Toya Coleman aka Toya From Harlem is a podcaster, writer, speaker, plant mom, tattoo enthusiast, and historian. Her biweekly podcast That Wasn't In My Textbook explores everything you wish you'd learned in school minus the white-washed lens. We talked paying it forward, remembering the "why," throwing age milestones out the window, what makes a relationship healthy, and reimagining history in order to change the future.