The Grace Message with Dr. Andrew Farley

The renouncing in Titus 2:12 - is it a past event or something ongoing? My pastor told me that if we don't have enough fruit, we will be burned up at the Great White Throne! My 19-year-old son is sleeping with his girlfriend. What can I do?

How do we make sense of Acts 19:6 where 12 people are speaking in tongues and prophesying? What is Romans 9 really about, with God loving Jacob and hating Esau? I'm in love with an unbeliever, and I wonder: What should I do?

Was the Trinity involved in creation? Do we have a better deal today than Adam and Eve had? Even better than the disciples? If so, how? We have opportunities to share God's grace with others in our church, but not all of the leadership is on board. How can we navigate this? What is the parable of the unforgiving servant really about? Are we only forgiven by God if we are nice to other people first? What is "the sin that leads to death"? Why does 1 John 5 say not to pray about that sin? How is Abraham's sacrifice of Isaac a symbol or shadow of Christ's sacrifice? My pastor said we Christians have idols in our hearts. Do we really?

What if everything you thought you had to do for God was already done by Him? In Part 3 of our "Grace Under Fire" series, we tackle the tough questions that religion dodges and grace answers boldly. Can you lose your salvation? Does forgiveness mean repentance doesn't matter? Should every believer speak in tongues? What does it really mean to be led by the Spirit?

Let's face it—some of this stuff ruffles feathers. It challenges long-held assumptions, makes legalism squirm, and rewrites the narrative on how we relate to God. But the truth is stunning: You're not chasing a feeling or trying to get closer. You're already in—fully, completely, forever.

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1. So I can't lose my salvation? What about people who walk away?
2. If I'm totally forgiven, does repentance not matter?
3. Are you saying God's discipline has nothing to do with punishment?
4. Does being "led by the Spirit" mean we should wait for a feeling?
5. Should every believer speak in tongues? Is it a sign of salvation or maturity?
6. If we're under the New Covenant, why even read the Old Testament?
7. Why would the New Testament give so many instructions if it's not about rules?
8. Is this new covenant focus on God's grace just a "feel-good theology"?

Is the Israel of today the same as the Israel in the Old Testament? Why does Jesus say you can't pour new wine in old wineskins? Are we in the end times? I've heard people say, "My behavior doesn't matter, because I'm saved no matter what!" What do you think about that?

What is grieving or quenching the Spirit? Does it mean God is angry with us? How can I get back to when I used to trust God? I escaped legalism 15 years ago, but I still find myself double-minded in some ways, and I wonder what to do. What can you suggest?

How can Satan tempt so many people if he is not omnipresent? Why do we pray in Jesus's name? I think I need to be honest with my daughters about some things in my life. What should I do? What is a false prophet? Might I be one? I hear secret messages from satellites, and I record them!

The enemy can't touch me? What about temptation and accusation? What about when others harm me? Would you share the gospel with my 93-year-old grandfather? Why did Jesus say, "man does not live by bread alone"? Why did He refer to Himself as water and bread on different occasions?

Can you fall from grace and lose your salvation? What about all of the imperatives in the New Testament? What does it mean to pray in the Spirit?

Is our experience with the Holy Spirit different from believers in the Old Testament? How were they saved? What does God think about women leaders in the church? I know we are free from the Law for salvation, but what about for daily living? What does it mean to have springs of living water flowing out of us? My boyfriend says he cannot marry me because it would be adultery!