Challenger Podcast takes a look at modern relationships through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness.

If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand.

A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world.

On this week's episode of The Challenger Podcast, I am back with a solo episode relaying the news of Harris's announcement for candidacy for President of the United States. 

Why would a relationship coach want to do an entire episode on politics?  Because having hard conversations in relationships may be over the politics and current events in the US.

Reach out if you have any questions about your own personal dating and relationship journey now!

The Challenger Podcast takes a look at modern relationships through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness.

If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand.

A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world.

Did you enjoy the podcast?

If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser.

It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Challenger Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for.

Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?

Are you looking to heal your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?

Check out my Tiktok Page @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating and current events. 

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For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram @coachdaveglaser

Do politics and dating go together? Some would say avoid talking about politics at all costs on a first date.

Others may try to convince you that discovering that about your date as early as possible saves you time and heartbreak. What are your thoughts?

On today's episode of the podcast, I lay out a few answers to those questions and so much more. For starters, I cover how the Enneagram 5, the Investigator, shows up on Hinge and which prompts they may want to go with to start conversations.

From there, I dig into politics in modern dating and how to vet a date for alignment with values based questions. Reach out if you have any questions about your own personal dating and relationship journey now!

The Challenger Podcast takes a look at modern relationships through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness.

If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand.

A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world.

Did you enjoy the podcast?

If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser.

It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for.

Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?

Are you looking to heal your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?

Check out my Tiktok Page @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating.

Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube

For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram @coachdaveglaser

Kyle Weiger, hand balancing coach and good friend, joins me on the podcast today to talk about the home buying process, moving, job changes, sobriety and the Presidential Debates.

If his message resonates with you today, please connect with him on all social media platforms @kyleweiger or kyleweiger.com

Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating.

Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?

Are you looking to build your relationship while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?

Just real, weekly authentic dating advice from me. Email me today for a free consultation [email protected]

Follow me on Tiktok @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As.

Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube

For more episodes and programs, engage with me on Instagram @thechallengerpodcast

How do you set your intentions before you begin online dating? My top seven recommendations are available on today's episode of the podcast.  

We dig deep in this episode and how you would choose Hinge prompts if you're an Enneagram type 4, The Individualist.  Are you a 4 or dating an Individualist?  These prompts will help you understand yourself and others when dating online in the modern world.

We close out today's episode by talking about the recent Presidential Debate between Trump and Biden while digging into the comparison between how they approach staffing their administrations.

Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the community, and encourage others to discover the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating.

Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?

Are you looking to build your relationship while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Just real, weekly authentic dating advice from me.

Email me today for a free consultation [email protected] Follow me on Tiktok @dave.glaser for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As.

Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube

For more episodes and programs engage with me on Instagram @thechallengerpodcast