What can jiu-jitsu actually give you beyond technique and medals?
In Episode 34 of the Grappling Monthly Podcast, we sit down with Professor Thyago Martins — owner and head instructor of TM Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu Academy in Orange, California for one of the most honest and wide-ranging conversations we've had on the show.
Thyago's story starts in Manaus, Brazil, where he began training BJJ after being bullied as a kid. That first class gave him something he hadn't expected: confidence. From there, jiu-jitsu took him from the Amazon to California, from local tournaments to coaching UFC and Bellator fighters, and eventually to opening his own academy — with $200 in his pocket and zero English.
This episode goes deep on what it actually takes to build a life through jiu-jitsu. In this episode we cover:
How training under Ronaldo Jacaré and world champion Gabriel Moraes shaped Thyago's game and mindsetWhy patience is the most transferable lesson from the mat to real lifeThe white belt mentality — and why it matters at every level, including black beltGi vs. no-gi: what each develops, and why you should train bothWhy your body type should dictate which athletes you studySpecific training, drilling, and how to actually retain what you learnThe "two positions per month" approach Thyago learned from Melqui GalvãoTeammate closeouts, competition ethics, and what's holding the sport backADCC, CJI, and what makes jiu-jitsu exciting — or frustrating — to watchWhy English fluency opened more doors for Thyago than almost anything elseWhat makes a gym culture real vs. performativeAnd the stories from inside his academy that will stick with you:
A student who walked in depressed, overweight, and lost — and walked out a different person.A former gang member who is now coaching.An 81-year-old student who couldn't open his hands or get off the mat alone when he started — and now drives himself to class and trains independently.That's what Thyago keeps coming back to: a gym isn't just a place where people learn moves. It's a place where people figure out who they are.
Connect with Professor Thyago Martins: 🔗 tmbjjacademy.com 📍 City of Orange, Orange County, California If you're in Southern California, the academy is open to visitors. I highly recommend you visit.
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