In this episode, we explore ow we have both been through some really tough times in our lives.  Both of us feel that the most difficult times have led to the most growth and even the biggest blessings when we viewed these challenges as a way to grow and change, adjusting to the new reality which was forced upon us.  When we are faced with difficult situations in life, we can often move forward by changing our perspectives from a victim mentality to a perspective of overcoming and then look for ways to help others.  It really does feel good to give back!