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In this episode of "Say What You Need to Say," Thea and Tandy explore marital expectations, cultural differences, and personal growth. Thea reflects on her marriage, navigating patriarchal dynamics, and the evolution of roles in relationships.
Key Topics Discussed:
Confusing Street Names: Thea shares amusing GPS mispronunciations in Houston and Austin and the quirky significance of street names.
Tarot Insights - The 6 of Voices: Tandy interprets the tarot card's symbolism of transition and trusting the universe without a clear plan.
Marital Reflections and Cultural Differences: The challenges and cultural dynamics in marriage and the impact of entrepreneurial pursuits.
Patriarchal Culture and Expectations: The influence of patriarchal norms on relationships, including internalized pressures among clients and herself.
Identity and Self-Discovery: Thea's journey post-separation, changing her name, and evolving understanding of her identity.
Raising Children and Relationship Dynamics: Challenges in co-parenting and maintaining mutual support and understanding.
Breaking the "Good Wife" Mold: Thea's rejection of traditional wife roles and the continuous evolution required in partnerships.
Personal Growth and Future Relationships: Thea's shift towards self-care, authenticity, and thoughts on future relationships.
Family Influences and Trauma: Impactful advice from family members on marriage and Thea's adoption journey.
Final Thoughts on Partnership and Balance: Navigating relationship expectations and achieving mutual balance in partnerships.
Memorable Quotes:
"Just because it was like this when we got married, doesn't mean that it's working now. Sometimes partnerships have to be reworked."
"I used to like the idea of the 'good wife,' but now I don't subscribe to it."
Actionable Takeaways:
Set Clear Expectations: Communicate openly about roles and expectations.
Prioritize Self-Care: Ensure personal well-being to support the relationship.
Embrace Change: Adapt and grow together.
Challenge Patriarchal Norms: Address internalized behaviors for equitable relationships.
Connect with Us:
Follow Thea: goddesshood.co
Follow Tandy: tandy_gutierrez
Resources:
Unicorn Wellness Studio - Magical Mentoring with Tandy
Support the Show: If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a review on Spotify and share it with your friends!
By Tandy and TheaIn this episode of "Say What You Need to Say," Thea and Tandy explore marital expectations, cultural differences, and personal growth. Thea reflects on her marriage, navigating patriarchal dynamics, and the evolution of roles in relationships.
Key Topics Discussed:
Confusing Street Names: Thea shares amusing GPS mispronunciations in Houston and Austin and the quirky significance of street names.
Tarot Insights - The 6 of Voices: Tandy interprets the tarot card's symbolism of transition and trusting the universe without a clear plan.
Marital Reflections and Cultural Differences: The challenges and cultural dynamics in marriage and the impact of entrepreneurial pursuits.
Patriarchal Culture and Expectations: The influence of patriarchal norms on relationships, including internalized pressures among clients and herself.
Identity and Self-Discovery: Thea's journey post-separation, changing her name, and evolving understanding of her identity.
Raising Children and Relationship Dynamics: Challenges in co-parenting and maintaining mutual support and understanding.
Breaking the "Good Wife" Mold: Thea's rejection of traditional wife roles and the continuous evolution required in partnerships.
Personal Growth and Future Relationships: Thea's shift towards self-care, authenticity, and thoughts on future relationships.
Family Influences and Trauma: Impactful advice from family members on marriage and Thea's adoption journey.
Final Thoughts on Partnership and Balance: Navigating relationship expectations and achieving mutual balance in partnerships.
Memorable Quotes:
"Just because it was like this when we got married, doesn't mean that it's working now. Sometimes partnerships have to be reworked."
"I used to like the idea of the 'good wife,' but now I don't subscribe to it."
Actionable Takeaways:
Set Clear Expectations: Communicate openly about roles and expectations.
Prioritize Self-Care: Ensure personal well-being to support the relationship.
Embrace Change: Adapt and grow together.
Challenge Patriarchal Norms: Address internalized behaviors for equitable relationships.
Connect with Us:
Follow Thea: goddesshood.co
Follow Tandy: tandy_gutierrez
Resources:
Unicorn Wellness Studio - Magical Mentoring with Tandy
Support the Show: If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a review on Spotify and share it with your friends!