I believe that when a person chooses to interpret someone's words over listening ( reading ) to what that person said causes a lot of unneeded and negative energy.
I saw a post where Person A accused Person B of having a problematic post about sexual assault and rape being a fetish that can be cured with role play. Both Post are provided below
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Person A.
I’m not going to share the original post but Person B's latest problematic post about sexual assault and rape being a fetish that can be cured with role play is disgusting to say the least. If a survivor trusts you enough to share their story you don’t then share that story with your 35,000 followers. You do not put that survivor at even more risk by divulging that she shared a crime that was committed on her with you and let the people who committed the crime know that she shared that with you. Please if you feel compelled to defend Person B’s here, don’t, instead go to her page and ask her to take the post down. I can no longer comment on her page bc I did just that.
Person B
To the 5 guys who forced a woman to do things she didn't want to do recently, I hope one of you will see this and think about what you have done.
There are 5 of you, so my guess is you aren't all monsters. I would also guess that this did not only happen to the woman I met.
As a woman who has survived more than one rape, I can tell you that it can ruin lives. It takes a long time to recover. I lost years. Some people never come back. I lived in a cardboard box, my hair was matted and my teeth rotted to black nubs. We feel broken, dirty, ashamed, nervous and afraid. I felt suicidal. Does it make you feel like a big man to make a woman feel so small?
It's cowardly to force sexual intercourse with an unwilling party. The harder way, they way that proves you are a desirable man is to earn the honor of knowing a woman's body.
You may break us, but women are resilient creatures! We bring life forth and that is no small feat! Our bodies and our minds are capable of tremendous things! Hopefully this young woman will recover and rise above the pain. Hopefully she can tap into that certain magic we hold deep inside.
But more than anything I hope that you think about the pain and shame and years of suffering your one act of violence causes. There are healthier ways to handle your desires...for instance, role play with a consensual partner can satiate such urges. You are not a bad person if you have this type of fetish, but it is not okay to act on these impulses and take away another person's right to say no. Seek other methods of entertaining your desires.
NO MEANS NO.
"Devil's Night" is not an excuse to hurt people.
I met another woman later that same night who had experienced an assault. If you are a survivor of sexual assault, you are not alone. There are safe and understanding people who will help you sort through what you are feeling. It's too much to handle alone.
The people I spoke with recently both happened to be women, but men experience sexual assault, too, and their pain is equally as valid and real.
Rockford Sexual Assault Counseling: https://www.rockfordsexualassaultcounseling.org/resources.html
National Sexual Assault Hotline 1-800-656-4673
