The Scripture records, of the good king David, that at times he was a man after God's own heart.
We welcome you today to our study of great Bible characters.
As we think today about David, we want to emphasize the good that David did, some of the areas that he could have done better in and then some of the things that were really ugly in the life of David so that it will help each of us to be closer to Almighty God.
As we think today about King David, we think about principles of righteousness, principles for life, and practical lessons of both- what to do and not to do- so that our relationship with God can be better.
You know someone once said, "Smart people learn from their own mistakes. Really smart people learn from mistakes of others." Not only can we say that about mistakes, we could say that about right things done as well. I can learn from the good David did. I can learn from the bad and the ugly in his life. In each principle, I can learn it in a way that it can be applied to my life so that I can live faithful to the Lord.
Now, as you think about David, what brought David into being king?
Because of King Saul's unlawful sacrifice committed in 1 Samuel 13 and his failure to obey God's commands, 1 Samuel 15:21-22. God, according 1 Samuel 13:14 began to look for an immediate replacement to King Saul.
David, in Samuel's estimation, was the most unlikely of all of Jesse's sons to be replacement for King Saul. He wasn't the tallest. He wasn't the strongest, but he did have the right heart. David's life and his work cover a large portion of biblical literature in the Old Testament.
The life of David can be found from 1 Samuel 16 through 31, all of 2 Samuel. 1 and 2 Kings covers a lot of David's life as well as 1 Chronicles 11 to 29. So, you've got a massive chunk of Old Testament literature, and on top of the Psalms, that deals with the life of David. He is a key figure in Scripture.
We want to think about his life and what we can apply for that from that for just a few moments.
These following four statements are kind of a summary description of David's life maybe his epitaph we might think of. David is aptly known as a man who was a mighty man-of-war. When we think about David, he was a warrior, a gladiator in many ways, 1 Samuel 16:18. At the same time, he's known as the sweet psalmist, poet of Israel. Of David it was said by Nathan, you are a man caught in sin.
The Bible says he was a man after God's own heart. What a great complement! Now of David, he was a man who died in old age, for the most part, as a man of God. In fact David's reign actually became the litmus test, the criterion, by which all other Kings are judged according 1 Kings 15:3.
Let's take just a few moments and think about some of the things in David's life that were really good that he did.
First, and probably one of the least mentioned of the things David did that was good as it related to God, is David actually spared Saul's life on various occasions. David had already been anointed as king of Israel, according to 1 Samuel 16, yet David would not rise up and take that mantle
away from Saul because he revered him as God's anointed 1 Samuel 24:6 and 1 Samuel 26:9.
Now did David have every right to be king? Absolutely! Had God already placed His approval on that? Yes, he had! But God had anointed Saul. Saul was still reigning as king and the people recognized that. So for David to rise up and do that could have been detrimental to some of the people watching or to the view of God's anointed. He didn't want to do anything that would detract from people serving God, from God remaining holy, and having that reverence and fear for him in their lives.
From David we learn great respect and reverence for Almighty God.
Friend, when people look at my life, when they look at your life, and they see Christ living in us, we want people to see respect for God and holy things. When we talk about the Bible, we want people to see the respect oozing out of our lips. We want people to see how much love we have for God. When we talk about God himself, his character, his nature, his promises, we want the respect for the Almighty to be seen in our words. But just not in our words, we want people to see in our actions. We want what we say to match up to what we do, just as David tried to do in his life.
We want to really live for Christ every day. Especially as you, think about this, as young people look at other Christians, they're looking to see what a pattern for Christ lived in somebody else's life looks like. Friend, we want them to see this. Jesus said, "If any man desires come after me let him deny himself, take up his cross daily, and follow me."
A second good thing that David did, and this is probably what David is best known for, is his defeat of the ungodly giant Goliath.
You remember the story of David and Goliath. There is this giant of the heathen nation, Goliath by name. Nobody in Israel wanted to go up against him. He's huge. He's a big, strong, mighty man of valor. The text tells us in 1 Samuel 17, he goes out every morning, and he taunts God's people. He rebels and mocks God. David, just a shepherd boy, is going to deliver goods to his brothers who are actually soldiers. He hears this; he's made angry. He's incensed by it. So David says ‘I'm not to let this go on.
Give me some armor. Let me go out there.’ He puts the armor on, and it doesn't fit. He goes out there anyway as a young lad, five stones and a sling, and God behind him, takes that giant down.
