The Guys Fishing Weekly

The Guys Fishing Weekly

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The Guys Fishing Weekly episodes

  • Live From Silver Trout Lodge: Origin Stories, Favorite Jokes and Skunky Beer Boat Day (Ep. 11)

    Summary

    In this week's chit-chat, our pals Ed and Reid are joined by fellow GFW'ers, Joe and Robb, at the cozy Silver Trout Lodge in Nathrop, CO. They're all set to unravel a fantastic weekend of fishing they enjoyed together, their first impressions about GFW, and of course, there's a hearty dose of laughter sprinkled throughout. You'll get a sneak peek into what their annual fishing trip, a tradition of 28 years, really looks like and how it's blossomed over time. To wrap it all up, they stroll down memory lane, recalling some unforgettable moments like the "Skunky Beer Boat Day" and "The 50 Foot Fall into the River". Don't miss out!
    Takeaways

    • Silver Trout Lodge in Nathrop, Colorado is an excellent place for a Guys Fishing Weekend. It's right near the Arkansas River and Chalk Creek, two fantastic fisheries.
    • Fishing trips aren't only about fishing. They're also about hanging out with friends, playing cards, and eating meals together.
    • It's good to take a break from everyday life to enjoy nature and have adventures.
    • These fishing weekends can help you grow as a person, make good memories, and are a great way to relax.
    • Learning from each other is a big part of these trips. The friends you choose to go on these weekends with give valuable insights and perspectives.
    • It's important to check in with each other and support each other. Fishing weekends are a time for men to celebrate their wins, share what they are navigating and help each other.
    • Even when things get tough, the fun, adventures, and memories make it worth it. It's more than just a fishing trip.
      • 1 hr 3 min
    • Two Great Conversation Starters to Open Any Conversation Wide Open (Ep. 10)

      In this week’s chat, our friends Reid and Ed are catching up using a couple of conversation starters that have a way of opening a conversation wide open. Reid has a great trick to make these chats more fun and meaningful. He simply asks, 'What are you celebrating in life right now?' They both agree it's super important to take time to enjoy and celebrate all the good stuff in life. But their conversation doesn't stop at celebrations. They also dive into the second question in their series of conversation starters that really make you think: 'What are you navigating in your life right now?' They believe this question is key to forging stronger connections, as it opens up a safe space for folks to share their current struggles and ask for a helping hand if needed. These questions are a secret life hack on how to get a conversation flowing and have a few chuckles along the way.

      Takeaways

      • Asking the question 'What are you celebrating?' can make conversations more positive and allow the speaking pair to take a conversation anywhere they please.
      • Focusing on accomplishments and milestones in life can bring a sense of joy and fulfillment.
      • Celebrating the achievements of others, such as children, can strengthen relationships and create a supportive environment.
      • The question 'What are you navigating in your life right now?' allows for deeper conversations and provides an opportunity for people to share their struggles and ask for help.
      • Navigating parenting older kids can be challenging, but it also provides opportunities for growth and meaningful conversations.
      • Being informed and making well-informed decisions is important in navigating life's challenges.
      • Open and honest communication is key in building strong relationships and fostering deeper connections.
        • 43 min
      • Robb Gneiser - Burro Racing, Life Beyond Work, Benefits of GFW, and more (Ep. 9)

        This week, Ed and Reid test their interview skills on one of their favorite GFW members, Robb Gneiser. Kicking off with a casual chat about the joys of retirement and the ups and downs of running training, our dynamic duo even consider participating in a Burro Race (Racing Donkeys? Now that's something we'd love to see!). In between the laughter, they take a moment to reflect on the unforgettable times they've had on Guys Fishing Weekend, underlining the importance of trust and vulnerability in their camaraderie. Overflowing with gratitude for the unbreakable bond they've developed and the chance to grow together, the conversation is peppered with themes of friendship, bonding, and the sheer joy of being outdoors, especially when there's fishing involved! They delve into the importance of staying genuine and present in their interactions, highlighting how shared experiences and cherished memories can tighten their bonds. The guys also discuss the invaluable role of teaching and passing on what they've learned, not just about fishing, but about life too. Wrapping up this heartwarming chat, they take a moment to reflect on some of their favorite memories on their GFW.