You know when you think about David, here's what you learn: This good lesson from the life of David shows us the courage David had and his deep abiding trust in God and his promises.
Friend, isn't that practical lesson for us? What can Christians accomplish with God on their side? The Bible says in Philippians 4:13,"I can do all things through Christ, through him who strengthens me." The question is not: What can we accomplish? The question is really: What can we not accomplish?
There isn't anything beyond our reach, if we put our trust and faith in God. We do have some pretty monumental tasks set before us. Jesus gave us one of the greatest. Do you remember it? "Go into all the world and preach the gospel unto every creature", Mark 16:15. That's a magnificent, monumental task. Can that be accomplished? Only with God, can it be accomplished. I need the courage to take God at His word, to do my best, to do what I can to serve Him, and to never let fear or lack of courage get in the way.
Then I need the ability, just like David, to trust God's promises. Did God tell His people you can defeat the heathens? I'm going to give them your hand, you will win the battle? You bet he did on numerous occasions.
Israel's failure is when they begin to look at their foes as bigger than their God. David didn't see that. He didn't see a giant in Goliath. He saw a giant in God and with God on his side wasn't anything he couldn't accomplish.
Friend, we need to trust in the Almighty. Listen to the words of Hebrews 13 the Bible says, "Let your life be without covetousness, be content with such things as you have." Why? "For the Lord Himself has said ‘I will never’ ", listen to this, "I will never leave you nor forsake you, so that you may boldly say, 'The Lord is my helper, I will not fear, what can men do to me?' " Another great promise or blessing David received, and a part of the good came from his life is due to his faithfulness. David received the seed promise which is ultimately fulfilled in Christ, 2 Samuel 7:12-14. God says to David, "There'll be one of your seed who will sit on your throne. He'll reign in the house of Judah forever." Who is that? Jesus is that seed of Abraham bless all nations, Galatians 3:14-15. And it is said of Christ, in Luke 1:32-33, "You will call His name Jesus. He'll be great. He'll be son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David and", listen now, direct fulfillment, "He will reign over the house of
Israel or Judah forever." He had that wonderful blessing because he put trust in God. God worked through his family, worked through his lineage, to bring Christ into the world. How grateful we are for those who are willing to follow God!
Look at the good that can be done. Only eternity will know what good can be done in my life and yours, if we trust God and take Him at face value and do what He says.
Friend, I also learn from the life of David about kindness and mercy that must be extended to others. David showed great kindness to Mephibosheth, that is the son of Jonathan. Although he could've been viewed as an enemy and viewed in a negative light, this young man who faced a hard life himself brought to the table of David, treated like a son, dealt with in mercy and fairness and kindness and love.
What a powerful lesson for us! How does God want me and you to deal with people? We're to deal with them in love. "Love your neighbor, do good to those who use you and those who mistreat you" Jesus would say
in Matthew 5:10-12. I am to have the kindness that Christ had. Let the spirit of Christ rule in me. I'm to be tenderhearted, kind, loving, and gentle towards all men and in view of that I do it all to give God the honor and the glory when people look at my life. If we have the kindness, the love, the sincerity, the hospitality, that we ought to have, Jesus said, "Let your light so shine before men that they may see your good works and glorify your father who is in heaven," Matthew 5:16 .
As we think about practical lessons that were good from the life of David, David stands out as a true and faithful prophet of God, who ended up writing by inspiration many of the Psalms and Proverbs.
When you think about David, David was a man inspired by God.
2 Samuel 23:2, David said, "His word was on my tongue." As a prophet, as one who looked into the future through God using him, he faithfully proclaimed and said what God said. He stood true to the word of God and he let God use him to speak His word.
Now let's make practical application of that today. As God's people today, if we can learn from David how he was a faithful prophet, a man of God, we too need today to be faithful spokespersons of, faithful people who are willing to speak God's word.
Remember 2 Timothy 4:2? The Bible says, "Preach the word, be instant in season and out of season." Paul said to Titus, "As for you, speak the things which are proper for sound doctrine" Titus 2:1.
So when we speak, let's let our speech be the speech of God. Let's say what God says. Let's speak the truth in love and point Jesus point people to Jesus by faithfully proclaiming what He's taught and what He said.
You know another very practical, this is a difficult lesson that we learn from David is: he's an example of a man who was willing to repent.
Was David perfect? Not at all. He had problems in his life and we'll identify some of those. In particular the one is being spoken of in Psalm 51, is his sin with Bathsheba. He committed wrong. He tried to hide it.
He did those things that were not pleasing in the sight of God. And yet, while we may think about that momentarily, the thing to hone in on as we relate to David's good qualities, is he was a man when he recognized sin owned up to it. He was willing to repent.
Listen to the beautiful words of David in Psalm 51, David said, "Have mercy upon me, oh God, according to your loving kindness, according to the multitude of your tender mercies. Blot out my transgressions. Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity. Cleanse me from my sin," Psalm 51:3, "I acknowledge my transgressions, my sin is always before you a before me, against you and you only have I sinned and done this evil in your sight."
And so when I think about David's life, I think of a man who was willing to repent.
Who among us doesn't need to have that quality? The Bible says, "All, all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God." Romans 3:23. I've made mistakes. I've done things wrong and so have you. So, part of being a person who has the heart after God, is when we do wrong, we're willing to repent and make it right. Jesus said, "Unless you repent, you will all likewise perish" Luke 13:3.
Now let's shift gears for just a moment. As we think about David's life, I want to learn from the good; I want to follow that. I also want to take note of some things he did that were not right. I want to avoid that.
One of the things David did that was bad is in violation of the law of God: he multiplied wives-which was a direct violation of God's word and wasn't according to the original principal of marriage in Genesis 2.
Listen to the words of Deuteronomy 17 where the Scripture clearly teaches that Kings were not to multiply wives. Deuteronomy 17:17 says this
principle is given to the king says, "Neither shall he, the king, multiply wives for himself lest his heart turn away, nor shall he greatly multiply silver and gold for himself." And so, God said to the king, ‘Don’t multiply wives.’ What's God's original pattern? Jesus goes back to it in Matthew 19. He says, "From the beginning it was not so.” What beginning? "For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother, be joined to his wife and the two shall become one flesh."
Did God intend for all these Kings to have all these? Never in His original pattern. Did God allow it? Yes, Acts 17:30-31, 'These times of ignorance, God once overlooked,’ allowed them to continue it without endorsing it- but it was never a part of his plan.
Some of the problems you'll see in David's life- and especially, you can't help but read Deuteronomy 17:17 and think of Solomon. God said don't multiply wives- they're going to turn your heart away from God. We're now in 1 Samuel, 1 Kings 11, up on the hilltop, there's Solomon with his wives worshiping false gods. Proof that it would never was God's plan and it was going to pull them away from the Almighty.
I want to learn from this that God intended for one man and one woman to remain in that marriage for life, Romans 7:1-4, that they're to help one another, to love one another, to encourage, to uplift, to follow the teachings of God, and by doing that, you can have the best life possible.
Now another bad thing that we learned that David did-I don't think it was intentional-I know it wasn't intentional, but it was still bad: David transported the Ark of God in an unauthorized way. It led to Uzzah's death.
Do you member the scene and the setting? The people, the enemies have taken over the Ark of God. They're asking God's people to take it back
because they couldn't handle it. It's being sent back, and David goes to get it. The Bible tells us that Uzzah and Ahio put it on a new cart, and they drove it. As they reach a place called Nachon's threshing floor, evidently they hit what one might think of as a bump in the road. It looks like the Ark is going to fall. Uzzah loves God. He loves the Ark. He doesn't want it to fall, and so he reaches out to stabilize it. H died right there on the spot. He drops dead. David's angry. He didn't know what's going on. He thinks he's trying to do the right thing and yet, in the process of this, he had violated the word and the will of God unknowingly.
Look to 1 Chronicles 15, concerning this event, "For because you did not do it the first time, the Lord our God broke out against us. Because we did not consult him about the proper order. So the priests and the Levites sanctified themselves to bring up the ark of the Lord God of Israel and the children of the Levites bore the Ark of God on their shoulders by its poles as Moses had commanded according to the Lord.
What do we know about David? David made an error here. Was it intentional? No, but they didn't consult God about the proper order. They didn't look to the word of God to find out how to transport that.
Friend, as we think about this, even though our intention
may be to follow God as David's was, the only way to do that correctly is by following God's word. That's how God has revealed Himself to us in His word the Bible.