        Takeaways:

        • Participating in unique and challenging activities, such as a burro race, can be a fun way to bond with friends.
        • The Guys Fishing Weekend has provided a space for trust, vulnerability, and deep friendship to develop over the years.
        • Being present and authentic in relationships is key to maintaining strong bonds.
        • Shared experiences and memories create lasting connections.
        • Teaching and passing on knowledge, whether in fishing or in life, is a valuable way to connect with others.
        • Retirement brings new challenges and opportunities for personal growth.
        • Surrounding oneself with people who challenge and inspire can lead to personal and professional development.
          • 1 hr 6 min
        • Finding Your Tribe: How Third Spaces Transform Friendship and Personal Growth (Ep. 8)

          In this friendly chat, Ed and Reid dive into the fascinating realm of Third Spaces, one of the three main social arenas where folks get to mix and mingle. They shine a light on the importance of intentionally carving out these Third Spaces and the pure joy that comes from doing stuff together. They underline how crucial these Third Spaces are in sparking social connections, mentorship opportunities, and personal growth. They also tackle the tricky part - engaging in these Third Spaces as life, work, kids and travel take more of your time. The Guys Fishing Weekend is brought up as a brilliant example of a purposefully created Third Space that offers a laid-back and genuine setting for some quality male bonding.


          Takeaways:

          • Third Spaces are the social surroundings where people spend time interacting with others.
          • Engaging in Third Spaces fosters social interaction, mentorship, and personal growth.
          • Creating intentional Third Spaces is important for maintaining social connections.
          • Engaging in activities with other individuals in Third Spaces is the best way to stay engaged in society.
          • The Guys Fishing Weekend is an example of an intentional Third Space that provides an unguarded and authentic environment for male bonding.
            • 49 min
          • The Life Road Map, Bushwhacking and “The River Why” (Ep. 7)

            In this week’s conversation, Ed and Reid discuss a number of topics they have come across that have provided value to them. The discuss a road map on how to live a great life, stories of bushwhacking to find fish and a favorite book, “The River Why”. They also explore the idea of having a personal conversational resume. A wide ranging conversation with each other, with plenty of laughs along the way.


            Takeaways:

            - The Seasons of Life: Finding time for hobbies and adventures can be challenging but important for personal fulfillment.

            - Bushwhacking, or exploring off-trail to find secluded fishing spots, can lead to memorable and rewarding experiences.

            - Outdoor activities and shared adventures can deepen friendships and provide a sense of solitude and authenticity.

            - Small talk is an important stage in the connection process and can lead to meaningful conversations.

            - Creating a conversational resume with a list of topics can help in small talk and personal identity.

            - Culture plays a significant role in our lives and relationships, and it is important to create a positive and welcoming culture.

            - The book 'The River Why' by David James Duncan is a coming-of-age story that explores the search for meaning and the value of relationships.

            53 min
          • Nymphing, The History of Recreational Fishing, and Samsara (Ep. 6)

            In this week’s episode, Reid and Ed are just having a laugh while talking about some topics that they have found value in recently. They discuss a wide ranging set of topics from the history of recreational fishing, to the journey of retirement and finding happiness. They make sure to rib one another, as fishermen do, about their technology woes as well as lack of expertise in different fishing styles. It’s all in good fun, just a couple of guys having a chat.