Now, let's turn our attention to the ugly in David's life. And friend, it is ugly in the sense that these things are violations of the will of God and heinous crimes against God and man. There are powerful lessons I can learn from in the negative sense of what not to do. What's the ugliest of all? We turn to 2 Samuel 11 and 12. We think about David. He's up on the rooftop, time when kings ought to be out to war. He sees beautiful Bathsheba bathing nude. He desires her. He wants to take her as wife and
at the time when he should've been out to war. He finds another man's wife he's attracted to. In 2 Samuel 11, he desires her. In the process, he takes her for his own. In the process of this adulterous relationship where David and Bathsheba are together, she becomes pregnant. He tries to bring her
husband home so he'll think it's his. He eventually sends him to the front lines and tells them to back away so that he'll be killed.
You've got adultery, lying, deception, murder, and a host of things going on here all because he wanted to have another man's wife. David's family suffered greatly because of this sin with Bathsheba, 2 Samuel 12 through 20. The things that go on with Absalom, the unrest that was in David's house, can be directly related back to this: David's sin against God in doing that.
We desperately need to realize that this was a violation of God's will and His commands. What do I learn from that? Friend, listen very carefully, we have the expression "the grass is always greener on the other side" but you know that's just not true. The Bible says in Proverbs 5,"Rejoice with the wife of your youth." If you're always trying to up the ante, you'll never be happy. If you can find the true joy in two people striving to serve God together and help one another get to heaven-what a wonderful thing that will be.
We have the adultery with Bathsheba, David's cover-up, his continued sinful relation in that and we have him causing her husband
to be murdered, and having to deal with the consequences and guilt of that. There are a host of things that were very ugly, back to this one event.
As you think about David's life and the ugly things in it, David did one other thing that God was deeply upset about. David sinned against God in his unauthorized census of the people. This is recorded in 2 Samuel 24 and as a result of this sin, 70,000 people died in three days. When you look at that context in 2 Samuel 24, it wasn't even that the numbering or the census was the problem is that in so doing it looks like they were putting their trust in their numbers not in God.
Friend, as we think about trusting God, it's not the numbers. It's not the amount of people. It's not the weaponry. It's not those types of things. It's God who is the true source of our health and our hope. People are going to be hurt.
You know I learn from David's life, when I make bad decisions and you make bad decisions, when we do things that are direct violation of God's will, it not only hurts us, it hurts others.
How do you think Bathsheba felt when she found out her husband was dead? How do you think that they both felt when that son died? How do you think David felt for the lie as a public figure, for the lying that he did there, for the deception, when the nation found out and they would, what happened? What about the 70,000 people who died because David decided to make a census for their own showing?
My actions and your actions, although sometimes we think they're independent of ourselves, have deep ramifications with everyone in our life.
I need to think about what I'm doing before I do that.
David, a man after God's own heart, teaches us good things we can do in serving God, in following him, living after his truth, and in trying to have the right heart.
We mentioned David did repent of those things. He did get his life right with God. He was man enough to say, ‘I have sinned. I've erred exceedingly.’ He said ‘you know I'm putting this out before you, help me deal with it,’ in essence. He was big enough to deal with it, and we learn greatly from that.
We also learn some things I don't want to do: I don't want to lie. I don't want to cheat. I don't want to look after another man's wife. I want to put my trust in God and His word. I always want to turn to this book to find out what to do.
Friend, we ask you today to seriously consider your own spiritual state.
Jesus asked two questions to get to the heart of what our real priority ought to be.
Jesus said, "What will it profit a man, if he gains the whole world and loses his own soul? Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?"
The most valuable thing you have, my friend, is your soul. That soul will spend eternity somewhere forever. There are only two options: either heaven with God and with Christ or hell with the devil and all the wicked of eternity.
Friend, our encouragement to you is to obey the gospel and become a Christian.
If you already believe Jesus is the son of God, would you be willing to follow that up by making true repentance in your life? Would you confess "I believe Jesus is the Christ"? Would you be baptized for the remission of your sins?
Wouldn't it be great of us, if one day, it was said that's a man who tried to follow the heart of God.
Study Questions for:
“Great Bible Characters Lesson 2: King David”
1. Who was the other king compared to in 1 Kings 15:3?
2. How did David beat Goliath in 1 Samuel 17?
3. According to Philippians 4:13, what can we do through Christ?
4. What great task did Jesus give us in Mark 16:15?
5. What did God promise us in Hebrews 13:5?
6. In 2 Samuel 23:2, who spoke through David?
7. In Psalms 51, did David acknowledge his sins and repent?
8. According to Romans 3:23, who has sinned and fallen short of the glory of God?
9. According to Luke 13:3, what will happen if we do not repent?
10. Who did David say he sinned against in Psalms 51:4?