            Takeaways

            • Nymphing in fishing can be a valuable technique for catching more and bigger fish, especially during the winter season. The dry dropper method is an effective fishing technique.
            • “Samsara” and escaping the circular wandering through life.
            • When facing a major life change, it's important to focus on the present and not worry about the future.
            • Finding happiness is an inside job and should NOT rely on external factors or other people.
            • Allowing children to experience failure and discomfort can help them develop resilience and independence.
              • 48 min
            • Strip Poker, Car Rides and Jokes That Last a Lifetime (Ep. 5)

              In this episode, Ed and Reid talk about one of the all-time great welcome pranks pulled at a Guys Fishing Weekend. They read through and discuss the writing piece “Naked Cards” and the value that this prank has given to the weekend over the years. The conversation explores some of the favorite traditions of GFW, including poker nights, drives up the mountain, and inside jokes. Lots of laughs and fun times in this one!


              Takeaways

              • Inside jokes are the glue that holds weekends like GFW together.
              • Pranks can be great ice breakers as well as create lasting memories and bonds among one another.
              • The moments where you are stuck in a situation and encouraged to interact are the most special.
              • The passing of a loved one reminds us to cherish relationships and live in the present moment.
              • Nothing is forever.
                • 47 min
              • What Happens Around a Campfire, Stays Around a Campfire (Ep. 4)

                Summary

                This week, after a recent fishing/camping trip, Ed and Reid got to talking about how awesome campfire chats are and all the cool stuff that makes them so special. They chatted about give and take, really hearing each other out, the power of a good piece of advice, and just letting your guard down. They also talked about the magic of a campfire and how it pulls deep chats out of people and tightens friendships. They ended things by saying how important it is to soak up the moments you share with your favorite people.

                Takeaways

                • Campfire chats are like the best thing ever for having real talks and bonding.
                • It's all about give and take in relationships where everyone can put in their two cents and get some support.
                • Remember to actually listen! It's a skill we often forget but it's super important for real talks.
                • Advice is like gold, but remember to give it from the heart and really mean it.
                • Being open, ready to give not just take, and being there in the moment is how you make those deep connections.
                  • 45 min
                • The Benefits of Being Vulnerable

                  Summary

                  This discussion underscores the challenges, advantages, and importance of vulnerability, especially for men. It touches on suppressed emotions, desensitization, authenticity, and the need for trust-building. The role of adventure in reducing barriers and creating spaces for vulnerability is highlighted. It suggests a balanced approach towards vulnerability, considering its impact on mental wellness, personal growth, and relationships.

                  Takeaways

                  • Vulnerability is often seen as a sign of weakness for men, but it is important for building deep and meaningful relationships.
                  • Vulnerability takes time and authenticity to develop, and it is important to find spaces and relationships where you feel comfortable being vulnerable.
                  • Suppressing emotions can lead to a lack of emotional awareness and difficulties in managing emotions.
                  • Adventure and hardships can help break down barriers and build vulnerability in relationships. Different people have different comfort levels with vulnerability, and this can affect the pace at which they open up in relationships.
                  • Vulnerability involves a risk, but the rewards can be significant in terms of personal growth and learning.
                    • 50 min
                  • Talkin' About NA Beers and Sobriety

                    The conversation covers topics such as weekend adventures, fishing trip recaps, reflections on sobriety, navigating social events, and the importance of safe communities. The hosts discuss their personal experiences with sobriety and the challenges they faced in social situations. They also touch on the perception of sobriety and the support they received from their friends and family. The conversation ends with a reflection on the importance of acceptance and the creation of a safe community.


                    Takeaways

                    • Sobriety is a personal journey that can be challenging but ultimately rewarding.
                    • Having a supportive community is crucial for maintaining sobriety.
                    • Navigating social events as a sober person can be difficult, but finding alternative drinks and creating a new identity can help.
                    • Changing the perception of sobriety in society is important to create a more accepting and inclusive environment.

                      • 42 min

                    About The Guys Fishing Weekly

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                    The Guys Fishing Weekly is a podcast dedicated to the camaraderie of men through fishing. Hosted by Ed and Reid, it's where men gather to share not just the thrill of the catch but the deeper…

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